Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta yoyenera ndi anzawo. Ndipotu, chifukwa zizindikiro za autism zimakhala zovuta ndi kulankhulana kwabwino, mavuto amtundu wa anthu amakhala osapeweka. Koma pamene mwana wanu ali ndi autism sangakhale konse mfumu kapena mfumukazi (ngakhale palibe chotheka), pali njira zenizeni zomwe mungatengere monga kholo kuti muthandize mwana wanu kuzindikira zolinga za anthu oyandikana nawo.
Phunzitsani Ana Anu Kulankhula Monga Mwana
Kulankhulana ndi odwala masuku pamutu kumatanthauza bwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri amachita bwino. Koma ambiri opaleshoni ndi akazi. Ndipo ana ambiri okhala ndi autism ndi anyamata aang'ono. Zotsatira zake, si zachilendo kumva anyamata achichepere ali ndi autism akuyankhula mopanda ndalama ngati amayi achikulire. "Muli bwanji lero?" "Ndizosangalatsa kukumana nanu." "Kodi mlungu wanu watha?"
Ngakhale kuti mawu ngati awa athandiza mwana wanu bwino pamene akukula, zimamuika pangozi pabwalo la masewera. Choncho, mvetserani ku magawo othandizira, kupanga malingaliro, ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, thandizani mwana wanu pomudziphunzitsa (kapena, kukhala ndi ana ena mumamuphunzitse) kulankhula naye. Ana samanena "Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha mphatso yabwino," iwo amati "wow, izi ndizozizwitsa-zikomo!"
Phunzitsani Mwana Wanu Kusewera
Monga kholo, mwawona kuti mwana wanu amakonda kusewera masewera, ndipo kawirikawiri amasankha kudziyerekezera . Kujambula masewero sikovuta, komabe, kuti mwana wanu atengere mbali iliyonse ya masewero, adzafunikira maluso kuti achite zimenezo.
N'chifukwa chiyani maseŵera olimbirana ndi ovuta kwambiri kwa ana omwe ali ndi autism? Choyamba, ana ochepa omwe ali ndi autism amayesetsa kutsanzira komanso kutsanzira anzawo kapena makolo awo kapena mafilimu omwe amakonda. Kotero pamene ana ena akusewera "nyumba," kapena kukhala masewera akuluakulu, ana okhala ndi autism akumanga nsanja za legos. Ngakhale ana ena "akudyetsa" zidole zawo zazing'ono kapena nyama zowakulungidwa, ana omwe ali ndi autism akuchita mafunde omwewo mobwerezabwereza.
Kusankha mwana wanu zochita zapadera sikolakwika kapena koipa, koma kumachepetsa. Ndipo popanda luso la kusewera, mwana wanu sangathe kusankha kusankha ngati akuyenera.
Mutha kukhala mphunzitsi wa mwana wanu pomulangiza pomusewera. Nthaŵi ya pansi ndi RDI ndi njira ziwiri zomwe makolo angagwiritse ntchito polimbikitsa masewero; Mwinanso, mungathe kutsata malingaliro anu. Mwanjira iliyonse, cholinga chanu ndi kuphunzitsa mwana wanu momwe angadzipangire, kusewera, ndi - monga momwe akufunira - momwe mungalankhulire ndi ena pogwiritsa ntchito masewero, kaya ndi mau kapena osayankhula.
Phunzitsani Mwana Wanu Zapamwamba Zamasewera ndi Zolinga
Kawirikawiri, ana okhala ndi autism amatha masiku awo kusukulu komanso madzulo komanso madzulo. Mosiyana ndi ana ena, ali ndi mwayi wophunzira luso la masewera kapena masewera . Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, pamene ana ena akhoza kuponyera mpira pafupi ndi makolo awo kapena abale awo, ana omwe ali ndi autism amaikidwa pambali - mwina amagwira ntchito zochiritsira kapena sangathe kukhalabe ndi ana awo omwe amakula.
