Kodi Autistic Adults Ali ndi Ana?
Kodi munthu wamkulu ndi autism angakhale kholo lopambana? Yankho lake ndilo inde, pansi pa zovuta. Ngakhale munthu yemwe ali ndi autism yosavuta kapena yovuta sangayembekezere kukhala ndi luso lolera mwana, anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi ntchito zogwirira ntchito autism ali okonzeka, okonzeka, ndi okhoza kuthana ndi mavuto olerera ana. Mbali zambiri za kulera zimakhala zovuta kwa amayi ndi abambo pamasewero.
Komabe, zowonjezereka ndizoona: Pali njira zina zomwe kholo lingalekerere ngati muli autistic (makamaka ngati muli ndi ana pa autism spectrum).
Kuthamanga Kwambiri Autism ndi Parenthood
Mu 1994, buku lofufuza ndi zofufuza za Mental Disorders (DSM) linasinthidwa kuti likhale ndi mtundu watsopano wa autism. Wotchedwa Asperger syndrome , unaphatikizapo anthu omwe sanaganizire kuti ndi autistic. Kuwonjezera kwa matenda a Asperger kwa DSM kunasintha momwe anthu amaganizira za autism.
Anthu omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe otchukawa a autism anali anzeru, okhoza, komanso opambana. Ngakhale kuti adakhala ndi mavuto akuluakulu ndi zovuta komanso kulankhulana, iwo adatha (nthawi zina) kuti asungunuke, kugonjetsa, kapena kupeŵa mavuto awa. Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi matenda a Asperger adakwatira kapena amapeza anzawo, ndipo ambiri anali ndi ana.
Chifukwa chakuti matenda a Asperger sanalipo mpaka 1994, anthu ochepa okha omwe anakulira asanakhalepo nthawi yomweyo analandira chirichonse monga autism spectrum diagnosis-osachepera mpaka atakhala ndi ana okha.
Ndiye, nthawi zina, pamene akufufuza kuti apeze ana awo, makolo adapeza kuti nazonso, amatha kudziwidwa kumapeto kwa autism spectrum.
Panthaŵiyi, ana anali kukula omwe, makamaka, analandira matenda a Asperger monga ana. Ana awa anali kukula ndi matenda a autism ndipo anapeza mankhwala othandiza kuthana ndi mavuto awo.
Kwa anthu ena, autism ndi mavuto ake adayambitsanso njira yobereka. Kwa ena ambiri, sizinatero. Ndipo, ndithudi, anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amafuna chabe zomwe anzawo amakonda: banja.
Mu 2013, matenda a Asperger monga gulu lachidziwitso adachotsedwa ku DSM . Masiku ano, anthu omwe ali ndi zizindikiro zogwira ntchito nthawi ina amatchedwa Asperger syndrome tsopano ali ndi "autism spectrum". Izi, ndithudi, sizinakhudzidwe makamaka ndi anthu omwe akufuna kukhala (kapena kukhala) kholo.
Zikhulupiriro Zokhudza Makolo Ovomerezeka
Pali nthano zambiri zokhudzana ndi autism . Nthano izi zingakhale zovuta kumvetsa momwe munthu wa autistic angakhalire kholo labwino. Mwamwayi, nthano ziri, mwa tanthauzo, zabodza! Nazi zolakwika zochepa zokha za autism:
- Anthu omwe ali ndi autism samamva mwachibadwa . Ngakhale anthu omwe ali ndi autism angakhale ndi zosiyana zosiyana ndi zochitika kapena zochitika zina monga anzawo anzawo, amamva chisangalalo, mkwiyo, chidwi, chisokonezo, chisangalalo, chikondi, ndi zina zotengeka .
- Anthu omwe ali ndi autism sangathe kukonda. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, izi si zoona.
