Kodi mukuyenera kunena munthu wamkulu "inu mukhoza kukhala autistic?"
Mnzanu wachikulire, wachibale wanu, kapena mnzanuyo akuwoneka kuti akukhala "kunja," mwachisawawa kumaseŵera a pa Intaneti, zochepa kwambiri mu zovala ndi zosankha za zakudya. Iye wapitsidwira kukatulutsidwa, kusokonezedwa ndi anthu, kapena kuzunzidwa.
Kwa inu, chifukwa cha zinthu izi zikuwonekera bwino: mnzanu kapena wachibale mwina autistic.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani?
Yambani Poyang'ana Kumvetsetsa Kwanu kwa Autism
Musanachite chilichonse, nkofunika kudziwa zambiri za autism kusiyana ndi zomwe zimagawidwa pazinthu zofalitsa kapena anzawo.
Kuti athe kukhala ndi vutolo, munthu ayenera kukhala ndi zizindikiro zambiri-ndipo zizindikiro ziyenera kukhala zolimba kwambiri kuti zitha kukhudza moyo wawo wamba. Chofunika kwambiri, zizindikiro ziyenera kuti zinalipo kuyambira pamene mwanayo anali wamng'ono kwambiri.
Ngati mnzanu kapena mnzanuyo ali ndi vuto limodzi lokha, ali ndi mavuto omwe samakhudza moyo wake, kapena kuti ali ndi mavuto ena posachedwapa, iye si autistic.
Nawa malingaliro olakwika pa zomwe autism amawoneka ngati:
- Wogwira naye ntchito wakhala wamanyazi kuyambira atasudzulana. Ali ndi mabwenzi angapo okha . Ngati mnzanu anali WOMANSO ndipo NDINE wamanyazi, autism si nkhani. Komanso, sikuti anthu onse okhala ndi autism ndi amanyazi! Anthu omwe ali ndi autism akhoza kukhala amanyazi kapena achikhalidwe-koma amatha kupeza chiyanjano choyankhulana. Iwo sangatenge mwadzanong'onoting'ono, alankhule za "zolondola" mitu, kapena kudziwa nthawi kuti alowemo ndi nthawi yoti achoke pa zokambirana zapadera.
- Mwana wanga wamkulu wamaliza maphunziro ake ku koleji ndipo akugwira ntchito-koma ali kunyumba, amasangalala kwambiri ndi maseŵera a pa Intaneti moti safuna kuchoka panyumbamo. Ngati munthu waphunzira ku koleji, akugwira ntchito, ndipo amakondwera ndi maseŵera a pa intaneti, sizingatheke kuti ali autistic. Ngakhale anthu omwe ali ndi autism angakhale osasunthika (mofulumira) pamadera omwe ali ndi chidwi, kupirira okha sikukwanira kuti athe kupeza matenda. Choonjezera, ngati nkhani ya kupirira ndi yatsopano, ndiye kuti autism si vuto.
- Mchimwene wanga akuwopsya pulogalamu yamakompyuta, koma sanathe kupeza chibwenzi. Anthu ambiri okhala ndi autism ali ndi luso la mapulogalamu, ndipo ochepa amapeza mosavuta kulumikizana mwachikondi. Koma izi zikhoza kunenedwa kwa ambiri, anthu ambiri amene SALI ovomerezeka.
- Mchemwali wanga ali ndi zizoloŵezi zofanana zomwe akuyenera kudutsa tsiku lililonse . Anthu omwe ali ndi autism amakonda kupanga ndondomeko zowonongeka osati zosiyana. Koma chofunikira, mwachitsanzo, kugwira zinthu mofanana kuti athe kuchepetsa nkhawa, sizimayenderana ndi autism. Ngati munthuyo alibe zizindikiro zina, n'zotheka kuti akudwala matenda monga Obsessive Compulsive Disorder-koma n'zosatheka kuti iye ndi autistic.
Kodi Muyenera Kuchitanji Ngati Mukuganizabe Wina M'moyo Wanu Ali Autistic?
Poyambira, pamene munthu wamkulu mumoyo wanu angathe kudziŵa kuti ali ndi mphamvu yothamanga ya autism (Asperger syndrome), sizomwe zikufunikira kuti muchite chilichonse. Ndichifukwa chakuti (1) n'zovuta kupeza katswiri wodziwa kuti akudziwa anthu akuluakulu omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogwirira ntchito komanso (2) ndi mankhwala ochepa okhudza autism.
Musananene kanthu kali konse, ndikofunika kuti mupange kafukufuku wamtengo wapatali.
Dzifunseni kuti:
- Kodi ndi malo anga oti ndizinena chilichonse? Ngati muli bwenzi lapamtima kapena wachibale, yankho lanu likhoza kukhala "inde," apo ayi yankho lingakhale "ayi."
- Kodi zingakhale zothandiza kunena chilichonse? Ngati munthuyo akuwoneka ngati wokhutira ndi moyo umene akukhala-ngakhale ngati uli wochepa-sipangakhale phindu ponena. Ngati iye ali wosungulumwa, wokhumudwitsidwa, kapena wodetsedwa, matendawa angakhale othandiza.
- Kodi munthuyu angayankhe bwanji? Anthu ena amamasulidwa ndi matenda, pamene ena amakhumudwitsidwa-ndipo enawo amangokana kuti n'zotheka ndi kutaya kwa mtumikiyo.
Poganiza kuti ndinu pafupi ndi munthu amene mukumufunsayo, muyenera kuyankha mafunso awa molondola ndikubwera pa chisankho.
Kodi Ndi Chithandizo Chamtundu Wotani Chopezeka Kwa Munthu Wamkulu Amene Ali ndi Autism?
Kawirikawiri, akuluakulu omwe ali ndi autism amalandira chithandizo cha zizindikiro zina mwachithandizo chodziwitsira (kulankhula) chithandizo, kulongosola molunjika kwa malo ena, komanso mankhwala oyenera. Iwo angasankhenso kufunafuna thandizo kwa wodwalayo wogwira ntchito pavuto lachisokonezo: Anthu ambiri pa autism mawonekedwe pamwamba kapena sakuchitapo kanthu phokoso, kuwala, ululu, ndi zina zotero.
Njira yabwino kwambiri yotsatirira wamkulu wamkulu ndi:
- Funsani katswiri wa zamaganizo omwe angagwire naye ntchito pazochita zake za chikhalidwe ndi manyazi (m'madera ena zingatheke kupeza katswiri wa zamaganizo akugwira ntchito ndi anthu akuluakulu pa autism spectrum, koma siziri zovuta kwambiri);
- Ganizirani mankhwala aliwonse omwe angayambitse opaleshoni;
- Ganizirani kugwiritsa ntchito mavidiyo, mabuku ndi zipangizo zina zomwe zimapereka malangizo othandizira kuthana ndi mavuto kuntchito kapena kumudzi;
- Ganizirani kulumikizana ndi magulu othandizira pa intaneti kwa akuluakulu omwe ali ndi Aspergers ndi mavuto ena.
Zotsatira:
Gaus, Valerie. Njira Yodziwa Maganizo Aakulu a Asperger Syndrome. Guilford Press, 2007.
Mandy, Roy et al. Matenda a Asperger ali wamkulu. Dtsch Arztebl Int. 2009 Jan; 106 (5): 59-64. Idasindikizidwa pa Intaneti pa Jan 30.