Khalani Wodekha ndi Kumbukirani Autism ndi Marathon, Osati Sprint
Ngati muli ngati makolo ambiri, dziko lanu linasintha pamene munayamba kumva mawu akuti "autism" omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito polongosola mwana wanu. Ndipo, monga kholo lililonse labwino, chizoloŵezi chanu choyamba chingakhale choti muphunzire zonse zomwe mungathe, kupeza madokotala abwino, ndikuchitapo kanthu mwaukali kukonza vutoli. Musanayambe kuchitapo kanthu, mungafune kupeza mwachidule zomwe zimakonda kukhala kholo la autism.
Pokhala ndi chidziwitso chaching'ono, mungathe kusankha mwanzeru za momwe mungayankhire ndi kumene mungagwiritse ntchito nthawi, mphamvu, chiyembekezo, ndi chikondi.
Pewani Kudziwa Kulemera Kwambiri
Mukuganiza kuti inu mukanakhoza kuwerenga pa autism mu masiku pang'ono chabe? Chowonadi ndi chakuti, anthu ambiri amatha kulira masabata osatha ndi miyezi akuwerenga webusaiti iliyonse, blog, ndikuwerenga ... kupita ku msonkhano uliwonse ... ndipo kumapeto, iwo amasokonezeka kwambiri kuposa pamene adayamba. Inde, ndibwino kudziwitsa nokha za zosankhazo. Koma mabuku amodzi kapena awiri (monga Autism Guide for Dummies ndi Steven Shore) adzakupatsani chidziwitso chabwino popanda kukulemetsani zambiri ndi malingaliro pazochitika zonse zomwe zimayambitsa chithandizo kwa moyo wachikulire ndi autism.
Musadandaule Kwambiri Ponena za "Chifukwa" cha Autism
Ochepa a makolo amadziwa chifukwa chake mwana wawo ali autistic. Angakhale ndi autism m'mabanja awo. Angadziwe kuti mwana wawo ali ndi zovuta zochepa zomwe zimayambitsa autism.
Kapena amayi amatha kumwa mankhwala awiri kapena atatu omwe amadziwika kuti autism pamene ali ndi pakati.
Ngati simugwera m'magulu amenewo, mwayi sungadziwe chifukwa cha autism ya mwana wanu.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimayambitsa autism . Ambiri amathandizidwa ndi kafukufuku umodzi.
Zina mwa izi ndi monga mafoni, WiFi, Pitocin (mankhwala ofulumira kubereka), poizoni wa mercury, abambo okalamba, utoto wojambula ndi zotsekemera, ndi makina a ultrasound. Mwachidule, kutukumula zomwe zimayambitsa autism kungakuchititseni misala - ndikukulepheretsani ntchito yofunikira kwambiri yothandiza mwana wanu kuti azigwira ntchito pamlingo woyenera kwambiri.
Lembetsani Kuyanjana Kanu ndi Ena "Makolo a Autism"
Inde, ndibwino kuti mudziwe bwino makolo ena omwe ali mumkhalidwe wanu makamaka pamene mukuyang'ana odwala, masukulu, ndalama, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, dziwani kuti makolo omwe ali ndi autistic ana nthawi zambiri amakondwera ndi odwala komanso mankhwala omwe asankha. Ndipo zimakhala zophweka kuti azivutika kwambiri ngati makolo akuumirira kuti njira yawo yokha ndiyo njira yokhayo. Chowonadi ndi chakuti palibe amene amadziwa njira yabwino kwambiri kwa mwana wanu.
Musasankhe Mankhwala Opanikizika
Pamene mukulowa m'dziko la autism, mudzakumana ndi aphunzitsi, makolo, madokotala, ndi othandizira omwe ali otsimikiza kuti amadziwa zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwa mwana wanu. Ndi zolinga zabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi, adzakakamiza kuti mutenge mwana wanu kwa Dr. X, kapena muyende makilomita mazana ambiri kuti mukapereke mankhwala a Dr. Z.
Lembani mwachidwi, lembani zolemba, ndipo yesetsani kufufuza kwanu. Ngati chithandizocho chikuwoneka kuti n'chosavuta kuti chikhale chowonadi, chimakhala ndi ndalama zochulukirapo, zowonongeka zovomerezeka zosagwirizana, kapena palibe kufufuza komweko, simukuyenera kunena "inde". Kapena simukuyenera kubwereranso kwa munthu wokakamiza m'moyo wanu.
Dziwani Kuti Zina Zopanda Thandizo Ndiponso Zothandiza Sizimaganiziridwa "Momwemo Wagolide"
M'mayiko abwino kwambiri, mankhwala amasankhidwa pamaziko a maphunziro apadera awiri apadera. Zikanakhala kuti zikanatheka mu dziko la autism! Ndipotu, mankhwala ochepa a autism ayesedwa motere.
