Ku America, abambo amatha kugwirizana ndi ana awo pogwiritsa ntchito kugwirizana ndi kuthamanga masewera, masewera, ndi kuphunzitsa. Ngati mnyamata amasangalala ndi a Boy Scouts, bambo amathandiza kumanga galimoto ku Pinewood Derby. Ngati mnyamata amakonda Little League, Adadi amaphunzitsa luso, amaponya mizati ndipo, mwinamwake, amathandiza wophunzitsa.
Zingakhale zovuta kuona momwe ntchitozi zingagwire ntchito bwino ndi mwana yemwe ali ndi mavuto, zovuta ndi luso lapamwamba la magalimoto, mavuto olankhula chinenero, ndi luso lolingalira.
Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti abambo a ku America amafunikira maluso atsopano kuti agwirizane ndi mwana wawo wa autistic? Yankho ndilo inde ... ndipo ayi.
Inde, kulera mwana pamasewero kumafuna ena kunja-bokosi kuganiza , kuganiza pang'ono, kufunitsitsa kuyesa, kulephera, ndi kuyesanso. Zimapanganso luso lochita kusintha - ngakhale pamene kusintha sikukuwonetsera mphamvu zanu kapena zofuna zanu.
Kugwiritsa ntchito luso lakumeta
Koma ayi, kulera mwana ndi autism sikungatanthauze kusiya malingaliro anu aubambo weniweni. Malinga ndi zochitikazo, zingakhale zotheka kubweretsa malingaliro omwewo patebulo - koma tipezereni ana omwe amaganiza ndi kuchita mosiyana.
Nazi malingaliro ochepa pogwiritsira ntchito njira zonse zoyamwitsa za America kuti zigwirizane ndi mwana pa autism spectrum :
- Kukonda . Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti: mwana wanu wamwamuna angakhale wokonda kwambiri . Ndichifukwa chakuti ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amawona kufunikira kokakamizika kwambiri kapena kukhudzidwa kuti akhale omasuka komanso okhudzidwa. "Ndakugwirani" masewera, masewera osakanikirana, ndi mitundu ina yowopsya, choncho, ingakhale chithandizo chenicheni kwa mwana payekha. Nkhani zoipa, ngakhale zili choncho, kuti ana omwe ali ndi autism angapezeke ndi mavuto aakulu. Muyenera kuyesa masewera osiyanasiyana kuti mudziwe zomwe zimasangalatsa - osati zopweteka - kwa mwana wanu autistic.
- Sakani masewera . Kwa ana ambiri pamasewero, omwe masewero ophiphiritsira ndi kulankhulana mawu ndi zovuta, masewera othamanga ndiwo oyamba, njira yabwino yosewera ndi NDIYE kusiyana ndi kuyang'ana anthu ena. Zingakhale zovuta kwa mwana wanu, komabe, akutsatira masewera ndi malamulo enieni. Kwa ana ena pamasewera, malamulo a masewera monga tag kapena Landani Flag angakhale otseguka kwambiri kuti azindikire. Kwa ena, malamulo angakhale olemetsa kwambiri. MaseĊµereni ndi khutu: Inu ndi mwana wanu mungakhale osangalala kwambiri "kukhala ziwonetsero" palimodzi kusiyana ndi kusewera masewera olamulira.
- Masewera . Ndizochepa - ngakhale sizikumveka z-za mwana yemwe ali ndi autism kukhala katswiri wodziwa masewero olimbitsa thupi. Masewera a masewera ndi ovuta kwambiri kwa mwana yemwe ali ndi nthawi yovuta ndi luso lapamwamba la magalimoto, sangathe kuwerenga chilankhulo cha thupi, ndipo sangathe kufotokozera zachinsinsi pokhapokha atamufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane. Komabe, ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amakhala abwino kwambiri (ndipo amakondwera kwambiri) masewera ena odziimira monga kuthamanga, njinga, bowling, ndi kusambira. Mungapezenso chidwi pa masewera owonerera: ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amakhala ofunika kwambiri, ndipo amatha kudziwa zambiri zokhudza gulu lanu lomwe mumawakonda kuposa momwe mumachitira!
- Kuphunzitsa . Ngati muli ndi mwana ali ndi autism, sizikuwoneka kuti mutha kuyambitsa coaching gulu lopambana mu mbiri ya pulayimale. Kumbali inayi, mungayimbire kuphunzitsa gulu la ana omwe amafunikiradi abambo ngati inu kuti muwathandize kutuluka kunja, kuponyera mpira, ndi kusangalala ndi kusewera kwa maziko, kupanga cholinga, kapena kukhala mbali ya gulu. Magulu ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse amayang'ana ophunzitsa a makolo - ndipo ntchitoyi ikukwaniritsa zodabwitsa.
- Kupeza Chidwi Chofuna Kusangalala . Mwinanso njira yofunikira kwambiri yoti bambo ndi mwana akhale ogwirizana ndi apamwamba kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, ana omwe ali ndi autism MUZIKHALA zofuna (ngakhale zokhumba). Ngati mukufuna kugwirizanitsa ndi mwana wanu, njira yabwino kwambiri kutsatira ndiyo kupeza zomwe amakonda - ndikugawana. Ayi, mwina simunayambe kukonda, kunena, sitima zamtundu kapena mafilimu a Disney. Koma pofufuza zakuya ndikupeza njira yosangalalira ndi zolaula kapena chidwi ndi mwana wanu, mumanga maziko a moyo wanu wonse.