- Anthu omwe ali ndi autism sangamvetse chisoni ndi ena . Nthawi zina, zimakhala zovuta kwa anthu autistic kudziyika okha mu nsapato za wina amene akufuna, amamva, kapena amachitira zinthu zomwe sizikuchitika. Koma ndithudi izi ndi zoona kwa anthu onse: ndizovuta kumvetsa, mwachitsanzo, ndi mwana amene akufuna kuchita zinthu zomwe simukuzikonda kapena zomwe sakonda zomwe mumakonda.
- Anthu omwe ali ndi autism sangathe kulankhulana bwino . Anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri autism amagwiritsa ntchito chiyankhulo komanso (kapena kuposa) anzawo. Komabe, akhoza kukhala ovuta ndi "chiyanjano," zomwe zikutanthauza kuti angafunikire kugwira ntchito molimbika kusiyana ndi ambiri kuti amvetsetse thupi kapena njira zowonongeka.
Kuganizira za Makolo Ndi Autism
Jessica Benz wa Dalhousie ku New Brunswick, Canada, ndi mayi wa ana asanu. Anamuthandizira kuti azitha kupeza mayankho a mavuto ake. Nazi malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro okhudza kulera ngati wamkulu pa autism spectrum.
Nchiyani chinakupangitsani kuti mudziwe nokha matenda a autism? Kodi mukuganiza kuti mukufuna kufufuza ngati mukuganiza kuti MUNGAPHUNZITSWE?
Kufufuza kwanga kunayamba kukhala wamkulu ngati ana anga awiri atapezeka kale ndipo tinayamba kukambirana mbiri ya banja ndi mmodzi mwa akatswiri a maganizo omwe timagwira nawo ntchito. Pamene ndinayankhula zokhudzana ndi zochitika zina pamene mwana adakagona ndi zomwe ndinaziona mwa ana anga, njuvu yatha. Ndinapitiriza kufufuza ndi kuunika kuchokera pamenepo ngati ndingadzizindikiritse ndekha monga munthu, komanso monga kholo.
Ndikuganiza kuti zambiri zimakhala bwino, makamaka za ife eni. Ngati wina akumva ngati autism angakhale mbali ya mapepala omwe amapanga miyoyo yawo, ndi bwino kufunsa za izo ndikupempha kuunika. Monga momwe timayendera malemba ochapa zovala kuti tipeze malangizo, titha kumvetsetsa zomwe zimapanga miyoyo yathu, ndibwino kuti tizitha kuonetsetsa kuti tikugwiritsa ntchito bwino ndikusamalira ndi anthu ena.
Kodi kuphunzira kuti ndinu autistic kumakhudza chisankho chanu chokhala ndi (zina) ana? ndipo ngati ndi choncho, munapanga bwanji chisankho?
Ndithudi, podziwa kuti ndine wodalirika, ndinakhudzidwa ndi zisankho zanga, koma panthawi imene ndinapezeka, tinali ndi ana atatu (tsopano tili ndi zisanu). Kotero sichinatipangitse ife kukhala ndi mantha kuti tikhale ndi ana ambiri, zimangotanthauza kuti takhala ndi kumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa ana omwe tiri nawo. Kumvetsetsa bwino momwe ndimamvera nthawi zina, chifukwa chiyani ndimaganiza kuti zinthu zina zinali zosavuta kwa anthu ena kuposa momwe zinalili kwa ine, ndipo ndikumverera ngati sindinali kuchita zonse bwino, kunandipatsa mphamvu kuti ndiyambe kusintha moyo wanga kuti ndikhale kholo lochitidwa komanso lodzipereka.
Ndimakumbukira ndikudziimba mlandu pamene wamkulu wanga anali wachinyamata kuti ndikuyembekezera mwachidwi nthawi yogona. Ndinkamva kuti inali nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndimapuma kuchokera pamene ankakwera m'mawa. Sizinali kuti sindinkafuna kubereka, ndinkasangalala nazo kwambiri ndipo ndimakonda kufufuza dziko lapansi naye. Koma kulakwitsa kumene ndinamva chifukwa ndikuyembekezera nthawi yogona ndi maola angapo popanda kukhala 'pa' kundisokoneza. Kuzindikiritsa mwadzidzidzi kuti maola awiriwa tsiku ndi nthawi yodzidalira kunandithandiza kuti ndikhale ndi kholo popanda kutopa ndi kutentha kumene ndinali nako kale.
