Njira 8 Zowakhazikitsa Chikondi Cholimba, ndi Chikondi Chake ndi Mwana Wanu Wokhulupirira

Zimatengera ntchito yowonjezera kuti mukhale mgwirizano ndi mwana wa autistic, koma ndizofunikira!

Ana omwe ali ndi autism ndi osiyana ndi ana omwe amakula. Kwa makolo ambiri, izi zimabweretsa vuto lalikulu. Kodi makolo akuyenera kulumikizana bwanji ndi mwana amene sapempha mafunso, kuyambitsa masewera, kusewera masewera, kapena kuyesa zinthu zatsopano? Nazi malangizowo a makolo omwe akufuna ubale wolimba ndi mwana wawo autistic, koma sadziwa momwe angayambire.

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Musamangoganiza Zokhudza Maganizo a Mwana Wanu ndi Maganizo Anu

Nthawi zambiri, mukhoza kulingalira bwino za momwe munthu amamvera mumtima mwake poyang'anitsitsa nkhope yake, kumvetsera mawu ake, kapena kuona thupi lake. Anthu okhala ndi autism, komabe, sangalankhule konse, kapena angagwiritse ntchito lathyathyathya ngakhale pamene akusangalala. Chilankhulo, kuphatikizapo kukhudzana ndi diso , manja oyenera ndi nkhope, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri. Musamaganize kuti mawu ophweka, osayang'anitsitsa maso, kapena zovuta kuti mukhalebe pambali, zimatanthauza kuti mwana wanu sasangalala. Pali mwayi wabwino kuti malingaliro anu ndi olakwika!

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Tengani Choyamba

Ana ambiri amalephera kudikira kuti makolo awo azisewera nawo . Ndipotu, makolo ambiri amatopa kwambiri kumva "Amayi, bwera kusewera!" kapena "Adadi, inu mukhale chilombo ndi kunditsatira ine!" Makolo a ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amapereka mano awo kuti amve pempho limenelo. Sikuti ana omwe ali ndi autism samakonda kusewera masewera kapena nthawi ndi Amayi, koma chifukwa chakuti alibe maluso kuti aganizire zomwe akufuna, kuika mawu masomphenyawo, ndi kulankhulana zokhumba zawo. Izo zikutanthauza kuti ziri kwa iwe, kholo, kuti uyambe kusewera. M'malo modikirira kuti mumve kuchokera kwa mwana wanu, lolani mwana wanu amve kuchokera kwa inu. Ngati ali ndi nthawi yovuta kumvetsetsa mawu omwe ali nawo monga "Tiyeni tiyambe kucheza ndi Elmo," ndibwino kuti thupi lanu lizilankhula ndikuwonetsa mtundu wa masewero omwe mumakhala nawo.

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Limbikitsani Chidwi cha Mwana Wanu

Si zachilendo kuti kholo likhazikitse zofuna zake pa mwana wake, nthawizina ndi bwino kwambiri. Amayi amakonda kuvala zovala, choncho amagula zobvala zovala kwa mwana wake wamkazi, yemwe amacheza ndi Amayi. Bambo amakonda baseball, choncho amaonetsa mwana wake kuti apeze kampani yaling'ono, ndipo izi zimakhala zabwino kwambiri. Ana omwe ali ndi autism sagwirizana kwambiri ndi zofuna zawo kusiyana ndi ana, choncho nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti azichita nawo masewera omwe mumawakonda. Kusankha bwino ndiko kusangoganizira zofuna zanu zokha, koma za mwana wanu. Kodi mwana wanu amakonda zithunzi za sitima ? Pezani njira yanu yamkati ya njanji. Kodi amasangalatsidwa ndi Sesame Street? Dziwani chifukwa chake anthu onse akulankhula za Big Bird! Pamene mukupeza njira zodziphatikizira ndi mwana wanu m'malo mwake, kaya ndi mau kapena osayankhula, mudzapeza njira zambiri zosewera ndi kugwirizana.

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Ganizirani Pogwiritsa Ntchito Bokosi Loyenera

Ndi ana ochepa omwe ali ndi autism omwe angakhale ndi chidwi ndi zochitika monga masewera a timu . Koma izo sizikutanthauza kuti mwana wanu wodzikuza alibe zopindulitsa. Yang'anani ndi kumvetsera kwa mwana wanu, ndipo ganizirani ntchito zomwe zimakhala kunja kwazochitika. Zina mwazinthuzi ndi monga kulenga ndi kuvina, kuyenda m'nkhalango, kuchita masewera, komanso kusodza.

