Ana omwe ali ndi Autism Angakhale Ovuta Kukhala nawo
Ana omwe ali ndi autism amakhala ndi makhalidwe osadziwika . Iwo akhoza kulira mokweza, kuchita mofulumira, ndi kuthamanga kapena kukwera pamene sakuyenera. Angakhale osadya modabwitsa, amakana kuvala zovala kapena amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta ndikugona. Amatha kutsekera pakhomo, kusungiramo zipinda zosayenera, kutuluka m'nyumba amaliseche, kapena kupha abale awo.
Angakhale osamvetsetseka, osokonezedwa, kapena ngakhale kutulutsa mokweza kwambiri, nthawi zina amatchedwa " kusokonezeka s".
Zonsezi ndizosavomerezeka. Ndipo palibe mmodzi wa iwo ali wapadera kwa ana omwe ali ndi autism. Ndipotu, anthu ambiri akuluakulu, powona mwana ali ndi zaka zakubadwa amachita zinthu izi, amaganiza kuti akuyang'ana mwana yemwe "wawonongeka" - ndiko kuti mwana yemwe wapindula chifukwa chochita zoipa ndi makolo omwe ali osafuna kunena "ayi."
Si Nthawi Zonse Zosavuta Kuzidziwitsa Autism
Pali zinthu ziwiri zokha zomwe munthu wamkulu angamvetse mwamsanga pamene akuwona machitidwe a autistic m'malo mochita zoipa.
Choyamba chomwecho chimaphatikizapo mwana yemwe mawu ake osalankhula ndi maonekedwe ake ndi achilendo kwambiri moti amawoneka autistic. Izi zikuphatikizapo, mwachitsanzo, wachinyamata yemwe akugwiritsa ntchito mawu a guttural m'malo mwa kulankhula, kapena mwana amene akugwedeza ndi kukwapula manja.
Makhalidwe amenewa ndi okwanira kutumiza uthenga "uyu ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera."
Chinthu chachiwiri chomwecho, n'zosadabwitsa kuti, pamene wamkulu amakhala (kapena amagwira ntchito) ndi mwana pa autism spectrum. Makolo a Autism, chifukwa chokhala ndi anthu ambiri pamasewera a madokotala, magulu othandizira anthu, ndi makalasi apadera a maphunziro, amadziwa zizindikiro za autism ngati kumbuyo kwa manja awo.
Bwanji ngati Simunali katswiri wa Autism? Malangizo Ozindikira Zisonyezo
Koma bwanji ngati suli kholo la autism - koma mukuyang'ana kapena mukuyanjana ndi mwana yemwe akuwoneka kuti akusocheretsa. Mwina ndinu mphunzitsi, mlangizi wa msasa, mlangizi wa kusambira, kapena malo osungirako zinthu zakale. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati mwana ali autistic - kapena wangovulaza? Kapena, mwinamwake, onse autistic NDI owonongeka ovunda?
Pano pali mfundo zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kudziwa ngati mwanayo mukugwira nawo ntchito kapena mukuwona zosowa kapena malo ogona. Zinthu izi zikachitika, ganizirani zopereka zothandiza ndi malo ogona m'malo mozembera!
- Makhalidwe amawoneka ngati akuwonekera kuchokera ku buluu . Ngakhale kuti ana ambiri angayankhe ngati akutsutsa zomwe akufuna kapena kuwakhumudwitsa ndi anzanu, ana omwe ali ndi autism amatha kuchita zinthu chifukwa cha mavuto omwe amachititsa (kuwala kwambiri, kumveka, kutentha, zovala zosasangalatsa; ) zomwe zingakhale pafupifupi "zosawoneka" kwa ife tonse.
- Makhalidwewa amabwereza mobwerezabwereza koma alibe cholinga . Mwana yemwe amatsegula ndi kutsekera pakhomo mobwerezabwereza, mwinamwake kuyang'ana maso ake kuti ayang'ane kayendetsedwe ka chitseko, sangazichite kuti azikhala "wonyansa." Mwinamwake akusangalala ndi zochitika zomveka ndipo sakuzindikira ngati khalidwelo liri loyenera.
- Makhalidwe ake ndi osayenera . Pamene mwana wazaka 12 sangathe kuimitsa mayankho ake m'kalasi kapena akulimbikira kulankhula nthawi zonse za mavidiyo kapena "ojambula" mafilimu, amawoneka kuti akungoyendetsa galimoto ophunzira ake openga. Izi ndizo khalidwe lachidziwitso komanso zaka zosayenera zosagwirizana ndi autism.
- Mwanayo sakuyang'ana kuti achite. Ngakhale ana omwe amatha "kuchita" kuti atenge zomwe anzanu kapena akuluakulu akuchita, ana omwe ali ndi autism "amachita" okha, zifukwa zawo. Ngati muwona mwana akuchita chinachake chomwe nthawi zambiri amamuona ngati "wonyansa" (atakhala pansi pa desiki, akukwera pa benchi, akuthamanga kumene sakuyenera), koma sakhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe wina angachite pazochita zawo, akhoza kukhala kusonyeza zizindikiro za autism.
- Mwanayo amawoneka kuti alibe chikhalidwe. Ana omwe ali ndi autism akhoza kukhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri kuwerengera zomwe ena amachita, makamaka ngati ali osabisa. Zotsatira zake, iwo amatha kuyendetsa anzawo amisala mosakayika mwa kuyankhula kosatha za mutu wokondedwa, kukaniza malo awo, kapena kuganiza kuti ali olandiridwa pamene sali.
Ngakhale palibe zizindikiro izi ndizitsimikiziranso kuti mwana ali autistic, ndizowona kuti mwana sawonetsa chisangalalo kuti asangalale kapena kuti adzipeza yekha. Kaya ndi autistic kapena ayi, ndi ana amene amafunikira thandizo lina kuti athetse zovuta za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku!
> Zotsatira:
> Ryan, Sara.'Maltdowns ', kuyang'anira ndi kuyang'anira maganizo; Kutuluka ndi ana ndi autism. Malo Amalonda. 2010 Sep; 16 (5): 868-875.