Chilimwe Chimasangalalira Inu ndi Mwana Wanu Ndi Autism

Mabanja ambiri omwe ali ndi autistic anaopa chilimwe. Kusintha mwachizoloŵezi, nthawi yochuluka kwambiri, komanso nkhawa yokhudzana ndi khalidwe lachidziwitso, onse angathe kupeza njira yosangalatsa ya banja. Ngakhale mwana aliyense ali ndi autism ali osiyana, ntchito iliyonse ingasinthidwe kuti zigwirizane ndi zosowa za ana omwe ali ndi zovuta kapena zolakalaka, zokhudzana ndi kusintha, komanso zovuta. Ngakhale zili bwino, akhoza kusangalala ndi abale awo!

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Pitani Kusambira

Choyamba pa mndandanda uwu - ndipo pafupifupi mndandanda uliwonse wa zosangalatsa za chilimwe - akusambira. Ana ambiri ndi achinyamata omwe amawoneka pafupipafupi amayesa kumwa madzi, monga momwe abale awo ndi makolo awo amachitira. Pali njira zambiri zoti musambitsire ndi mwana wanu autistic; apa pali ochepa chabe. Zoonadi, sizikutanthauza kuti madzi akhoza kukhala owopsa, choncho musatenge bukhu ndikuwongolera pamene mwana wanu autistic akungoyenda.

• Pezani nyanja kapena nyanja yamtendere ndikupota pafupi ndi gombe. Lolani mwana wanu kuti ayambe kufufuza madzi pamtunda wake. Ana ena adzawaza, pamene ena adzakhala chete. Monga mwana wamng'ono, mwana wathu ankakonda kukhala pansi pa mchenga pansi pa nyanja ndikuwona nsomba yaying'ono ndi mbalame. Osati khalidwe laling'ono laling'ono, koma chomuchitikira chosangalatsa kwa iye.
• Pitani ku dziwe, ku YMCA. Y nthawi zambiri amapereka nthawi yapadera kuti asambe zosowa, ndipo ambiri amatha kusambira alangizi apadera. Ngakhale ngati satero, ana ambiri omwe alibe ndi autism akhoza kusewera ndi zinthu zamvula.
• Lowani mufoloji. Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amalakalaka kumva thupi, ndipo palibe chimene chimamenyetsa kugunda kwapadera chifukwa cha zochitika zina. Mwana wathu wamwamuna amakonda kwambiri mafunde ku New Jersey ndi ku Delaware. Kachiwiri, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti mukhale maso; tinagwiranso manja a ana athu onse pa mafundewa mpaka atakhala aakulu komanso amphamvu kuti apitirize kuyenda ngati mawonekedwe aakulu.

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Tengani Kuyenda

Aliyense akhoza kuyenda, ndipo ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amayenda bwino kapena akuyenda. Ena ali ndi mphamvu zodabwitsa; ena (monga mwana wanga) amadziŵa mwatsatanetsatane mfundo zonse zowazungulira. Ngati mukudandaula kuti mwana wanu akutopa, otentha, kapena antsy chabe, ayambe ndi kuyenda kochepa komweko. Malo ambiri okhala ndi chilengedwe amakhalanso ndi maulendo ang'onoang'ono ozungulira omwe ali pafupi ndi malo oyendera alendo - omwe angakhale ovuta, osangalatsa, ntchito zapabanja.

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Lowani ndi Nyumba ya Ana kapena Zoo

Simungaganize za mwana wanu ndi autism pogwiritsa ntchito nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale kapena zoo, koma mukamalowa - nthawi zambiri pa mtengo wotsika mtengo - mukhoza kubwera ndi kupita monga mukufunira, kwa nthawi yayitali kapena nthawi yochepa yomwe mumakonda. Izi zimakupatsani mpata wobweretsa mwana wanu autism (ndi ana anu) mwachidule, "phunzirani malo" oyendera maola omwe mabanja ena sangafikire (Lamlungu m'mawa ndi abwino). Nyumba zosungiramo zojambula zambiri za ana zimapereka malo ozizira omwe amatha kuthamanga ndi kuthamanga m'deralo, pamene malo ambiri amakhala ndi malo ophatikizira monga kupatula zojambula. Panthawi yomwe mwachezera kawiri kapena katatu, mwana wanu ali ndi autism adzadziwa chizoloŵezi, ndipo akumva pakhomo pa malo olemera, a maphunziro!

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Gwiritsani Pakati Pakati Paki Yokongola

Masitolo ambiri okondwerera amapereka mapepala osakwanira a nyengo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mukhoza kubweretsa mwana wanu ndi autism (ndi abale awo) nthawi zonse monga momwe mumafunira, zonse mwa mtengo womwewo. Musanapite, ganizirani zomwe mungachite, ndikuwonetsani zomwe mwakumana nazo ndi mwana wanu. Sankhani mosamalitsa kukwera ndi zochitika zomwe mumadziwa kuti angakonde, ndikupitiliza ulendo uliwonse. Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kupanga chizoloŵezi choyendera pakhomo, choncho mwana wanu amadziwa zomwe zidzachitike, komanso nthawi yomwe akuyembekezera kusintha. MFUNDO: Pitani pamene ena sali - m'mawa kwambiri, pamasiku a Sabata ndi Lamlungu, kuti athetse chiopsezo cha makamu, kukhumudwa, ndi kusungunuka.

