Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti achinyamata (ndi achikulire) saona kuti kugonana kumalankhula kukhala "kugonana kwenikweni" ndipo, chifukwa chake, yesetsani kuchita zachiwerewere. Ena amaganiza kuti kuchuluka kwa kugonana kwachinsinsi pakati pa ophunzira a sekondale kumangokhala nthano chabe m'mizinda, ndipo ndikukayikira ngati "si kugonana kwenikweni" kapena ayi.
Mwamwayi, palibe chifukwa chodalira malingaliro, zikhulupiliro, kapena malingaliro.
Kafukufuku wochuluka ayang'ana momwe nthawi zambiri achinyamata amagonana ndi amphwa, ndipo posachedwa amayamba kukhala nawo. Malingana ndi momwe mumagonjera, ndi zina zambiri ("Ana sachita zimenezo!") Kapena zochepa ("Ana amaganiza kuti sizofunika kwambiri!") Kuposa momwe mungaganizire.
Zotsatira Zophunzira
Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti ana makumi asanu ndi awiri (20%) alionse akhala akugonana pakamwa pofika kumapeto kwa chaka chawo atsopano kusukulu ya sekondale. Kuwonjezera apo, pomaliza zaka zawo zaunyamata, amodzi ndi awiri mwa atatu aliwonse a anyamata ndi atsikana akhala akugonana pakamwa ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzawo.
Tsoka ilo, chifukwa chakuti mapulogalamu a maphunziro a kugonana nthawi zambiri amayang'ana makamaka pa kutenga mimba, ambiri mwa achinyamatawa sakudziwa kuti kugonana kumalankhula kungakhale ndi zoopsa kwenikweni - zakuthupi ndi zamalingaliro. Kuopsa kwa kugonana kwachinyamata sikukwera kwambiri ngati kwa kugonana kapena kugonana kwa abambo , koma kugonana kumalankhula achinyamata omwe ali pachiopsezo chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana monga tizilombo , tizilombo toyambitsa matenda , ndi khansa ya m'kamwa .
Zowopsazi zikhoza kuchepetsedwa pogwiritsa ntchito zolepheretsa kugwa ndi cunnilingus , koma achinyamata ambiri samadziwa kuti kugonana koyenera ndiko njira yothetsera kugonana.
Kafukufuku wapadziko lonse akuyang'ana nthawi ya kugonana kwa m'kamwa poyerekeza ndi kugonana pakati pa zaka 15 ndi 24, anapeza kuti pafupifupi kotala la anyamata ndi atsikana anayamba kugonana, kugonana kumayamba koyamba, kokha kugonana m'kamwa.
Chiwerengero chimenecho chinali chapamwamba kwambiri pakati pa anyamata azaka 15 mpaka 17 omwe anali adakali kusekondale. Amayi asanu ndi atatu (8%) a atsikana ndi anyamata khumi ndi awiri (12%) ali ndi chiwalo chogonana.
Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana pakamwa paunyamata kungakhale chizindikiro cha cholinga cha achinyamata kuti achite zokhudzana ndi kugonana monga kugonana. Kafukufuku wina wa 2010 adapeza kuti ophunzira omwe anaganiza zogonana m'kamwa anali otheka kwambiri kuti azifufuza za kugonana pa nthawi ya sekondale kusiyana ndi omwe sankagonana pakamwa. Ambiri a iwo anali kuyembekezera miyezi yosachepera 6.
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