Komanso, ndinazindikiranso zinthu zina zomwe ndimayenera kukhala nazo kuti ndione ngati ndingakhale ndi moyo monga kholo. Ndakhala nthawizonse ndakhala wokongola kwambiri pambali pazozoloŵera, kuyeretsa, kukonzekera, ndi kukonzekera. Kulimbana ndi moyo kunabweretsa mavuto ambiri pamene ndinkafuna kuti zinthu zitheke pa nthawi yake, kapena panthawi yomwe ndinkakhala ndikuyembekezera.
Kutembenuka, kulera ndikutanganidwa ndi zosayembekezereka ndi nthawi zomwe simukuzidziwa! Ndinaganiza zoyesera kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zomwe ndinkasamalira ana anga pa moyo wanga, ndipo ndinadabwa kwambiri kuti zinthu zinakhala zosavuta. Ndinayendetsa ndondomeko yoyendetsera nyumba, ndondomeko yoyendetsera tsikulo. Ndikutsimikiza kulemba ndondomeko ya tsiku ndi tsiku tsiku ndi tsiku (ndi zowonetseratu komanso ana aang'ono) kotero kuti tonse tiwone zomwe zikuchitika tsiku ndi tsiku ndikudziwa kukonzekera pasadakhale.
Kungodziwa kuti ndikuyenerera kudzipereka ndekha ndikupereka ana anga kuti ndimve ngati ndikusamalira zosowa zanga ndikuwonetsa ana anga kuti angathe kuchita chimodzimodzi ndi akuluakulu komanso kuyang'anira miyoyo yawo. Anthu ambiri amamva mawu autism ndikuwonetsa wina akusowa anthu ena kuti atsimikizire zowonjezera.
Ndikofunika kwa ine kuti ana anga awone kuti ali okhoza kuyendetsa miyoyo yawo komanso kuwalimbikitsa pamoyo wawo kuti azisamalira okha. Kuwonetsera kuti ndine njira imodzi amatha kuimiritsa zomwe amamva nthawi zambiri kuti ndizofunikira. Tonsefe tiri ndi zosowa zenizeni, ngakhale anthu omwe ali ndi ubongo. Tili ndi udindo wopatsa ana athu mphamvu kuti adziwe ndi kuthandizira zosowa zawo.
Tsopano, nchifukwa ninji tiri ndi ana asanu? Ndikutanthauza, iwo ali okweza, iwo ali osokonezeka, amakangana, amatsutsana wina ndi mzake, ndipo wina nthawizonse amamuvutitsa wina. Komabe, amamvetseranso kwambiri, amathandizana kwathunthu. M'dziko limene maubwenzi ndi maubwenzi awo ndi ovuta, ana awa akukula mozama kwambiri pakuphunzira kusokoneza ndikugwira nawo ntchito mogwirizana kuti ali okonzeka kukambirana ndi ana ena. Iwo nthawi zonse adzakhala ndi chithandizo cha banja m'miyoyo yawo omwe amawamvetsa mwamtheradi, ngakhale ngati sangagwirizane nthawi zonse. Izi ndi zofunika kwa ife.
Kodi kuphunzira kuti ndinu autistic kusintha momwe inu kholo? Mwachitsanzo, kodi mwasankha kupempha thandizo lina, kusintha momwe mumayankhira ndi makhalidwe oipa, ndi zina zotero?
Zandichititsa kufuna, komanso ndikudziŵa zambiri. Zandipatsanso malo oti ndivomereze kuti ndili ndi udindo wokhudzana ndi zosowa zanga kuti ndikhale ndi bwino kubereka ana anga. Ndaphunzira kuzindikira pamene ndikudandaula ndisanafike poopsya, ndipo ndaphunzira kutenga nthawi kuti ndibwezere.
