Autism ndi yovuta. Zimasintha. Palibe chovomerezeka, chithandizo, chithandizo, mankhwala kapena anthu odwala matendawa. Pokhala osatsimikizika kwambiri, makolo ambiri amadalira nzeru, malangizo, ndi ndondomeko zoperekedwa ndi akatswiri - madokotala, othandizira, aphunzitsi, ndi ochita kafukufuku - omwe ayenera kukhala ndi chidziwitso chochuluka kwa wina aliyense.
Inde, kudalira akatswiri kawirikawiri ndi lingaliro labwino.
Nthawi zina, sizinali choncho.
Ngati Malangizi a Akatswiri Sangakhale Othandiza
Nazi zina mwazimene uphungu wa akatswiri wochokera kuzinthu zofunikira nthawi zonse sizingakhale zothandiza monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira.
- Mukuwona nkhani ndi mwana wanu zomwe zingayamikire autism, koma adokotala anu a ana anu amakukondani . Odwala ambiri amawona ana ali ndi "kuchedwa" kosiyana ndi makolo omwe ali ndi nkhawa yaikulu nthawi 12 pa tsiku. Nthawi zambiri, "kuchedwa" kumangokhala kusiyana kochepa kumene kumakhala ndi belu yopititsa patsogolo chitukuko cha mwana (Johnny ayenera kukhala ndi mawu 50 koma akugwiritsa ntchito 30, mwachitsanzo). Chotsatira chake, adokotala ambiri amavutitsa patsogolo chitukuko pokhapokha ngati ali ofunikira komanso oopsa - podziwa kuti zambiri zochedwa kuchedwa zidzasintha okha. Ngati izi zikuchitika kwa inu, mwina mukuwona zomwe dokotala wanu wa ana sangathe kuziwona mwachidule - ndipo ndi bwino kuti mupeze nthawi yofufuza ndi / kapena kuyesa. Sichikhoza kupweteka - ndipo chikhoza kuthandiza kwambiri!
- Mukuuzidwa kuti muyesere mankhwala omwe sali othandizidwa ndi kafukufuku kapena magwero ogwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mankhwala. Zikuwoneka ngati aliyense ali ndi "mankhwala" ochiritsa kapena ochiritsa a autism, ndipo ngakhale ophunzitsa opaleshoni kapena aphunzitsi angapereke zosankha zomwe sangaziwathandize (ndipo zingakhale zodula ndi / kapena zoopsa). Izi zikachitika, lekani ndikuchita kafukufuku wanu musanayambe kupita patsogolo. Kodi mankhwalawa ndi ofunika kwenikweni, oteteza mankhwala, komanso otsika mtengo? Ngati sichoncho, mungayesere bwanji?
- "Katswiri" wanu amadziwa bwino zochepa kuposa inu . Makolo ambiri autism amathera maola angapo akuwerenga, kupita kumisonkhano, ndikuphunzira za chithandizo, mapulogalamu, ndalama, sukulu, nyumba , ndi zina. Zotsatira zake, nthawi zambiri zimadziwika bwino kuposa "akatswiri" omwe nkhanizi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Ngati mupeza kuti mumadziwa zambiri zokhudza mankhwala, pulogalamu, sukulu, kapena bungwe kusiyana ndi "katswiri" amene mumadalira - yendani (kapena gawani zomwe mumapeza ndikudzipangira nokha!).
- Wothandizira amene mukugwira naye ntchito amanena kuti sangathe kuthandizira. Mwana wanu wakhala akuwona ntchito, malankhulidwe, masewero kapena othandizira kwa chaka, ndipo simungathe kuona kusintha kulikonse. Inu mubweretse izi, ndipo wothandizira akutsutsani inu. "Inde," anatero, "mwana wanu wabwera kutali." Mukupempha kuti muwone zomwe zikugwirizana ndi mawu ake - koma "sanakhale nayo nthawi yofufuza." Tsopano ikanakhala nthawi yabwino kupeza wothandizira osiyana.
- Katswiri amene mukugwira naye ntchito ali ndi malingaliro osadziwika pa zomwe mungachite ndi momwe mungachitire. Mwana wanu amapezeka ndi katswiri yemwe amadziwa bwino zonse za kuyesa ndi kuganizira . Koma mukapempha kuti "Ndichite chiyani tsopano?" iye akuti "chabwino, mwinamwake mukufuna kuyang'ana muzochita zamakhalidwe ndipo mwana wanu amafunikira sukulu yapadera." Mukamukakamiza, ndizo zonse zomwe angathe kupereka njira ya uphungu. Izi zikachitika, ndi nthawi yoti mupeze munthu amene akudziwa zomwe zilipo komanso zoyenera kwa mwana wanu, mkhalidwe wanu ndi malo ake. Kuti wina atha kukhala kholo lodzipereka ndi gulu lothandizira autism kapena bungwe la makolo.
- Katswiriyo sali woyenerera kumunda kumene akupereka uphungu. Aphunzitsi ndi akatswiri pophunzitsa, koma osati pozindikira. Akatswiri odziwa za matenda odwala matendawa sangadziwe zambiri za mankhwala olankhula. Ngati mukupeza malangizo kuchokera kwa munthu woyenera pa chinthu cholakwika, nenani zikomo - ndipeze katswiri yemwe amadziwa bwino munda!