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Pezani Nsanje

Ana ena omwe ali ndi autism ndi ojambula opambana; ambiri sali. Kusukulu, nthawi yochuluka imagwiritsidwa ntchito pa zamankhwala, maphunziro, ndi luso labwino labwino lomwe ana ambiri pafupipafupi nthawi zambiri amasowa pa kalasi yamakono. Kotero chilimwe ndi nthawi yabwino kuti mutsegule chitseko. Mukhoza kulemba mwana wanu ku kalasi ndi mphunzitsi, koma zingakhale zovuta kuti mupeze kalasi yabwino. Kawirikawiri, kusankha kwabwino ndiko kupanga kona yamakono kunyumba, kumaliza ndi mauthenga osiyanasiyana ndi tinthu zabwino kwambiri pansi. Dziwani kuti ana ambiri pamasewerawa amakhala ndi zovuta zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zovuta ziziyenda bwino; ena akhoza kuika zinthu zopanda chakudya m'milomo yawo. Choncho yambani ndi zophweka, zopanda poizoni monga makrayoni, mapepala, ndi lumo lachitetezo ndi kupita patsogolo. Ndipo musadandaule ngati mwana wanu si wojambula: ambiri mwa ife tiri!

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Fufuzani nyimbo

Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amakhala ndi luso loimba, koma chifukwa chakuti amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndi zinthu zina zofunika kusukulu, sangakhale nawo mwayi wojowina choyimba kapena kutenga choimbira. Chilimwe ndi nthawi yabwino yopititsa ana kumsonkhano wa kunja komwe angasunthire, kuvina, kapena kupanga phokoso popanda kupanga ruckus. Mukhozanso kuyambitsa ana anu ndi popanda nyimbo zoimbira, kuimba nawo nyimbo zoimba, kusewera nyimbo "kuvina" panyumba, kapena kuwapatsa mwayi woimba chida kapena nyimbo. kuimba.

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Pezani Zathupi

Kuchita zinthu moyenera n'kofunika kwa aliyense, koma ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amatha kutaya nthawi yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, maseŵera okonzedwa, kapena masiku othamanga kwambiri. Chilimwe ndi nthawi yabwino kuti mukhale thupi ngati banja. Malingana ndi luso la mwana wanu, ndibwino kuti muyesetse kuyesa zinthu monga kumbuyo kwa madzi kapena kukwera pamawindo, kukwera miyala (ndinadabwa kwambiri ndi mantha a mwana wanga komanso kukwera phiri Sungani!), kapena kudumphira pamtengo wapansi, wotetezedwa. Malo ochitira masewera a kumidzi ndi owopsa kwambiri - osati chifukwa chakuti amasangalala, am'mthupi, komanso amakhala otetezedwa, komanso chifukwa amapereka mipata yabwino yophunzitsa anthu.

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Fikirani Sitima

Anthu ambiri okhala ndi autism amakopeka ndi sitima; palibe amene akudziwa chifukwa chake! Kuthamanga sitima yeniyeni kungakhale chinthu choopsya cha chilimwe, ndipo pali mwayi wochuluka wochita izo nthawi zambiri zogona. Pali sitima yomwe imakwera mapiri; kukwera sitima; aphunzitseni museums omwe amapereka kukwera. Pali sitima za pamsewu, sitima zamoto, ndi sitima zomwe zimakupangitsani kupita kumalo osangalatsa. Palinso sitima zazing'ono m'mapaki okondweretsa omwe angakhale osangalatsa kwa aliyense.

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Pitani ku Disneyworld

Chabwino, wapatsidwa, izi sizitsika mtengo kapena zosavuta, ndipo Disney imakhala yotentha m'chilimwe. Koma ngati mukuyang'ana malo omwe banja lanu lonse - kuphatikizapo mwana wanu wotchuka - amatha kumasuka komanso kuthandizidwa, simungathe kulimbana ndi Disney. Amapereka zosowa zapadera zomwe mwana wanu safunikira kudikira mumzere wautali. Iwo amakupatsani chakudya chanu chilichonse. Amapereka mahatchi apamwamba, otsika komanso osambira, komanso zosankha zambiri zosasangalatsa popita kumalo othamanga kupita ku nsomba kupita ku mahatchi. Tengani pang'onopang'ono komanso mophweka, konzekerani ndikuwonetseratu zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo muzipanga nthawi zambiri komanso zosakaniza. Ndipo gwiritsani ntchito ntchito za Disney komwe ndi nthawi iliyonse imene mumazifuna: ndicho chifukwa chake ali kumeneko!