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Pezani Abambo Wogwirizana

Kawirikawiri, ana okhala ndi autism amatha kukhala m'dziko la akazi. Izi zimachitika pazifukwa zambiri: amayi nthawi zambiri amathandizidwa ndi zosowa zawo zapadera za tsiku ndi tsiku komanso zosankha za madokotala ndi chithandizo ndi amayi ambiri omwe angasankhe kukhala aphunzitsi ndi opaleshoni kwa ana aang'ono. Koma nkhani yaikulu kwambiri ndi yakuti abambo a ana a autistic nthawi zambiri amasiya chifukwa chosowa chidwi ndi mwana wawo pochita masewera amphindi monga masewera a timu, kugwira ntchito ndi zipangizo, ndi zina zotero. Popanda kumvetsetsa momwe angagwirizane ndi mwana wake, abambo ambiri amachoka, amalola amayi kuti atsogolere ndi kutaya mwayi wokhudzana. Mwa kutsata kutsogolera kwa mwana wanu, komabe, ndikuyang'ana njira zina (kuyenda m'malo mwa baseball Mwachitsanzo), mungapeze zofuna zambiri zomwe zili kunja kwa bokosi lachizolowezi.

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Musataye Posachedwa

Anthu otchuka samakonda kusintha kwambiri. Ndipotu, anthu ena autistic amadana ndi kusintha. Zotsatira zake, zingatengere nthawi yayitali kuti zitha kulongosola chilichonse chatsopano, kuchokera pa kanema yatsopano kupita ku phwando latsopano, masewera, kapena malo. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukuyenera kubwereza ntchito zomwezo kosatha, koma zikutanthawuza kuti inuyo, kholo, muyenera kukhala oleza mtima kwambiri. Yambani poyambitsa ntchito yatsopanoyi ndi zithunzi ndi mawu. Kenaka kambiranani mwana wanu mwachidule, pang'onopang'ono.

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Sungani Bar Bar

Makolo amatha kutopa, ndipo ndi zophweka kuti mupitirize kuchita chimodzimodzi ndi mwana wanu wodzitama mobwerezabwereza. Ndipotu, amasangalala nazo ndipo zimakuphweka. Koma mukalola kulolera kuti mutenge ubale wanu ndi mwana wanu, inu nonse mumataya mwayi wokhala pamodzi. Zedi, ndi bwino kusangalala ndi ntchito zomwe mumazikonda. Ndani sasangalala kuwerenga kachiwiri buku lomwe amalikonda, kapena kuthamanga kukwera komweko paki yokondwerera chaka chilichonse? Koma nkofunika kukumbukira kuti, monga ana onse, mwana wanu ali ndi autism akukula ndikusintha. Mwina sangapemphe kusintha, kapena akulakalaka, choncho ndi kwa inu, kholo lanu, kuthandiza mwana wanu kuti afike pa msinkhu wotsatira msinkhu komanso kukwanitsa. Kodi adapanga mpangidwe umodzi wa sitima yozungulira pafupipafupi 25 mzere? Nthawi yowonjezera pa mlatho, ngalande, chopinga, kapena njira yatsopano. Zingatenge kanthawi kuti kusintha kusamve bwino, koma ndibwino: mukukula pamodzi.

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Muzinyadira Zomwe Ana Anu Akukwaniritsa

Mwana wanu ali ndi autism akhoza kapena sakhala "wachikulire" mwachizoloŵezi cha mawuwo. Ngati ali wotsika kwambiri ntchito, mwayi sangapambane mphoto ya maphunziro kapena masewera, kapena kukhala nyenyezi ya kalasiyo (ngakhale simukudziwa: zinthu zachilendo zachitika). Koma nthawi iliyonse imene mwana wanu ali ndi autism amaposa zolephera zake, amachita chinthu chodabwitsa. Pamene mwana wanu akufunsa funso, amagawana chidole, amayesa chinthu chatsopano payekha, kapena amachita ndi mlendo, ndi mwayi wokondwerera!