Mmene mungagonjetsere vuto lovuta
Nthawi zambiri nthawi zambiri imfa imawopa mantha komanso mantha. Kuganizira za ena kufa kumapangitsa kuti ife eni eni ndife akufa . Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti anthu akufa ali ochotsedwa pakati pa anthu ndipo ngakhale kupezedwa ndi mabwenzi apamtima ndi achibale.
Chifukwa cha izi, n'zosavuta kuona chifukwa chake odwala ambiri akumva kuti ali okhaokha komanso ali okha. Izi siziri mtundu wa imfa ambiri omwe tingasankhe.
Kukhala pafupi ndi anzathu ndi okondedwa athu ndi angati a ife tingasankhe kukhala miyezi kapena masiku otsiriza athu.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Ndikovuta Kwambiri?
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe anthu ambiri ali ndi nthawi yovuta kuyanjana ndi munthu wakufa: osakayesayesa kuthana ndi imfa yawo; osakhala ndi nthawi yokhala nawo mbali, komanso osakhala ndi maganizo oyenera kuthana ndi vuto lalikulu. Kudzidzimvera chisoni ngati akanatha kuchita chinachake pofuna kuteteza matenda, kapena momwe ubale wawo ndi munthu ameneyo wakhala posachedwa, zingapangitsenso munthu kupewa munthu wakufa.
Pamene wina akukhala ndi nthawi yovuta kuyanjana ndi munthu wakufa, nthawi zambiri zimakhala ngati kupeŵa, kuvutika kulankhula, zovuta kukhala maso ndi kuyang'ana kutali. Munthu amene akufa adzazindikira zizindikiro izi.
Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zingasokoneze vuto lomwe liripo kale
- Kaya chifukwa cha imfa chimaonedwa kukhala chovomerezeka ndi anthu kapena ayi (mwachitsanzo mtima wosagwirizana ndi AIDS )
- Kaya imfa ikuwonedwa ngati "pa nthawi" kapena ayi (mwachitsanzo munthu wachikulire motsutsana ndi mwana)
- Kumene amamwalira (ie nyumba yosungirako okalamba ndi nyumba yawo)
Chifukwa chakuti aliyense amafa mosiyana, munthu wakufa angapangitse kupeŵa zambiri chifukwa cha ululu wawo kapena zizindikiro zovuta ndi momwe amachitira nawo.
Anthu ena akufa sangakonde kukambirana zokwanira koma amakonda kulankhulana mwachidule. Zinthu izi zingawathandize okondedwa omwe amamva kale.
Kukhazikitsa Pakati
Kumbali imodzi, muli ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi omwe ali oopa kapena osasangalatsa kukhala pafupi ndi wokondedwa wakufa. Pano, munthu wakufa akumva kuti wasiya, ali yekhayekha ndipo ali yekha. Kodi timagwedeza bwanji mpatawu kuti tibweretse anthu awa? Kulankhulana momasuka ndi njira yophweka komanso yabwino kwambiri yolekanitsira mpatawo.
Mulole munthu wakufa amudziwe kuti mukuchita mantha kapena osasangalatsa, kapena kulimbikitsidwa kulikonse komwe muli nako, chifukwa iwo adzalingalira. Iwowo adzawadziwitsa kuti mukutsatira njira zoyenera kuzidutsa ndikuwapatsa zomwe akufunikira kwambiri panthawiyi.
Funsani munthu wakufa zomwe akufunikira kapena kuyembekezera kuchokera kwa inu. Anthu ena akufa amafuna kulankhula momasuka za matenda awo komanso imfa yawo yomwe ikuyandikira . Ena ayenela kupeŵa kuyankhula za izo ndikusinkhasinkha zokhudzana ndi zokondwerero zabwino kapena moyo wa wokondedwa wawo. Kudziwa chomwe munthu wakufayo akufuna kuti ayankhule pazochitika zanu zitha kuyenda motalika. Ena safuna kuyankhula nkomwe koma angakufunseni kuti awathandize, awwerenge buku kapena kuti mumve kuti mulipo.
Khalani oona mtima pa zomwe mungapereke. Ngati akufuna kuti mupite tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo simungakwanitse kuchita pulogalamu yanu kapena simukumva kuti mungathe kuthana ndi vutoli , muwadziwitse. Awuzeni zomwe angayembekezere kuchokera kwa inu, "Ndikudziwa kuti mukufuna kuti ndikuchezereni tsiku lililonse Ndikufuna kukuchezerani nthawi zonse koma tsiku lililonse sizingatheke. , Lachitatu, ndi Loweruka, ndipo ngati ndingathe kukwaniritsa masiku ena onse, ndidzachita izo. " Chofunika ndikutenga lonjezo limene silingathe.
Komanso, khalani oona mtima pa zomwe mumasuka kulankhula. Chifukwa chakuti munthu wakufayo akufuna kutseguka ndi momveka bwino pa zomwe zikuwachitikira, simungakhale womasuka kukambirana zonse.
Adziwitseni ngati zili choncho. Pamene munthu aliyense akusowa ndi kuyembekezera ali poyera, ndondomeko yotsutsana ingayambe. Kupeza malo omwe aliyense ali omasuka ndi kupeza zosowa zawo kumathandizira kupanga mgwirizano ndi munthu wakufa kukhala chochitika chapadera chomwe mungachiyese.