Ngati mukuganiza kuti ndizovuta kukhala mwana wa autism, taganiziraninso. Sikuti mwayang'anizana ndi mavuto onse okhudzana ndi vuto lalikulu la chitukuko, koma inunso mukukumana ndi chiwembu cha ziyembekezo zomwe ana ena sapulumutsidwa.
Inu mukuwerenga izo molondola. Ndizowona. Ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amayenera kuchita bwino, kuganizira bwino, ndikuyanjana ndi anthu ambiri kuposa ana omwe sangakhale autism.
Ndipo ngati sangakhale ndi zotsatira zake zingakhale zovuta. M'malo mopeza "kupitako" monga momwe ana angapangire ("ali ndi tsiku loipa," "ali wamanyazi pang'ono," ndi zina zotero), ana omwe ali ndi autism omwe sadziwonetsa okha "oyenera" angalandire zotsatira kapena kufulumira kuzipinda zamakono, magulu a masewera osiyana, komanso zochiritsira zambiri.
Kodi izi zikuwonjezereka kuti ziwoneke bwanji? Nazi zofananitsa zingapo zomwe zingakudabwe iwe.
- Kawirikawiri kulera ana nthawi zambiri kumakhala "kusokoneza" mafoni a m'manja, iPads, ndi zipangizo zina. Akamayankhula, amatha kuyang'anitsitsa kwa anzawo akuluakulu owazungulira. Chikhalidwe chosauka choterechi chimaperekedwa kuti chikhale chopitilira, pamene akuluakulu amadziwa momwe nthawi ndi ziyembekezo zasinthira. Osatero kwa ana pa autism spectrum. Akalephera kuyang'ana wamkulu kapena wokondedwa , amatsutsidwa kuti achite - ndipo akhoza kulandira zotsatira monga kutaya mwayi ngati atalephera kuchita zimenezo.
- Malingaliro ndi, tiyeni tiyang'anire nazo, luso lotha kufa. Owerengeka kwambiri omwe akulera ana akufunsidwa kuti agwirane chanza ndi akulu pamene akuyang'anitsitsa maso ndi kunena mizere ngati "ndizosangalatsa kukumana nanu." Ana omwe ali ndi autism, komabe, amaphunzitsidwa zongopeka chabe - maluso omwe sali oyenerera zaka koma amachititsa iwo kukhala "apadera" pakati pa anzawo.
- Kukambirana pakati pa ana, makamaka anyamata, ndizofunikira kwambiri. Ana anganene zambiri kuposa "kuyang'ana!" "Kuli!" "Ndikhoza kuyesa?" kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo ndizo zabwino. Pokhapokha anawo atakhala autistic. Zikatero, poganiza kuti ali mawu, amafunsidwa kufunsa ndi kuyankha mafunso omwe sali oyenerera kwa ana a msinkhu wawo. Kodi ndi zaka khumi ndi zingati - kupatula mwana wa autistic omwe ali ndi chidziwitso cha gulu la anthu, omwe nthawi zambiri, ndi amayi achikulire - akuti "mwambo wa sabata wanu unali ndi nthawi yanji? Tinapita ku mafilimu. Ndinkakonda kuona filimu yatsopano ya Disney. "
- Ambiri omwe amakhala akutukuka amakhala amanyazi kapena amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kuwerenga chilankhulo ndi chikhalidwe. Izi zikachitika, akuluakulu amadziwa kuti mwanayo ndi wamanyazi, ndipo amatha kukonda zofuna zawo kapena amalimbikitsa molimbikitsana. Ana ovomerezeka alibe mwayi. Chisankho cha chete ndi / kapena kudzikhalitsa sichimawoneka ngati chofuna chaumwini ndipo m'malo mwake chimawoneka ngati chizindikiro cha autistic. Chotsatira chake, chiyenera "kukonzetsedwa" kudzera mu maphunziro a chikhalidwe cha anthu , zochitika za anzanu, ndi mapulogalamu ena ochiritsira.
- Ambiri amatha kukhala ndi ana omwe amakhala ndi khalidwe labwino kusukulu. Angathe kuyankha mayankho m'malo mokweza manja awo, kutaya mtima pa nthawi ya mayesero, kapena kukhala nawo nthawi yovuta kapena kugawana nawo. Izi zikachitika, aphunzitsi ambiri amayankha mwachidule kuti "kwezani dzanja lanu," "kusewera bwino," kapena "kugwira ntchito ndi mnzanuyo." Ana omwe ali ndi autism, komabe ali ndi chikhalidwe cholimba kwambiri chokumana nacho. Pamene "akuwombera" kapena kutaya mtima, amakhala ndi zotsatira zosiyana siyana zomwe zingachititse kuti asatulukidwe maudindo ndikupita ku sukulu yosiyana.
- Mwana wamba akamabwera kunyumba ndikukhala nthawi yokha, makolo amavomereza. Pambuyo pa zonse, aliyense amafunika nthawi yochepa yokha - yolondola? Pamene mwana ali ndi autism amachitanso zomwezo, makolo amavutika: kodi akupanga anzanu? Kodi amafunikira chithandizo chamankhwala ambiri? Pali mwayi wabwino kuti nthawi yokha silingalekerere.