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Kodi zimatenga chiani kwa chimbudzi chophunzitsira mwana pa autism spectrum? Kawirikawiri, ndizovuta komanso zovuta. Ana omwe ali ndi autism sangasangalale ndi anzawo a msinkhu wawo, kapena amakhala ndi chidwi chovala zovala za "mnyamata wamkulu". Angakhale ndi mavuto omwe amachititsa kuti zikhale zovuta kumva kuti ndifunika kupita. Pakhoza kukhala ndi nkhawa pafupi ndi mpando wa chimbudzi, phokoso la chimbudzi, ndi zina zotero.
Mayi wina amakhumudwa kwambiri, ndipo analemba kuti:
Ndili ndi msinkhu wa zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi yemwe sangachite bm wake mu potty. Iye wakhala ali kwa akatswiri ambiri, akatswiri kuyambira pamene iye anali - kwenikweni - osachepera ndiye tsiku limodzi lokalamba! Iye wakhala ndi mayesero ambiri ndipo tapita ku masitepe osiyana ... koma palibe kusintha komwe kunapangidwa. Iye akucheperapo pang'ono pang'ono. Amakodza mu potty popanda zikumbutso. Iye wakhala ali pa-mira-lax - pa and off kwa zaka. Tayesetsanso zakudya zosiyanasiyana zosiyana siyana komanso zitsamba zochokera ku zitsamba.Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi kachidutswa kakang'ono ka thumba lake - ngakhale kuti amasinthidwa kangati. Ndimagwirizana ndi lingaliro lakuti samvekanso fungo lokha - monga momwe amadziwira. Ana ena akutola fungo. Tayesayesa zokakamiza - komanso choletsedwa. Mukayikidwa pa potty-trantrums mumatulukira. Kulepheretsa kutenga nawo mbali muzinthu zambiri. Tonsefe timakhumudwa kwambiri! Ngati wina ali ndi malingaliro - zotsatsa - chonde ndidziwitse!
Kanthawi kochepa, ndinalemba nkhani yonse yotsatila ndondomeko ya momwe mungaphunzitsire mwana wanu ndi autism zomwe zimatengera zambiri mwazinthuzi. Powerenga nkhaniyi (ndi Dr. Beth Kroeger, katswiri wa ntchitoyi) pa nkhani ya kayendedwe ka ubweya ndi autism:
Ana ambiri adzakhala ndi vuto lochepa pakusamba, koma amawoneka kuti sakukayikanso kuti ayambe kumbudzi. Zifukwa zambiri zikhoza kufotokoza izi, akuti Dr. Kroeger."Ngati pali vuto, timayang'ana chifukwa chake zingakhale kudzimbidwa, kapena mwina mwana sakonda kuswa kumene kumachitika pamene gulu la matumbo limagunda madzi. Ngati ndilo vuto, timagwira ntchito pang'onopang'ono kuti tisawonongeke . " Dr. Kroeger amaperekanso malangizo othandizira kuphunzitsa zipinda zapakhomo pamene mwana wanu akufuna kuti aziwombera. Chinthu chofunikira kuti apambane, akufotokoza, akutenga ndondomeko ndi sitepe.
- Choyamba, dziwani pamene mwana wanu akung'amba, ndipo mum'pangire mchipinda chosambira - mu bafa.
- Pang'ono pang'onopang'ono, amawotchera kuti amupangire kuti alowe mu chimbudzi.
- Kenaka, amuponyeni thalauza iye asanakhale pa chimbudzi. Pomalizira pake, khalani pansi pa chimbuzi ndikumangirira.
Zotsatirazi zingatenge nthawi yaitali, ndipo mungafunikire kuziphwanya mobwerezabwereza. Chofunika kwambiri kuti mupambane, chimachititsa kuti mwana wanu apambane ndi kulandira mphotho yomwe ikupindulitsa.
Kodi Dr. Kroeger akusowa chiyani? Kodi pali njira zina zomwe zakuthandizani inu ndi mwana wanu? Chonde ugawane!