Ndimaganiziranso za ubwana wanga, ndikudabwa kwambiri ndikalephera kulira pazinthu zomwe ziyenera kukhala zazing'ono, kapena ndikabwera kunyumba kuchokera ku sukulu ndikukwiya kwambiri popanda chifukwa. Ndimakumbukira manyazi omwe ndinamva ngati mwana wokhudzana ndi zinthu zimenezi, ndipo ndikufuna kutsimikiza kuti ana anga samva choncho. Ndinali ndi mwayi, ndipo ndinalandira kulera koyenera ndikuyankhira zinthu izi mwangozi, chifukwa cha makolo omwe anandimvetsa kwambiri.
Sindinapangidwe konse ndipo nthawi zonse ndinkakonda kupyolera mu zotayika, ngakhale sindinadziwe kuti kusungunuka kwapadera kunali kotani. Koma ndikukumbukira ndikudzimva manyazi chifukwa cholephera kuthetsa maganizo ndi maganizo anga momwe aliyense amawonekera. Ndinali wophunzira wachitsanzo, nthawi zonse pamwamba pa kalasi yanga, ndipo ndimakhala mwamantha munthu wina atadziwa kuti ndinalira chifukwa ndinkayenera kulankhulana ndi mnzanga m'sitolo.
Ndimayesetsa kuthandiza ana anga kumvetsa. Ndikufuna kuti adziwe kuti ndimvetsetsa chifukwa chake chinachake chosayembekezeka chikhoza kutaya tsiku lonse ndipo sindikuwaimba kapena kuwona ngati akuyenera kulimbana bwino. Ngati ndikanadziwa kuti ubongo wanga sunasinthe zinthu monga momwe ena onse adachitira, ndikuganiza kuti ndikanakhala wokoma mtima. Monga kholo, ndikufuna kuphunzitsa ana anga kuti azikhala okoma mtima kwa iwo eni.
Kodi ndi mavuto otani a makolo omwe mumakumana nawo KODI ndinu autistic?
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi masiku a masewera. Awa ndi mtundu wapadera wachisoni kwa ine. Choyamba, ine ndikhala ndi tani ya anthu omwe amabwera kumalo anga (Egad-ayi!) Kapena ndikuyenera kutengera ana anga kumalo ena. Kawirikawiri, anthu ena akhoza kukhala opanda ana, koma palibe wina koma makolo ena amene akulera ana okhala ndi autism ZINTHU zosalepheretsa ana. Choncho, ndikulimbikitsanso kukhala osamala ndikuonetsetsa kuti palibe chimene chikuphwanyidwa pamene ndikuyesera kukamba nkhani zing'onozing'ono komanso osadziŵa nthawi yothetsera kulankhula. Masabata onse osewera amafunika madzulo onse a nthawi yopuma tonsefe, ndipo mwinamwake usiku wa pizza wachisanu kuti tibwerere.
Tiyeni tipitirire ku zovuta zathu . Ndine munthu amene ntchito yake yamalotowo inkagwira ntchito yosanja moto. Palibe anthu, phokoso, osalowera, kungokhala chete ndi malo omasuka. "Kodi simungatope?" anthu adafunsa. Sindinamvetsetse funsoli.
Mwachionekere, moyo m'nyumba ndi ana asanu amawoneka mosiyana. Mafoni a m'manja amapezeka m'nyumba mwathu. Zaka zingapo zapitazo ndinatopa ndikulirira aliyense kuti 'Tembenuzani!' Ndinasiya ndikupatsa aliyense mafoni awo kuti ndikhale ndi mawu okweza. Nthaŵi yothetsa yosagwirizana. Ambiri mwa ana asiya kugona, koma akufunsidwa kuti azikhala mosamala m'chipinda chawo tsiku ndi tsiku akuwerenga mwakachetechete, akusewera piritsi (oh, momwe ndimakondera makompyuta!) Ndikungokhalapo popanda kuvulaza mipando ndi makoma.
