Kodi Frottage / Dry Humping ndi chiyani?
Kutulutsa ndilo luso la " dry humping ". Zimatanthauzidwa ngati kugonana komwe anthu amakopera matupi awo. Kutsuka kungathe kuchitidwa kaya wamaliseche kapena wovekedwa. Tsatanetsatane wa youma humping ndi, mwa kuyankhula kwina, osati yeniyeni yokhudza kuyanjana kwa khungu ndi khungu . Pakhoza kukhala kukhudza thupi la thupi.
(Izo zimadalira momwe zimamuukitsira mnzanuyo, komanso zovala zomwe iwo amavala.) Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kuyamwa kouma sikungakhale kouma kwambiri. Komabe, ndi wouma kuposa momwe amaliseche kapena agonana amachitira!
Kodi Kugonana Ndibwino Kwambiri?
Pamene tavalidwa, kutsekemera ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yogonana. (Chabwino, izo ziri zotetezeka malinga ngati palibe munthu agwera pa kama ... kapena pabedi). Palibe kusintha kwa madzi kapena thupi pakhungu. Choncho, njira yokhayo yopatsirana pogonana ndiyokupsompsona . Potero, anthu ambiri amaona kuti ndizosangalatsa, kugonana koyambirira ndi watsopano.
Mukakhala wamaliseche, komatu kukamwa kungawonongeke. Matenda ena, monga magulu opatsirana pogonana , amatha kuperekedwa kuchokera pakhungu kupita khungu panthawi ya dry humping. Komabe, kuyamwa kumakhalabe kotetezeka kuposa mitundu yambiri ya kugonana. Mukhozanso kuupanga kukhala otetezeka povala khungu lililonse lopatsirana.
Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kuvala zovala zamkati kapena kuika mabotolo pazinthu zosadabwitsa kapena zilonda.
Chochitika chofanana cha kugonana, chomwe chimakambidwa kwambiri mwazisudzo , ndi tribadism. Komabe, kutchedwa tribadism kumatanthauzidwa ngati kupukuta nkhonya pa mwendo kapena thupi lina lolimbikitsa kugonana. (Izi zingathechitenso ndi amayi omwe ali osakwatirana). Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, kutsekemera sikumaphatikizapo kukakamiza kugonana.
Izi zikhoza kuphatikizapo kusangalatsa kotereku. Zimangotanthauzira kuti thupi limapyola kwambiri.
Ndani ali ndi Kutsegula?
Dzuwa humping ndi mtundu wamba wa kugonana pakati pa achinyamata ndi achikulire. Ndi chinthu chimene anthu onse ogonana ndi amuna ndi akazi angathe kusangalala nazo. Kuthamanga kungakhale ngati ntchito yosangalatsamo. Ikhoza kugwiritsidwanso ntchito monga mawonekedwe a foreplay pamaso pa mitundu ina ya kugonana.
Kuthamanga sikumaphatikizapo kulowa mkati kapena, nthawi zambiri, kukakamiza kugonana. Choncho, anthu ena sangaganize kuti ndiwonekedwe la kugonana. Komabe, monga momwe zingakhalire ndi zosangalatsa, kudzutsa, komanso ngakhale zosokonezeka, sindimagwirizana. Izi zanenedwa, izo zimadalira pa tanthawuzo la munthu pa kugonana . Palibe kutanthauzira kwachilengedwe komwe aliyense amavomereza.
Kusagwirizana Kwasagwirizane
Kuthamanga kungagwiritsidwe ntchito monga mtundu wa chiwawa cha kugonana. Zosafunika ndi zosafunika zosakanizidwa ndi kugonana zimayesedwa ngati vuto ponseponse komanso pamalo ena. Atsikana ambiri, makamaka, akhala akuzunzidwa motere. Mofanana ndi mitundu ina yokhudza kugonana, izi zingayambitse mavuto achidule komanso a nthawi yayitali.
Chikhumbo cha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kosagwirana ntchito, kapena chisokonezo, chakhala chogwiritsidwa ntchito ngati paraphilia mu Buku Lophatikiza ndi Kufufuza (DSM).
Wotchedwa Frotteuristic Disorder mu DSM-5, matendawa amafunika kuganizira, kapena kusakaniza, munthu wosalolera. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, chisangalalo cha kugwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza sikungakhale vuto la maganizo.
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