Zotsatira zake ndi zoona kuti ana omwe ali ndi autism amasiyidwa pambali zokhudzana ndi mfundo zenizeni monga "baseball ndizochepa kuposa mpira," kapena zolinga monga cholinga, kugwedeza, kuthamanga, kapena kuwombera.
Panthawi yomwe mwana ali ndi autism ali wamkulu kuti athe kulowerera masewera a masewera - ngakhale masewera a masewera apadera - iye ali kutali kwambiri ndi anzako alibe njira yodziwira. Tangoganizirani wazaka zisanu ndi zitatu amene samvetsa zomwe maseŵero a mpira amachita, kapena wazaka zisanu ndi zinayi yemwe sanamvepo za "ziphuphu zowombera." Inde, akhoza kuthamanga pambali, koma kumene ana ena akhala akuyang'ana, kutenga nawo mbali masewera a pepala, ndi kuchita kunyumba, mwanayo ali ndi autism alibe ubwino uliwonse. Ndipo izi zikuphatikizapo zovuta zokhudzana ndi autistic kuyambira kuvuta kwa minofu mpaka zovuta pakukonza malangizo a aphunzitsi.
Inu, monga kholo, mukhoza kuthetsa vutoli mwa kutenga udindo wophunzitsa mwana wanu masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mungasankhe kumudziwitsa mpira wake komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena mungasankhe kusankha masewera omwe mumasangalala nawo omwe sali ogwirizana ndi magulu (kuyenda, kusodza, kusambira, etc.). Mulimonsemo, mungapatse mwana wanu kuyamba mutu ndikumukonzekeretsa kuti azikhala naye kunja kwa sukulu.
Phunzitsani Mwana Wanu Kupita Kumalo Osewera
Palibe munthu amene sangachite nawo ndale zamasewera, asalole mwana yemwe ali ndi autism. Koma mukhoza kuthandiza mwana wanu ndi autism kuti aziyenda mozungulira masewera a masewera poyendera masewera pamodzi kapena abale ndi abwenzi, ndikuchita zina zomwe mukuyembekezera. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti oyang'anira masewera a masewera sangathe kuphunzitsa luso limeneli, chifukwa amaganiza kuti "ana amangodziwa zinthu izi." Maluso amodzi ochepa ndi awa:
- Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuti ayime mzere (pewani pansi, kenako pitani kumbuyo kwa slide ndikudikira nthawi yanu)
- Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuti ayambe kusambira (kuphunzira kupopera m'malo moyembekezera munthu wamkulu kuti akankhire)
- Phunzitsani mwana wanu njira zowonongeka komanso zosangalatsa (nthawi zonse muli ndi manja awiri ndi phazi kapena miyendo iŵiri ndi dzanja pamapangidwe okwera, ndi zina zotero)
- Phunzitsani mwana wanu momwe angapemphe munthu wamkulu kuti awathandize ngati pakufunikira.
Onani TV Yoyenera Ndi Mafilimu Ndi Mwana Wanu
Monga achikulire, ana amagawana mafilimu ndi TV awo ndi anzawo. Ngati mwana wanu ali ndi autism sakuyang'ana - kapena akuwonetsa ana aang'ono okha - sakudziwa zomwe anzake akunena. Kaya ndikumaliza maphunziro kuchokera ku Dora Explorer to Sponge Bob, kapena kuchokera ku Sponge Bob kupita ku The Avengers, nkofunika kuti mwana wanu azichita nawo zomwezo monga anzako . Pofuna kuti amvetsetse ndikugwirizanitsa ndi anthu omwe amamudziwa ndi ziwembu, komabe, amafunikira thandizo lanu. Inde, mufunika kukhala pansi ndikuyang'ana Sponge Bob. Ndipo zodabwitsa mungapeze kuti mumakonda.
Inde, kuphunzitsa mwana wanu ndi autism luso lofotokozedwa apa silidzachotsa autism. Koma iwo amupatsa luso lofunika kuti akwaniritse ndi kulumikizana ndi ana ena.