Pamene ali kusukulu, izi zimangobwera kwa ana aang'ono, koma pamapeto a sabata komanso m'nyengo yozizira izi ndi za aliyense. Zoonadi, ndikuwauza kuti nkofunika kuphunzira kupumula ndi kudzipiritsa okha. Koma ndithudi, ndi momwe ndimapezera kuchokera kumapeto kwa tsiku kupita kumzake popanda kukhala kholo lovuta. Mphindi 45 imandipatsa nthawi yokhala ndi khofi yotentha, kumbukirani kupuma ndi kubwereranso madzulo ndi chisangalalo.
Kodi autism imakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi ntchito yabwino ngati kholo la ana omwe ali ndi autism? Ngati ndi choncho, bwanji?
Mwamtheradi. Ndikuganiza kuti gawo lovuta kwambiri la ana oleredwa ndi autism silikumveka. Ndi zophweka kunena zinthu zonse zabwino; N'zosavuta kunena kuti tikudziwa kuti sangathe kuyendetsa kusungunuka . Koma kuti mumvetsetse malingaliro awo, kuti muwadziwe bwino, kuti mudziwe chomwe chiri kumverera ngati malingaliro anu akuthawa ndi kumangokhalira kumverera ndi thupi lanu pa ulendo-ndizosatheka kufotokozera kwa anthu omwe sanamvepo.
Komabe, nditachidziŵa, zimandipatsa zenera panthawi yomwe akukhala. Izo zimandilola ine kuti ndizikomane nawo kumene iwo ali, mmalo mowapempha iwo kuti akakomane nane theka. Zimandithandiza kuti ndikhale wowatsimikizira. Zimandilola kuti ndiwauze kuti, 'ngakhale amayi amamva choncho nthawi zina.'
Kodi ndi njira ziti zomwe mukulimbana nazo zomwe mwatchula kuti mungafune kudutsa?
Landirani malo anu otonthoza. Ndiko chifukwa zimagwira ntchito. Ngati mungathe kupeza kuchokera kumapeto a tsiku ndi tsiku ndi wina aliyense okondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa, pokwaniritsa zosowa za tsikuli ndikupulumutsa aliyense, mwakhala mukukwanira tsiku. Kulera si mpikisano, simapambana mphoto kuti ndi Pamai Mom. Ngati mwana wanu akuwonekera kusukulu ndi malaya awo mkati momwemo chifukwa njira yabwino yoyenera kuzungulira ikamenyana, kumva mwana wanu ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yomwe mungakhalire nayo. Inde, ngakhale ngati linali tsiku la chithunzithunzi, ndipo muli nawo apo monga belu likulira, pamene mukuvekanso mathalauza anu a pajama. Mwina mungafune kukonzekera mathalauza enieni pamisonkhano ya IEP-amawoneka kuti akuyatsa tanthauzo lolondola.
Kodi mwagawana nawo matenda anu a autism ndi ana anu? Ngati ndi choncho, kodi munachita bwanji zimenezi?
Inde, chifukwa wakhala akukambirana mobwerezabwereza m'nyumba mwathu, sizowulula. Timayankhula za ubongo monga mbali yofunikira ya dziko lapansi, komanso za anthu onse padziko lapansi omwe ubongo wawo umagwira ntchito mosiyana. Ndimasankha kukwaniritsa zofuna zanga ndikulimbikitsa ana kuti azichita chimodzimodzi. Akandiwona ndikunena kuti, 'Ndakhala ndikusamba, ndikusamba kwa theka la ora,' ndizosavuta kuti andiuze pamene akufuna mpumulo chifukwa ndizochizolowezi komanso zovomerezeka. banja.
Kodi mumapeza kuti autism imapangitsa kuti kukhale kovuta kuti muzitha kuyang'anira zokhudzana ndi ubongo (pakati pa makolo a ana, odwala, aphunzitsi, ndi zina zotero)?
