Kulimbana ndi khansa ya m'mawere ndi chikhulupiriro, banja, abwenzi ndi zosangalatsa
Diane Becker Krasnick anapezeka m'chaka cha 2001 ali ndi khansa yabwino ya HER2 , ndipo adayesedwa ndi matenda a Herceptin. Anali moyo wokhutira kwambiri, akutumikira monga Cantorial Soloist ndi aphunzitsi a Bat Mitzvah, kulera ana aakazi awiri, ndi kumuthandiza mwamuna wake. Diane sanachepetse panthawi yachipatala. Diane akufotokozera nkhani yachisamaliro cha khansa ya m'mawere apa.
Kukumana ndi Diane Wosakwiya
Diane ndi ine tinakomana pa Forum yanga pokambirana za filimu "Zoona Zomwe" za Dr. Dennis Slamon, dokotala yemwe anayesedwa ndi Herceptin. Ankafuna DVD ya filimuyo, chifukwa mu 2001, iye anali mmodzi mwa amayi 1,000 omwe anaphatikizidwa mu mayesero a mankhwala a Herceptin. Pamene tinkakambirana, Diane adagwirizana kuuza ena nkhani yake. Monga momwe mudzaonera, ali ndi mphamvu kwambiri!
Diane Becker Krasnick wakwatiwa ndi mnzake wapamtima Marc kwa zaka 37. Ali ndi ana aakazi awiri okondeka, Jessica ndi Meredith. Diane ndi Marc akukhala tsopano ku St. Thomas ku zilumba za US Virgin, komwe Diane ndi Cantorial Soloist ndipo ali ndi chilolezo chaukwati.
Mayina a khansa ya m'mawere a Diane
- Zaka pa Kutulukira: 49
- Mtundu wa Khansa ya M'bwere: Chosavuta Ductal Carcinoma (IDC) , HER2 Chokoma
- Lymph Node Status: 20 zabwino nodes
- Kutupa Kumimba: 5cm kalasi yapamwamba, siteji 3B
- Kuchiza: Kuchulukanso kawiri ndi salpingo-oophorectomy , mbali yakumanja latissimus dorsi yomanganso, kumbali ya kumbali ya saline
- Nthawi Yokhululukidwa : zaka 8 kuchokera pamene anazindikira
Q: Kodi mwakula mukuimba? Bwino lanu liri lodzaza ndi nkhani za kuimba kwa nthawi.
A: Inde, ndimagwira ntchito mu Vocal Music Performance ku yunivesite ya Wisconsin-Madison. Ndayimba ndi Madison Symphony Chorus, paukwati, ndipo ndili ndi solo yeniyeni ku Temple Beth El-Madison. Ndagwiritsa ntchito gitala ndikuyimba pa misonkhano ya Bar ndi Bat Mitzvah, misonkhano ya Lachisanu, ndipo mwambo wa maliro ndi Shiva kwa Ayuda omwe sagwirizana ndi mpingo wanga.
M'chaka cha 2000, ndisanatengedwere, ndinayamba kutumikira monga High Holiday Cantorial Soloist kwa Beth Church ku North Adams, Mass. Pakalipano, ndimakhala chaka choyamba cha Cantorial Soloist / Educator ku Mpingo wa Chihebri wa St. Thomas ku Virgin Islands ku US, ntchito yanga ya maloto, komanso ine ndilo lovomerezeka ndi ukwati mu USVI.
Q: Ndiuzeni pang'ono za matenda omwe mumapeza.
A: Ndinapezeka kuti ndine ndi khansa ya m'mawere m'chaka cha 2001. Chifukwa cha kukhala ndi kansa ya m'mawere - siteji yachitatu B invasive ductal carcinoma, zaka zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazo ndakhala ndikuchita maopaleshoni angapo a khansa, kuphatikizapo mastectomy, mgwirizano wa oopherectomy, atatu mitundu ya mankhwala a chemotherapy opitirira masabata 64, masabata asanu a ma radiation tsiku ndi tsiku, lymphedema , ndi matumbo ambiri a cellulitis , matenda oopsya.
