Kukonzekera Ndikofunika
Pa mafunso onse omwe ndafunsidwa, "Kodi ndili ndi chiopsezo chotani chogonana pazaka zitatu?" ndingakhale mmodzi mwa okondedwa anga. Palibe cholakwika ndi kukhala wodziwa zogonana ngati mukuganiza bwino.
Nthawi zonse zimandikondweretsa pamene anthu akufuna kuphatikiza moyo wathanzi, wokondweretsa kugonana ndi kugonana kosayenera. Kukhala ndi chiwopsezo ndi choopsa kuposa kugonana pakati pa anthu omwe ali okhaokha, omwe akhalapo nthawi yaitali, omwe apanga chiyanjano pamene anthu onse ayesedwa .
Komabe, sikuti ndizoopsa kwambiri kuposa maubwenzi apakati paokha omwe anthu ambiri amachita nawo kugonana kosateteza .
Chofunika kwambiri poyesera kupanga zovuta kwambiri ndi zofanana ndi pamene mukuyesera kuti pakhale mgwirizano wapadera wogonana. Muyenera kukambirana za mbiri zoyesera komanso kugonana mosapititsa patsogolo kuti muthe kugwiritsidwa ntchito bwino pazowonjezereka zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zogonana. Kenaka, mutatha kumaliza, mungakambirane mwachindunji ntchito zomwe aliyense ali nazo chidwi ndikufufuza, komanso ndi ndani.
Nazi zina mwazofunikira zomwe muyenera kuziganizira mukamafuna kukhala ndi gawo labwino:
- Aliyense ayenera kuchita chiwerewere chotetezeka, ngakhale awiri a anthu ali " okhudzidwa ndi madzi "
Pali chiopsezo chowonetsa wokondedwa wachitatu kuti azikhala ndi madzi amthupi pamene abwenzi awiri omwe ali ndi zibwenzi amachita nawo zachiwerewere. Choncho, ndi lingaliro labwino kuti aliyense agwiritse ntchito zothetsa zochitika zonse zogonana. Kuwonjezera apo, kulimbikitsa kugonana kwabwino kwa aliyense kumathandiza aliyense kukhalabe wodzipereka. Amachepetsa chiopsezo cha wina akuiwala kuvala kondomu pamene pakufunika. Ikukukumbutsaninso kugwiritsa ntchito chitetezo chatsopano mukamasintha anthu ogonana nawo.
- Chinthu chatsopano, chotchinga chatsopano - palibe zosiyana
Monga ngati mukugonana ndi mnzanu wina, ngati mukukhala ndi chiopsezo, nthawi zonse mukamachita zogonana muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira yatsopano. Izi zikutanthauza ngati mukuchoka kugonana kupita ku fallatio , kapena mosiyana, mumasintha makondomu. Muyeneranso kusintha makondomu ngati mutachoka mulowetsa mnzanu wina kulowa mkati. Muyenera kutenga damu latsopano la mano pamene mukugonana ndi munthu wina watsopano. Mu kutentha kwa mphindi, zingakhale zophweka kuiwala kuti simukungogwiritsa ntchito zothetsa kudziletsa nokha. Mukuwagwiritsanso ntchito kuteteza anthu omwe mukugona nawo. Simukufuna kuti muwonetsetse zibwenzi zanu zomwe mumakhala nazo kuposa momwe mumafunira.
- Ganizirani za mtundu wina wa kondomu / galasi / damu lomwe lingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa munthu aliyense.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti muzindikire amene wakhala akuchita kwa ndani. Kutenga zogonana zofiira zamasamba kungathandize. Mwachitsanzo, gwiritsani ntchito magolovesi ofiira / makondomu pogonana ndi A Partner A, magolovesi akuda / makondomu ogonana ndi Partner B ndi magolovesi oyera / makondomu ogonana ndi Partner C. Ndiye palibe vuto loyipitsa. Komanso, zingakhale zovuta kuti muyang'ane manja, malirime, ndi ziwalo zina za thupi zikukukhudzani nthawi yotentha. Koma mumatha kukhala otetezeka pamene onse ataphimbidwa mofanana ndi latex (kapena nitrile).
Zoona, matenda opatsirana pogonana siwo okhawo omwe angapangitse njira zitatu. Ngati muli m'banjamo ndipo mukuganiza kuti mukuitanitsa munthu wachitatu pabedi lanu, nkofunika kutsimikizira kuti chiphunzitsochi ndi chinthu chomwe mukufuna nonse. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, muyenera kukambirana za malipiro anu enieni ndi ammunthu musanakhalepo. Muyeneranso kupanga ndondomeko ya momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zinthu ngati mmodzi wa inu akudandaula kapena akukhumudwa ndikusowa chochita kuti asiye.Kukulingalira ndi ma threesome kuti ukhale ndi zokometsera ubale wanu ndi wabwino.
Komabe, simukufuna kuchita chinachake chimene chimawononga.
Pomaliza, kumbukirani kuti "mlendo wapadera" ndi munthu, nayenso. Ayenera kuchitiridwa ulemu. Ndikofunika kuwafunsa, ndi kumvetsera, malire awo. Monga momwe ziliri ndi zochitika zina zokhuza kugonana, aliyense ayenera kukhala wotetezeka komanso wokonzeka kunena kuti ayi komanso inde.