Zingathe kukhala, makamaka ngati ndikuwulula zenizeni zanga. Posakhalitsa tinapeza wina wogwira ntchito ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna wazaka zisanu yemwe anali kugwiritsa ntchito zizoloŵezi zoipa komanso zopweteka. Nditamaliza kufotokozera nkhawa zanga ndikudziwonetsa yekha, ndikuwoneka kuti wasintha, ndiye kuti chiganizo chilichonse chinatsirizika ndi, 'Kodi mumamvetsa?' ngati kuti sindinali woyenera komanso wokhoza.
Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala mawu osalankhula. Ambiri omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito ndi okonzeka kumvetsera komanso okoma mtima komanso olemekezeka. Komabe, ndili ndi maphunziro ndi zokhudzana ndi zovuta kuti ndipeze anthu ena ambiri, ndipo ndikudabwa nthawi zina ngati malingaliro anga olimbikitsa ndi kulengeza koopsa akuwoneka ngati kholo lovuta popanda kubweza mawu anga.
Ndimakonda kusagwiritsira ntchito bwino nthawi yoti ndisiye kulankhula, kusiya kuphunzitsa, kusiya kufotokozera, ndipo ndikulimbikira mpaka zokambirana zikupita. Nthawi zina, sindikuganiza kuti zimapita bwino. Sindikudziwa kuti ndikanakhala woimira mulandu, sizinali zochitika zanga. Ndikufuna kuganiza kuti ndikanakhala liwu lomwe ana anga akuyenerera, koma ndikuganiza kuti mwina sindinakhale nawo misonkhano yambiri yopikisana pokhapokha ngati sindinakhalepo ndi zochitika zanga ndekha.
Kodi pali mankhwala othandizira kuti azisamalira bwino makolo?
Sindinapezepo mtundu umodzi womwe umagwira ntchito kwa aliyense wa ife. Monga momwe palibe anthu awiri omwe ali ndi autism omwe ali ndi zofanana zofanana, palibe chithandizo chomwe chidzakhudza aliyense.
Tagwiritsira ntchito njira zambiri zomwe zatengedwa kuchokera kuchipatala kuti banja lathu liziyenda bwino. Timagwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko zowonetserako, ndondomeko, ndi ntchito zambiri pa luso lamoyo. Timagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala , komanso PECS ngati n'kofunika kuti tithe kuyankhulana. Timachita yoga kuthandiza ndi maganizo / thupi, ndipo chinthu chomwe ndapeza ndi ntchito yomwe inagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi wothandizira pogwiritsa ntchito CBT kuti ndiphunzire kusiya zomwe ndikuyembekeza kuti ndizomwe zilizonse kwa aliyense, kulikonse.
Kulera ndi nkhani yokhala woyendayenda; nthawi zina muyenera kusintha ulendo kuti mukwaniritse zosowa za aliyense. Mukungofunikira kudziwa momwe mungachitire izo mwanjira yoti wina asawone kuti akusowa.
Kulera Kuchokera kwa Bambo Womwe Ali ndi Moyo Wonse wa Autism
Christopher Scott Wyatt ndi wachikulire ndi autism (ndi PhD) yemwe amalemba za zochitika zake pa http://www.tameri.com/csw/autism/. Iye ndi mkazi wake ndi makolo othandiza (omwe angakhale ovomerezeka) a ana omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera.
Nchiyani chinakupangitsani kuti mudziwe nokha matenda a autism?
Poyamba anapeza kuti atangobereka mwakuthupi, matendawa amatha kusintha zaka zingapo. Zinali "autism" pofika chaka cha 2006 kapena pamene DSM-IV-TR inasintha zinthu ndipo inali yofala kwambiri. Popeza malemba adasintha , sindikudziwa kuti iwo anali othandiza; ngati chili chonse chimene iwo amalephera kuchita posachedwa maphunziro anga. Lero, takhala tikudziwikanso za matenda a ana athu. Ikhoza kuthandiza, ndipo ikhoza kupweteka.
