Ngati pali vuto limodzi lomwe anagawa ana onse omwe ali ndi autism, zimakhala zovuta ndi luso la kusewera . Achinyamata omwe ali ndi autism angagwirizane kapena kuyika zidole zamaseŵera, kusewera okha ndi kukana kuyanjana ndi anzawo, kapena kumangoyendayenda, thanthwe kapena kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo m'dziko lawo.
Ndi kudzikonda kumeneku komwe kumapangitsa kuti zovuta kwambiri kwa ana autistic kuphunzira kuchokera kutsanzira, kucheza ndi ana ena, kapena kugwirizana ndi akuluakulu m'miyoyo yawo.
Mwachidziwikire, makolo angathandize kwambiri pakuphunzitsa ana awo autistic kusewera. Koma pamene "kusewera ndi mwana wanu" kumawoneka ngati wosasintha, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kwa kholo la mwana wa autistic.
Chifukwa Chake Zimakhala Zovuta Kusewera ndi Mwana Wodzipereka
Ngakhale kuti akuluakulu ena amavutika kuti azisewera ndi ana ambiri, ambiri samadziwa momwe angagwirire ndi wamng'ono. Ana achilendo amathandiza akuluakulu mwa kuwafunsa "kusewera masewera," kapena "kutaya mpira," kapena kutenga nawo mbali. Ana ovomerezeka, komabe, sangabweretse munthu wamkulu. Ndipotu, ndi kwa wamkulu kuti adziwe momwe angayanjane ndi kuyankhulana ndi mwana yemwe sangakhale ndi chidwi chosewera pa kusewera. Zotsatira zake:
- Sizingakhale zosavuta nthawi zonse kutenga chidwi cha mwana wa autistic kapena kuika chidwi chawo kwa mphindi zingapo
- Mukachita nawo, mwana yemwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amasankha kuchita zomwezo mobwerezabwereza, ndipo zingakhale zovuta kusiya
- Ana omwe ali ndi autism sadzabweretsa malingaliro awo kapena mphamvu zawo kuti azitha kusewera, kotero malingaliro onse ndi mphamvu ziyenera kubwera kuchokera kwa kholo. Izi zingakhale zowopsya komanso zokhumudwitsa.
- Zomwe timagwiritsira ntchito popanga ana, monga kufunsa mafunso, kupereka malingaliro, kuyamba ntchito yochititsa chidwi, akhoza kupita kumbuyo kwa mwanayo ndi autism.
Koma zonsezi sizongopeka ndi kuyerekezera kwa makolo ndikumva chisoni ndikumvetsa chisoni pamene mwana wawo amanyalanyaza iwo pofuna kukonda dziko lapansi kapena chinthu. Inde, makolo ambiri akhoza kudutsa kumverera kokanidwa kuti ayese njira zatsopano zogwirizira ndikugwirizanitsa. Koma pamene tikufikira kwa mwana wathu ndipo amanyalanyaza, pamene timukumbatira mwana wathu ndipo amachokapo, tikamapanga mwana wathu ndipo amaoneka kuti sakudziwa, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti tipeze mphamvu zapamtima zoyesera.
Chinthu chinanso chachikulu ndicho chokhumudwitsa kuti makolo ambiri amaiwala kusewera. Zoonadi, iwo akhoza kusewera masewera a masewera kapena masewera, koma lingaliro la kudziyesa kukhala winawake kapena chinachake chimene salili silikukondanso. Makolo ambiri amatha kukonzekera masiku a masewera ndikuima kumbuyo pamene ana awo akuthamanga ndi kusewera. Koma makolo omwe ali ndi autistic samakhala ndi maulendo apamwamba.
Ngakhale ndi chithandizo ndi zambiri za "momwe mungasewere ndi mwana wanu autistic," makolo ambiri amadzimva chisoni kwambiri ndi vutoli. Pali njira zina zosavuta kuti muyambe kusewera ndi mwana wanu autistic, komanso mankhwala othandizidwa ndi makolo kuti akuthandizeni kuthandiza mwanayo kumanga luso la kusewera.
Malangizo Osewera ndi Mwana Wanu Wovomerezeka
Ngakhale ngati masewera sakubwera mwachibadwa kwa inu, mungagwiritse ntchito njira zina zoyesayesa ndi zowona kuti mutenge chidwi cha mwana wanu ndi kusangalala pamodzi.
- Ngati muli ndi vuto loti mwana wanu asamalire kuntchito "yosangalatsa" (kutsegula ndi kutsekera chitseko, kuyikapo zinthu, etc.), njira yothetsera vutoli ndikulumikizana ndi mwana wanu. Mukawaganizira, yesetsani zosiyana ndi zomwe mwachita (mwachitsanzo) kuwonjezera vuto lina kapena kusuntha chinthu kuchokera mzere. Mwana wanu adzafunika kubwera kwa inu kuti apitirize kuchita zomwe amasangalala nazo, ndipo ndiko kuyamba kwa kuyankhulana .
- Masewera ndi masewera otere angapangitse mwana wosayenerera yemwe sadziwa momwe angayankhulire ndi mawu kapena kuyankhulana ndi anthu ena.
- Mphungu ndi zipangizo zodabwitsa zogwiritsira ntchito ndi kusewera. Imani mitsuko yambiri mwamsanga ndiyeno imodzi yayikulu ikuwomba pang'onopang'ono. Sinthasintha.
- Masipampu amatha kugwirizanitsa ndi ana pamene anthu sangathe. Kugwiritsira ntchito zidole za anthu omwe mumawakonda nthawi zina kungapangitse mayankho abwino.
- Masewero a madzi angakhale njira yodabwitsa yosangalalira ndi autistic playmate. Kaya mukusewera ndi payipi kapena padziwe, kapena mukungoyambira mu bafa kapena chidebe cha madzi, mungakhale ndi kuseketsa kosafunika popanda kukambirana kapena mpikisano.
- Ngakhale ana omwe ali ndi autism angakhale ndi nthawi yovuta pochita masewera omasuka, nthawi zambiri amavutika kukumbukira malemba. Mungathe kumanga pa luso limeneli powerenga kapena kuimba limodzi kuchokera kuwonetsero wa pa TV. Ngakhale mutakhala "osewera" mwachizoloŵezi, mungathe kusinthanitsa, kuchita masewero, komanso ngakhale kumatsutsana pamodzi.
> Zotsatira:
> Freeman S., et al. Kugwirizana kwa ana ndi ana mu autism: makhalidwe a masewero. Autism. 2013 Mar; 17 (2): 147-61. lembani: 10.1177 / 1362361312469269.
> Strid, K, ndi al. Kuyerekeza, kusewera kutsanzira komanso kuyankhulana kwa ana ndi ana poyankhula ndi ana osalankhula ndi autism. Scand J Psychol. 2013 Feb; 54 (1): 26-32. lembani: 10.1111 / sjop.12003.