Ngakhale ana omwe ali ndipamwamba kwambiri kugwiritsira ntchito autism amakhala osokonezeka maganizo
Pali nthano kuti ana okhala ndi autism ali ndi zochepa kapena zosaganizira. Palibe chomwe chingakhale chowonjezera pa choonadi. Ana omwe ali ndi autism angakhale amalingaliro pa zifukwa zosiyana kapena kufotokoza maganizo awo mosiyana, koma ali ndi malingaliro ambiri monga wina aliyense. Nthaŵi zina, ana omwe ali ndi autism angakhale okhumudwa kwambiri kuposa ena a anzawo.
Ndiye kodi autistic amasiya maganizo awo? Nthawi zina amafunika kuthandizidwa kuti awathandize.
Chifukwa Chakumverera Ndizovuta Kwambiri kwa Ana Ndi Omveka Ogwira Ntchito Autism
Kuthamanga kwa autism kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Kumbali imodzi, muli ndi luso ndi chidziwitso chodziŵika kuti muyike ku chilengedwe. Komabe, simukusowa chitukuko, chilankhulo, ndi luso logwira ntchito bwino kuti mugwire ntchito bwino ngati kusintha kukuchitika. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mukhoza kukhala mukukumana ndi vuto losokonezeka maganizo, nkhawa, kapena zinthu zina zomwe zimapanga nyali zowala, phokoso lalikulu, ndi zoyembekeza zazikulu zomwe sitingathe kuzichita.
Ana omwe ali ndi autism, ngakhale ana opambana, amakhumudwa kwambiri kapena amakwiya, nthawi zambiri amachita zinthu. Akachita, amatha kuchita zinthu zodabwitsa kapena kuwadodometsa anthu omwe amawazungulira. Mwachitsanzo, akhoza:
- Kutaya mwa njira yomweyo kwa mwana wamng'ono kwambiri, ndi misonzi ndi kufuula
- Thawani kutali ndi zovuta, nthawizina kumalo owopsa monga msewu wotanganidwa
- Khalani okwiya kapena odzikweza
- Kuchita zinthu mopitirira malire ku vutoli ndikulephera kudziletsa
- Sungathe kukonza mfundo zomveka zomwe zingamuthandize kuti adzichepetse
- Khalani okhumudwa kwambiri kuti muzimvetsera mfundo zowonongeka kuchokera kwa makolo, aphunzitsi, kapena othandizira
Malangizo Ochokera kwa Maphunziro a Zaganizo Dr. Robert Naseef ndi Cindy Ariel
Nthawi zina autism "yofatsa" ndiyonse . Zingakhale zovuta kwambiri makamaka kwa ana ndi makolo awo. Palibe aliyense wa ife akufuna kuwona mwana wathu akumva ululu pamene chinachake sichikugwira ntchito. Ambiri, kapena ambiri, ana omwe amapezeka pa autism spectrum ali ndi vuto loletsa maganizo awo komanso kukhala ndi bata. Angakhalenso akulimbana ndi zofooka zomwe amamva koma sangathe kuzimva kapena kumvetsa mwa njira zina.
Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti izi zingasinthe ndipo mukhoza kuthandiza. Nazi malangizo ena:
- Choyamba, kumbutsani mwana wanu ndi inu nokha kuti pamene akulira chifukwa chakumverera ndikumverera koteroko kudzadutsa ngati mtambo wakuda. Dzuŵa lidzatulukanso ngakhale kuti likumva ngati mlengalenga ikugwa. Thandizani mwana wanu kuphunzira kuphunzira mpweya wochepa pang'onopang'ono pamene ayamba kukwiya. Chitani izi nthawi zonse pamene sakwiya. Chitani ndi iye. Muuzeni kuti tonsefe, ana ndi akulu, timakwiya ndipo tiyenera kuphunzira kudziletsa.
- Zina zowonongeka zingaphatikizepo zochita za mwana wanu ndi kufunikira kwake kuphunzira kuphunzira kuthana ndi kukhumudwa kwake ndi kukhumudwa kwake; kupeza chitonthozo ndi chilimbikitso kuchokera mkati. Mutha kumuthandiza kuti aphunzire kuthana ndi kukhumudwa kwake kwakukulu mwa kumupatsa njira zothetsera kapena kudzilimbikitsanso iye asanapite patsogolo. Pali njira zambiri zochitira izi ndipo ambiri a ife timapeza njira zathu patapita nthawi. Zimathandiza ana ena kukhala okha kwa mphindi zingapo; imathandiza ena kukhala ndi kukambirana ndi munthu kapena kubwereranso maganizo awo kumalo ena kwa kanthawi.
- Nthaŵi zopanda ndale, mwana wanu akakhumudwa, mungamuuze za njira zomwe angathe kudzitengera kuti asamapite kunyumba ndi kusukulu. Amatha kudziwa kuti ndi nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa kwake ndipo amatha kupyolapo ndi kuleza mtima pang'ono kapena kutenga zinthu pang'onopang'ono. Mukhonza kugwira ntchito ndi iye ndi aphunzitsi ake njira zabwino zomwe angaphunzirire kudziletsa.
- Pa nthawi yomwe mumadziwa kuti kusungunuka kungasokonezeke, nthawi zina mungathe kuidula mwa kulankhula naye za izo musanafike ndikukambirana momwe angapewe nthawiyi, ndipo ngakhale kupereka mphotho yothetsera. Pamene potsiriza ataphunzira kudziyesa yekha, kudzimva kudzidalira kudzakhala mphotho yake, kwa inu komanso kwa iye.
Robert Naseef, Ph.D., ndi Cindy Ariel, Ph.D., ndiwo okonza Voices ochokera kwa Spectrum: Makolo, Agogo, Agogo, Anthu Omwe Amakhala ndi Autism, ndi Ophunzira Amagawana Nzeru Zawo (2006). Apeze nawo pa Zosankha Zina.