Kodi kuphunzira kuti ndinu autistic kumakhudza chisankho chanu chokhala ndi ana? Ndipo ngati ndi choncho, munapanga bwanji chisankhocho?
Osati kwenikweni. Tinkadikirira kufikira titakhala ndi nyumba ndipo tinali otetezeka, mwinamwake zambiri za umunthu wathu. Ine ndi mkazi wanga tinkafuna kupereka nyumba yabwino, yokhazikika kwa ana aliyense, kaya zachibadwa kapena abambo-amatha.
Kodi kuphunzira kuti ndinu autistic kusintha momwe inu kholo?
Ndizotheka kuti autism yanga imandipangitsa ine kukhala woleza mtima, ngati chifukwa chakuti tikudziwa momwe ndaphunzirira maphunziro ndi kuthandizira. Ndili woleza mtima ndi zosowa za ana kuti azikhala chete, azikonzekera, komanso kuti azidziletsa. Ndikumvetsa kuti zinthu zofuna kuti zikhale mwadongosolo komanso zodziwika. Iwo amafunikira izo, monga ana oyembekezera, ndipo iwo adzazifuna izo ngati ife tingakhoze kutenga.
Kodi ndi mavuto otani a makolo omwe mumakumana nawo KODI ndinu autistic?
Tilibe chithandizo chothandizira, mwina osati mwapadera. Tili ndi ife ndi ana, pamodzi ndi zothandizira zoperekedwa m'masukulu. Kotero, motere, ndife osiyana ndi makolo ena chifukwa tilibe chiyanjano ndi makolo ambiri. Masewera a masewera samachitika chifukwa ena omwe ali pafupi ndi ana awo ndi aakulu kuposa athu.
Kodi ndi njira ziti zothetsera mavuto zomwe mukufuna kuti muzidutsa?
Nthawi yotonthoza ndi mipata yamtendere kwa ife ndi ana. Ngwembe za nyemba zomwe zili ndi mabuku zimawathandiza kwambiri. Timakhalanso ndi zinthu zowonongeka: mipira yovutitsa maganizo, mafuta oganiza bwino, mipira ya spiky, ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimawathandiza kusewera.
Kodi mumapeza kuti autism imapangitsa kuti kukhale kovuta kuti muzitha kuyang'anira zokhudzana ndi ubongo (pakati pa makolo a ana, odwala, aphunzitsi, ndi zina zotero)?
Ndimasokonezeka mwamsanga ndi sukulu, ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi makhoti. Sindikumvetsa chifukwa chake zosowa za ana sizomwe zili zofunika kwambiri. Mkazi wanga amandikumbutsa kuti ndiyende kapena kupita kwinakwake nditagwira ntchito ndi 'system' yomwe siigwira ntchito kwa ana.
Kodi pali mankhwala othandizira kuti azisamalira bwino makolo?
Sindimatsanzira njira zamankhwala zothandizira , chifukwa cha zochitika zoipa. Njira zanga zolimbana ndizojambula: nyimbo, kujambula, kujambula, kulemba, ndi kujambula. Ife tawona kuti kujambula ndi kujambula kumathandiza atsikana, nawonso. Atsikana akafuna kuchepetsa ndi kuyambiranso, nyimbo (zomvetsa chisoni, Elvis - Love Me Tender) amagwira ntchito.
Cholinga chathu ndi kukumbutsa atsikana omwe amalemba kuti satifotokozera ife ndipo sitiyenera kuwafotokozera okha.
> Zotsatira:
> Deweerdt, Sarah. Zosangalatsa ndi zovuta za kukhala kholo ndi autism. Atlantic , May 18, 2017.
> Kufunsa ndi CS Wyatt, July 2017
> Kukambirana ndi Jessica Benz, July 2017
> Kim, Cynthia. Mayi: Kukhala kholo lovomerezeka. Network Autism Women's Network, January 22, 2014.