Dziwani Choonadi Musanagone ndi Wina Wopanda Kondomu
Ndakhala ndikukwiyitsidwa ndi zinthu zina zomwe ndimawerenga pa intaneti pankhani ya kugonana koopsa. Kulikonse komwe ndikuyang'ana, pali anthu omwe amatsutsa zabodza kuti apeze ogonana nawo popanda kondomu. Ndikuganiza kuti ena mwa iwo akhoza kukhulupirira zomwe akunena. Komabe, m'maganizo mwanga ndiye kuti zimangowonjezera zinthu. Nazi zinthu khumi zomwe, ngati muzimva, ziyenera kukuyenderani kukulira kuchokera kuchipinda. Mungakhale wokonzeka kubwerera, koma muyenera kufika pafupi ndi sitolo ya mankhwala.
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"Mwayi Ndine Otetezeka ... Ndakhala Ndikumangokhalira Kutaya Ndi Amwali."Pali zinthu zambiri zolakwika ndi mawu awa. Choyamba ndi chakuti akuganiza kuti munthu amene akunena izi amakhulupirira kuti ndi zoona komanso kuti anthu omwe adanena kuti ali kutali ndiwonso akulankhula zoona . Yachiwiri ndi yakuti kukhala namwali sanena kanthu ngati munthu ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kapena ayi. Kwa anthu ambiri, kukhala namwali kumatanthauza kuti iwo sanayambe kugonanapo. Komabe, kugonana kwa amphongo ndi pakamwa , ngakhale kugwedeza , kungatulutsenso matenda osiyanasiyana opatsirana pogonana . Chifukwa chake, "kugona ndi anamwali" sizitsimikizira kuti mnzanuyo alibe kachilombo.
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"Pafupifupi Palibe Amene Amapeza HIV Kuchokera Kumagulu Ogonana."Padziko lonse lapansi, pafupifupi 90% mwa onse omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV adzilombola kudzera m'mimba yogonana . Kugonana ndi matenda ena opatsirana pogonana kumawonjezera chiopsezo kuti kachilombo ka HIV kafalitsidwe panthawi iliyonse yogonana. Komabe, kupezeka kwa matenda ena sikofunikira kuti HIV ipitirire. Komano, kugwiritsidwa ntchito molondola, makondomu amphongo ndi abambo ndi othandiza kwambiri popewera kufalikira kwa kachilombo ka HIV pogonana .
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"Ndayesedwa Pazinthu Zonse, ndipo Ndakhala Wosayera Kwambiri."Ndizosatheka kuyesedwa pa chirichonse . Pali matenda opatsirana ambiri omwe sali nawo malonda. Pali zina zomwe zimayesedwa ndizolondola pazowamba. Palinso matenda opatsirana pogonana, monga syphilis , omwe dokotala sangakonde kukuwonetsani ngati simungathe kuwonekera. Choncho, munthu amene akukuuzani kuti ayesedwa "chirichonse" akunyenga kapena sakudziwa zomwe akunena. Afunseni matenda omwe adayesedwa. Ndiye inu mupeza lingaliro labwino la mkhalidwe weniweni wa zinthu. N'zotheka kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro chochuluka kwambiri kuchipatala chawo.
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"Ndingadziwe Ngati Ndili ndi STD."Zingakhale zabwino ngati mawu awa ndi oona. Ndiye aliyense akhoza kupulumutsa nthawi yochuluka ndi ndalama posafunikira kupita kukayezetsa kawirikawiri. Mwamwayi, sikuti matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi ochuluka okha, simungakhoze kuwerengera kukhala mosungika mwa kupita kuchipatala chokhazikika. Kupatulapo namwino ochiritsa pa Planned Parenthood, ochepa omwe amapereka chithandizo chamankhwala nthawi zambiri amayesa odwala awo chifukwa cha matenda opatsirana pogonana kupatula ngati atapemphedwa kuti achite zimenezo. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake ndi kofunika kuti mupite kukayezetsa nthawi zonse .
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"Ndingadziwe Ngati Wina Wandisoweka Ndili ndi STD."Ayi. Matenda ambiri opatsirana pogonana amapezeka nthawi zambiri. Izi zikutanthauza kuti alibe zizindikiro . Nthawi zambiri, njira yokhayo yodziwira ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi kumufunsa kuti ayesedwe . Ndiye muyenera kuyembekezera zotsatira. Palibe njira yofotokozera mwa kuwona, kulawa, kununkhiza, kapena kukhudza ngati mnzanu ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Muyenera kufunsa ... ndipo mvetserani.
