Makolo ambiri ayenera kukhala ndi chithunzi m'maganizo mwawo mwana wamng'ono kapena mtsikana wokongola akupempha kuti am'pemphere, akumuitana mayi ndi bambo kuti azidzipangira tiyi, kapena akufunsani kuti "kodi mumabwera kusewera?" Ndipotu, makolo ambiri amangoganizira koma amadalira mwana wawo kuti akhale ndi malingaliro komanso otsogolera.
Ana omwe ali ndi autism, ngakhale ali ndi malingaliro aakulu , sangathe kutenga chitukuko.
Ndipotu, ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amakhala osangalala kusewera okha , kubwereza ntchito zomwe amakonda, mobwereza bwereza, popanda kukhudzidwa ndi amayi, abambo, kapena wina aliyense.
Ndipotu, ana omwe ali ndi autism sakhala otsanzira ena. Chotsatira chake, samakonda kusewera mtundu wa masewera odziyeretsa kapena masewera omwe makolo amayembekezera. Lingaliro la kutsanzira kholo lophika chakudya silingapezeke kwa iwo. Lingaliro losewera kavalidwe, kapena kukhala "monga" Amayi, Adadi, masewera a masewera, kapena masewera ena sangalowe mmaganizo mwao. Iwo sangatenge zojambula kuchokera ku moyo weniweni kapena amafunitsitsa kukhala akalonga a Disney kapena mafumukazi.
Izi zimasokoneza anthu akuluakulu omwe, kuyembekezera khalidwe linalake, amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kusintha zomwe akuyembekeza. Kaŵirikaŵiri, makolo ndi agogo aganiza kuti sangamvetse bwino mwana wawo, ndipo amasiya kuyesera. Sitikutanthauza kuvulaza kapena kunyalanyaza, koma apanga malingaliro awo kuti n'zosatheka kumanga ubale.
Kotero iwo samatero.
Makolo Amanena Zokhudza Ana awo Ovomerezeka Amene Amawononga Ubale
Mwatsoka kwa ana omwe ali ndi autism, osati kutenga nawo mbali n'kosavuta. Zonse zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi kunena chimodzi mwaziganizozi, ndipo anthu oyandikana nawo adzalankhula mozindikira. Zotsatira zake: Simudzamanga ubale ndi mwana wanu wa autistic.
Nthawi.
Pano pali malemba angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kuti musamudziwe mwana wanu autistic:
- "Ndimangomulola kuti abwere kwa ine. " (Sadzabwera kwa inu chifukwa ana omwe ali ndi autism sakuganizira za inu pokhapokha ali ndi chifukwa chabwino chochitira zimenezo.)
- "Sindikufuna kumukankhira." (Ngati simukutsutsa mwana wanu ndi autism kuti agwirizane ndi inu kapena kuchita chinachake kunja kwa malo ake otonthoza, iye sadzatero. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mumayenera kumukankhira mpaka kukhumudwa, koma vuto laling'ono likupita kutalika.)
- "Adzangokwiya." (Inde, ngati mumapweteka mwana wanuyo amakhumudwa koma ngati mumayanjana naye pomwe ali ndi vuto labwino, sangakwiyitse - ngakhale atakhala wosangalala, wodala, komanso wogwirizana!)
- "Sangathe kuchita nawo maseŵero oterewa ." (Zoona kuti ana omwe ali ndi autism sakusankha kawirikawiri, okha, kutsanzira kapena kudziyesa kuti ali munthu wina koma izi sizikutanthawuza kuti ana omwe ali ndi autism sangathe kulenga - kapena, amatanthauza kuti sangathe Tsatirani, komabe, tengani ntchito pa gawo la makolo kuti muwone momwe mungathandizire mwana ndi autism kuti ayambe ndi kudziyerekeza kapena kubwereza masewero.)
- "Sindisangalala kwenikweni ndi anthu olumala." (Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri: anthu ambiri achikulire amamva kuti ali ndi mtundu uliwonse wa kusiyana kwa maganizo kapena chitukuko. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe makolo, agogo, agogo awo, amalume ndi abambo awo ali ndi ubale wapang'ono kapena wopanda chibale pa autism spectrum. Kupambana kwabwino ndi kungowonjezera.)
- "Iye sakonda ine, kotero ine ndidzakhala kutali ndi ine." (Kusunga mtunda wanu ndi njira yowopsya kuti muwonetsetse kuti simudzayandikira - mwakuthupi kapena m'maganizo - kwa mwana wanu wa autistic. Kusankha bwino ndiko kuwona anthu amene AMAFUNIKA pafupi , awone zomwe zimagwira ntchito bwino, ndikuzipereka Yesani kuyesa, kulephera, ndi kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa zanu - koma kunyalanyaza kapena kunyalanyaza mwana wanu sikuli konse.)