Njira imodzi yokha, Applied Behavioral Analysis, yafufuzidwa kwambiri ndipo idapindula chizindikiro cha "golide". Koma ABA sikuti ndiyo mankhwala abwino kwambiri kwa mwana aliyense. Mankhwala ambiri, monga Floortime, RDI, SCERTS, ndi zina zambiri zimachokera pa sayansi yamphamvu, sizowonongeka, ndipo zingakhale zothandiza kwa mwana wanu. Ndikofunika nthawi yanu kuyang'ana mu zingapo za zomwe zikuwoneka bwino komanso zoyenera kwa mwana wanu.
Osadandaula Za Autism
N'zosavuta kudzifunsa za autism. Ndizomveka kuti n'zosadabwitsa kuti makolo aziganizira kwambiri za autism ya mwana wawo. Mwamwayi, zovuta zimatha kupanga mavuto ambiri kuposa momwe amathetsera. Zambiri kuposa banja limodzi lagonjetsedwa ngati zotsatira za wokondedwa wina zimangoganizira kwambiri za autism kuti apite kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake. Mabanja ambiri apita kukayesera kupereka chithandizo chilichonse, mosasamala kanthu kuti ndi mtengo wotani kapena wosasamala. Ndipo zimakhala zachilendo kwa abale ndi alongo a ana omwe ali ndi autism kumva kuti amanyalanyazidwa ndi makolo omwe akuwoneka akungodziwa kokha kuthandizira abale awo olumala.
Musati Mukuganiza Kuti Nthawizonse Mumadziwa Zabwino
Makolo nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kuwona, kufotokoza komanso kumvetsa ana awo. Makolo nawonso amafunikira kulimbikitsa ana awo kusukulu ndi kwina kulikonse. Koma ngakhale amayi samadziwa nthawi zonse zomwe zingagwire ntchito kwa mwana wawo ndipo kawirikawiri mphunzitsi kapena wodwala angapeze talente, zosowa, luso, kapena zovuta zomwe zimakudetsani inu zodabwitsa. Mwachidule, chibadwa cha amayi ndi chodabwitsa, koma chiri ndi malire ake. Ndipo poumirira kuti nthawi zonse mumadziwa zomwe mwana wanu akufunikira, mukhoza kuchepetsa zomwe mungachite.
Musati Mulemere Mwana Wanu (Kapena Mwini Mwini)
Pali chikhumbo chomveka chowona zotsatira kuchokera ku zoyesayesa zanu. Ndipo polimbikitsana kwambiri powonongeka koyamba, makolo nthawi zambiri amafuna kuwona ana awo "atakhazikitsidwa" pomwepo. Koma ndi bwino kupeŵa chiyeso chodumphira kuchipatala chochuluka ndi chiyembekezo kuti chinachake chidzagwira ntchito. Sikuti inuyo ndi mwana wanu mungatope, koma zingakhale zosatheka kudziwa zomwe zikugwira ntchito. Kumbukirani kuti palibe "mawindo," ndipo mwana wanu apitirizabe kuphunzira ndi kukula m'moyo wake wonse.
Musaiwale Kupuma
Ngakhale zofalitsa zofalitsa zotsutsana ndizosiyana, sizodabwitsa kwambiri kuti mwana adziwe bwinobwino kuti ali ndi autism ndiyeno "amachira" bwinobwino. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, ngati mwana wanu akulandira chithandizo cholimba, chithandizo, ndi chikondi, adzalimbikitsa luso komanso maubwenzi ndikupitirizabe kuchita zonsezi.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kuchiza autism sikuthamangira kuchiza. Mmalo mwake, ndizofuna kupeza mndandanda wa zothandizira ndi njira ya moyo yomwe idzagwira ntchito, ndi masintha ndi kusintha, nthawi yambiri. Ziribe kanthu kuti mumayenda msanga bwanji, ndipo mosasamala kanthu za ndalama zomwe mumagwiritsira ntchito, mwana wanu ali ndi autism akhoza kukhala autistic ndi zonse zotsika komanso pansi (ndipo inde, pali "ups" ) omwe amapita ndi matenda.
Ngati mungathe, khalani ndi nthawi yosangalala ndi mwana wanu, mnzanu, banja lanu, moyo wanu. Pezani mpweya watsopano. Kumbukirani, ngati mungathe, kuti mwana wanu asakhale pangozi ya moyo kapena miyendo, ndipo kuti akadakali munthu yemweyo amene mumakonda.
> Zotsatira:
American Psychological Association. Autism Treatment Options. American Psychological Association webusaiti. http://www.apa.org/topics/autism/treatment.aspx. 2016.
Zomwe Zimayambitsa Matenda. Matenda a Autism Spectrum: Chithandizo. Maofesi a Webusaiti Yowononga Matenda. http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/treatment.html. 2016.