Mukudziwa kale nkhani yoipa: Cholowa chanu changwiro chili ndi autism spectrum diagnosis . Koma palinso uthenga wabwino: monga agogo a mwana yemwe ali ndi autism, muli ndi mwayi wothandizira kuthandizira mwana wanu wamkulu ndi zidzukulu zanu kuti akule bwino ndi vuto lomwe simudziyembekezera. Mwinanso mungadabwe kumva kuti kukhala "autism" agogo aakazi sikumakhala kovuta ngati kumveka.
Sungani Malamulo
Inde, mwinamwake mwawona mwana wanu akuwombera zidzukulu zanu patsogolo pa TV nthawi zambiri, kapena amasankha kusasula ndodo ndikulola chisokonezo chachikulu. Koma kafukufuku aliyense wasonyeza bwino kuti autism SASI (ndipo sizinayambe) chifukwa cha njira zokayikitsa za makolo . Mwachiwonekere, ngati mukuganiza kuti mdzukulu wanu ali pangozi muyenera kulowamo ndi kuyankha. Koma panthawi yovuta kwambiri, yesetsani kuimba mlandu makolo anu a zidzukulu.
Mvetserani
Mwana wanu wamkulu adzalandira zambiri zokhudza autism kuchokera kumbali zonse - madokotala, aphunzitsi, opaleshoni, abwenzi, ndi oyandikana naye. Monga agogo, si ntchito yanu kuwonjezera ku cacophony. M'malo mwake, gwiritsani ntchito luso lanu lomvetsera. Lolani mwana wanu ndi mnzake kuti akuuzeni zomwe zikuchitika, zovuta, zomwe zikukhumudwitsa, zomwe zikugwira ntchito, ndi zomwe siziri. Funsani mafunso, kuthandizira kufotokozera malingaliro, koma yesetsani kupewa kudumphira ndi zowonjezera zambiri, malangizo, kapena malingaliro.
M'malo mwake, gwiritsani ntchito luso lanu lomvetsera. Lolani mwana wanu ndi mnzake kuti akuuzeni zomwe zikuchitika, zovuta, zomwe zikukhumudwitsa, zomwe zikugwira ntchito, ndi zomwe siziri. Funsani mafunso, kuthandizira kufotokozera malingaliro, koma yesetsani kupewa kudumphira ndi zowonjezera zambiri, malangizo, kapena malingaliro.
Ruth Nemzoff, wolemba ndi wokamba za Osamenyana Lilime Lanu: Mmene Mungalimbikitsire Ubale Wopindulitsa ndi Ana Anu Achikulire akuti: "Agogo sayenera kuchepetsa nkhawa za mwana wamkulu, koma ayenera kuwathandiza."
Pewani Nkhawa Zanu Zokhudza "Zosowa Zapadera."
Anthu ambiri a usinkhu wobereka adakulira mu nthawi pamene ana "apaderadera" adagawanika kutali kwambiri ndi momwe amachitira. Mwinanso mungakulire ndi lingaliro lakuti mavuto a maganizo ndi chitukuko ndi amanyazi. Pofuna kuthandizira mwana wanu wamkulu ndikukhala ndi mdzukulu wanu, mudzayenera kutero. Izi zikhoza kutanthauza ntchito yamalingaliro kwa inu, koma ndi bwino kuyesetsa: simungathe kukhala agogo aamuna kwa mwana amene mumawachitira manyazi!
Dziwani Mphamvu za Mzukulu Wanu
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zovuta kwambiri zokhudza kulera mwana ndi autism ndizoona kuti anthu ambiri adzamuona ngati "katundu wowonongeka." Sukulu, odwala, ndi madokotala onse amayang'ana pa zovuta osati mphamvu. Monga agogo, muli ndi mwayi wodziwa zidzukulu zanu monga munthu. Tangoganizani kukhala amene mumapeza taluso obisika chifukwa chojambula, kuimba, kapena masamu - munthu mmodzi amene amadziwa bwino mphamvu poyamba, ndikukhazikitsa mavuto.
Phunzirani Zambiri, Gawani Pang'ono
Pali zambiri zomwe mumadziwa zokhudza autism, ndipo mumatha kupatulira tsiku ndi tsiku ma TV, ma wailesi, mabuku, mawebusaiti, podcasts, ndi nkhani za autism. Kenaka, mukhoza kusonyeza kunyumba ya mwana wanu papepala tsiku lililonse. Monga momwe mungathe kulingalira, komabe mapepala onsewo angayambe kumira pansi pa mbalameyi. M'malo mogawana autism tidbit kuchokera ku "Morning News," fupa pa mankhwala amene mdzukulu wanu akulandira, phunzirani zina za autism ndi maphunziro - ndipo konzekerani ndi chidziwitso ngati pakufunikira.
Thandizani Kusamalira Banja Lanu
Mwana wanu wachikulire ali ndi zokwanira zochitira popanda kuyesayesa ndi "malangizo othandiza" a mchimwene wake, "nkhawa za mchimwene wake" ("Kodi mwana wanga adzagwira autism ?!"), ndi malume ake okoma koma opanda pake ("adzakhala chabwino, ingomupatsani nthawi! ").
Monga momwe mungathere, yambani mwatsatanetsatane ndi malamulo ndi malingaliro ogwirizana a banja omwe angathandize kuyendetsa msewu kwa mwana wanu wamkulu ndi mdzukulu wanu ndi autism. Malamulo monga "palibe malangizo a autism omwe amaloledwa," ndipo "Inde, mwanayo ali ndi autism amapeza chipinda chake" ayenera kuthetsa mafunso asanayambe.
Kupereka Malangizo Othandizira ndi Amalonda
Ngati pali zinthu ziwiri zomwe kholo la autism limafuna, ndi nthawi komanso ndalama. Nthawi yopuma, kugwirizananso ndi mnzanuyo ndi ana ena, kugula zakudya, kugula tsitsi - nthawi yeniyeni, autism yopanda moyo. Ndipo ndalama. Ndalama zothandizira zothandizira, kapena kubwezeretsa ndalama zowonongeka. Ndalama zothandizira ogwira ntchito yapadera, mapulogalamu apadera m'dera lanu, mankhwala osaphimbidwa ndi inshuwalansi. Mukhoza kupereka kuti muzisamalira mdzukulu wanu, kapena mungathe kukonza sitima; Mungathe kulipira zofunikira kapena kulimbikitsa ndalama. Mungathe kulipira zosowa za zidzukulu za autistic, kapena kupereka abale ndi alongo athu apadera "agogo ndi ine" nthawi . Zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu zidzakhala mphatso yaikulu kwa mwana wanu wamkulu ndi mnzanuyo.
Monga mukuonera, kubereka mwana ndi autism kuli ngati kubereka mwana aliyense, ngakhale, monga Nemzoff amanotsi, "mochuluka kwambiri." Pamene mukudziwa mdzukulu wanu ndikuphunzira za autism, mudzapeza mwayi wambiri wopanga mgwirizano wapadera ndi wosasokonezeka ndi mwana amene akukufunanidi.