Pamene mwana wanga anali ndi zaka zitatu, ankakonda Street Sesame. Iye ali tsopano 19. Amakondabe Sesame Street, "The Little Mermaid," zithunzi zithunzi, ndi Thomas the Tank Engine. Amatha kuyang'ana mafilimu omwewo a Disney mobwerezabwereza, ndipo amadziwa dzina la galimoto iliyonse pa "Island of Sodor". Amakonda kupanga zitsanzo ndi "maiko" ndi legos, kumvetsera nyimbo za Disney, ndi kupeza zithunzi zosangalatsa kuchokera ku chilengedwe (nkhono, mwachitsanzo) pa kompyuta yake.
Zosangalatsa izi sizinapweteke aliyense. Ndipo pamene iwo sali "okalamba" kwa mnyamata, iwo ali otetezeka komanso abwino kuposa, kunena, masewero a kanema ndi mafilimu onena za kupha ndi kuba kapena kuthamanga mofulumira kapena maphwando azinthu kapena kugonana kosagonana - zonse zomwe zingatengedwe " zachibadwa "zofuna za amuna m'chikhalidwe chathu.
Ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani anthu amamva ngati osasangalatsa pozungulira anthu omwe zofuna zawo ndizo "zosayenera?"
Yankho ndi losavuta. Anthu omwe amawonetsera zaka zosayenera zosiyana ndizosiyana. Zosiyana zimatanthauzira zolemera. Anthu osamveka akuwopsya . Ana oopsezedwa amanyansidwa, amadodometsedwa, ndi otsutsidwa. Akuluakulu oopsya ndi osowa malire komanso osungulumwa, ndipo amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri kupanga maubwenzi, kupeza ndi kusunga ntchito, kapena ngakhale kuvomerezedwa ngati odzipereka kumudzi.
Anthu omwe ali ndi autism ali ndi mavuto aakulu ndi kulankhulana kwabwino . Onjezerani nkhani zosayenera zosakwanira ndi zokambirana, ndipo mavutowa angakhale zovuta zambiri.
Momwe Anthu Ovomerezeka Angaphunzire Kukhala Ndi Achidwi Oyenera Kwambiri
Kodi tingalemekeze bwanji madera a autistic pomwe tikuthandizira kukhazikitsa ndi kulemekeza anthu? Sikuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta ngati zimveka!
- Fotokozani ndikukambirana nkhaniyi. Ngati mwana wanu angathe kukambirana ndi kumvetsetsa zachinsinsi za anthu ena, bwanji osangokambirana? Muuzeni mwana wanu zoona: Anthu omwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana mwachangu ndi osadabwitsa. Amati amayamikira zosakhala zachiwawa, zofalitsa zabwino - kenako amadera nkhaŵa pamene mwana wachikulire kapena munthu wamkulu akuti "ndimakonda kwambiri mafilimu a Disney, sichoncho?" Ndi bwino kuuza mwana wanu kuti, ngakhale kuti zofuna zake ziri zabwino, anthu ena adzawapeza akusokoneza - choncho ndi bwino kusangalala ndi kukambirana zokonda zawo kunyumba kapena mabwenzi omwe amawagawana nawo.
- Pangani malo omwe alipo. N'zotheka kusangalala ndi Thomas Tank Engine ndipo amasangalala kwambiri kuphunzira ndi kuyenda pa sitima zenizeni. Ngati mwana wanu akutha kupanga filimu yomwe amaikonda pa TV, mukhoza kumusonyeza dziko lonse lokhudzana ndi zofuna zomwe zingakumane ndi kuvomereza kuchokera kudziko lachiwerewere.
- Onjezerani zochitika zatsopano ndi mwayi popanda kuchotsa zofuna zomwe zilipo kale . Munthu amene amakonda Elmo angakonde kukwera mafilimu, mafilimu osokoneza bongo, chitsanzo cha rocketry, kapena kusonkhanitsa miyala. M'malo moganizira zomwe ziri "zolakwika" ndi Elmo, ganizirani kuthandiza mwana wanu kuti afutukule dziko lake. Pamene zofuna zatsopano zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri, zozizwitsa zakale zingayambe kutha.
- Pezani zinthu zomwe zofuna "zosayenera" zili zoyenera. Zikhoza kukhala "zachilendo" kuti mwana wamkulu aziwerenga yekha mabuku - koma ndibwino kuti awerenge mabuku omwewo kwa ana aang'ono kusukulu kapena ku laibulale. Kungakhale "zachilendo" kwa munthu wamkulu kuti apite kukawona pepala yatsopano ya Pixar yekha, koma ndizotheka kutero mu gulu la banja lomwe limaphatikizapo ana aang'ono. Ngati n'kotheka, mungathe kuthandiza mwana wanu kupeza nthawi yoyenera ndi malo kuti azisangalala ndi chidwi chake.
- Pezani njira zofanana komanso zovomerezeka "zosangalatsa". Mwachidziwitso, mtsikana yemwe amakonda Sesame Street ndi "wolemekezeka," mnyamata yemwe amakonda Muppets angatengedwe ngati geeky ndipo (m'magulu ena) akukhala bwino. Munthu wamkulu yemwe amasewera ndi timabuku ndi zodabwitsa, koma wamkulu yemwe amamanga nyumba zovuta kwambiri za Lego ndizojambula (ndipo zowonongeka ndizofunika kwambiri!). Mkazi yemwe amavala ngati Snow White kungosangalatsa basi, akhoza kukhala wodabwitsa, koma mkazi yemwe amapita ku Comicon (comic book convention) atavala ngati Wonder Woman ndi zodabwitsa.