Ngakhale zili zovuta zotsutsa ine, ndadziŵa momwe ndingakhalire tsiku lililonse ngati kuti ndine wotsiriza.
Q: Mukuwoneka kuti mulibe mtima komanso mumakhala osangalala. Ndiye chinsinsi chako chochira n'chiyani?
A: Ndikayang'ana mmbuyo, ndinganene kuti zinthu zambiri zinandithandiza pakupeza bwino - mwamuna wanga wachikondi, Marc, banja langa, mabwenzi mazana ambiri, komanso mkhalidwe wanga wauzimu ndi chikhulupiriro changa mwa Mulungu chomwe chinandithandiza kukhala wopulumuka, zomwe zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kuti kwa anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi matenda apamwambawa, kawirikawiri sizitulukapo. Ndinalimbikitsanso kuti nyimbo zachiyuda ndi za machiritso zisangalale pamene ndinali kuchitidwa opaleshoni. Nthawi iliyonse ndikadakhala pansi, ndimayimba mapemphero anga omwe ndimakonda komanso ofunika kwambiri, omwe anandithandiza kuti ndipitirizebe kupitilira, komanso ndikupindula kwambiri kuposa kale lonse.Q: Mwamuna wanu ndi wodwala khansa. Kodi anakulimbikitsani bwanji ndikukuthandizani?
A: Marc analemba mndandanda wa mauthenga a e-mail, kotero abwenzi mazana ambiri ndi abwenzi awo akhoza "kusungidwa" pambuyo poti ndinapezeka ndi khansa mu 2001. Maimelo anali njira yake yothetsera ululu wake. Mayankho ochokera kwa owerenga ambiri anali chitsimikizo chokhazikika cha Marc ndi ine panthawi yovuta kwambiri. Anasonkhanitsa maimelo awa pamabuku monga "... ndi Diane yekha".
Q: Kodi mukupangira chithandizo cha imelo?
A: Inde ndikutero. Ena akamva za " gulu la chithandizo ", ena ayamba kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi pamasewero awo omwe sawathandiza, komanso amathandiza mabanja awo ndi abwenzi kukhala omudziwa komanso ogwirizana ndi iwo omwe amafunikira chikondi chawo ndi mapemphero awo kuposa kale lonse.Q: Kodi mumapereka bwanji thandizo kwa ena masiku ano?
A: Ndimakhulupirira kuti tsiku lirilonse ndi mphatso ndipo ndikuyesera kubwezera ena nthawi zonse. Ndimasangalala kufotokoza nkhani yanga, zomwe sizikuphatikizapo kufunikira kwa chikhulupiriro ndi pemphero, komanso mfundo zofunikira pa kusintha kwa BRCA , matenda obadwa nawo omwe amapezeka pakati pa akazi achiyuda a Ashkenazic. Ndinalemba mutu wa buku latsopano lolembedwa ndi Rabbi Doug Kohn ndipo lofalitsidwa ndi URJ Press "Life, Faith, and Cancer ... ..". Momwe ndikufotokozera za mwambo wapadera ndi wapadera womwe ndinali nawo pamapeto a mankhwala anga a chemo.
Q: Kodi mukuganiza kuti zida zabwino zowononga ndi chiyani?
A: Zina za "F" - Chikhulupiriro, Banja, Amzanga ndi Kusangalatsa! Marc amawatcha iwo chikondi, kuseketsa, chikhulupiriro ndi chiyembekezo.
Zikomo!
Athokoze kwambiri kwa Diane ndi Marc, chifukwa cha mitzvah yosangalatsa yakugawana nkhani yanu ndi chilimbikitso ndi ena. Kulongosola za zomwe mumakumana nazo kumathandiza kuphunzitsa ena ndipo kungalimbikitse amayi kuti azikhalabe ndi zochitika zapachaka, mayeso, ndi maganizo abwino.