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"Bwenzi Langa Lomaliza Linanena Kuti Iye Ankayesa Kupanda Nkhawa - Palibe Chodetsa nkhaŵa!"Ngakhale ngati wina ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, sikuti chiwerewere chilichonse chidzachititsa kuti matendawa apitirire kwa wina. Chifukwa chake, chifukwa chibwenzi choyambirira cha munthu wina sichiyesa matenda opatsirana pogonana sichikutanthauza kuti munthuyo alibe kachilomboka. Njira yokha kuti wina adziwe ngati ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana ayenera kupita kukayezetsa .... Chinthu chomwecho chimakufikirani inu.
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"Simungathe Kukhala Woyembekezera Nthawi Yoyamba."Izi sizikukhudzana kwenikweni ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Komabe, posachedwapa ndapeza kuti pali anthu omwe amakhulupirira izi, ndipo ndikufunika kulankhula. Mutha kutenga mimba nthawi yoyamba. Nthawi zina mumatha kutenga mimba musanafike nthawi yanu yoyamba . Njira yokhayo yopezera kutenga mimba ndiyo kupewa kugonana. Ngati sizomwe mungachite, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira yodalirika yobereka .
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"Makondomu Angalephereke, Choncho Sindiyenera Kuwagwiritsa Ntchito."Makondomu amachita nthawi zina. Izi zikuti, pamene agwiritsidwa ntchito moyenerera mlingo wawo wolephera ndi zodabwitsa kwambiri. Komabe, ngakhale kuti sizinali choncho, zikanakhala zanzeru kugwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe otetezera omwe nthawi zina amakugwetsani pansi kusiyana ndi mtundu uliwonse wa chitetezo konse. Kupatula nthawi yochepa ya kusweka, makondomu amathandiza kwambiri popewera matenda opatsirana pogonana. Ngakhalenso chiopsezo cha matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe amafalitsidwa ndi khungu kuti akhudze khungu akhoza kuchepetsedwa pogwiritsa ntchito kondomu , ngakhale kuti sichichotsedwa.
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"Sindikhoza Kugwiritsa Kondomu ..."Ziribe kanthu kaya chiganizo chonse ichi ndi "Ndine wamkulu kwambiri," "Ndili ndi zotupa," kapena, "akutsutsana ndi chipembedzo changa." Ndicho chifukwa chokha. Choyamba, makondomu ali otambasuka kwambiri. M'masiku anga a koleji tinkakonda kuwakokera pamwamba pa nsapato zogonjetsa kuti tiwonetsetse kuti iwo adzakondwera kwambiri pa chilichonse chimene mungakonde kuika mu thupi lanu. Ngati zili choncho, amuna omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chotsutsana ndi opanga kondomu nthawi zambiri amakhala omwe ali ndi vuto laling'ono. Chifukwa cha zifukwa zina, makondomu a polyurethane amapezeka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi matendawa . Ndipo, ngati makondomu amatsutsana ndi chipembedzo cha munthu, ndibwino kuti kugonana musanalowe m'banja ndiko .... Auzeni anthu kuti sangathe kukhala ndi njira ziwirizo.
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"Musadandaule! Izi Sizingakupangitseni Mayi!"Kugonana kwachangu ndi koyambirira sikungathe kutenga mimba. Akhoza kukupatsani matenda opatsirana pogonana. Izi zimakhala kuti kutenga mimba ndi chikhalidwe cholepheretsa, Matenda ena opatsirana pogonana, monga kachilombo ka HIV , HPV , ndi herpes obadwa nawo , sali. Chinthu chomwecho chimayambira kugonana ndi wina aliyense amene wasankha kuperewera kwa thupi kapena ali ndi chiwerengero chochepa cha umuna. Iwo mwina sangakhale ndi makanda, koma izo sizikutanthauza kuti iwo ali otetezeka ku china chirichonse. Kwa anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti kugonana ndikamwa ndi koyambirira sikuli ngati "kugonana" chifukwa mungathe kukhala nawo ndi " namwali ", kumbukirani - anamwali angathe kutenga matenda opatsirana pogonana.