Kulimbana ndi Kugonana kwabwino? Yesani Malemba awa

Mmene Mungayankhulire Zokhudza Kugonana Pogonana ndi Watsopano Wogwirizana

Musanayambe kugonana ndi mnzanu watsopano, pali zinthu zambiri zoti muzikambirana, kuphatikizapo:

Ndipo palinso zambiri! Zingakhale zovuta kudziwa momwe mungayambire kukambirana, komabe. Nayi njira imodzi yomwe nkhaniyi ingapitire ...

Nkhani Yogonana Yogonana

Yerekezerani kuti banja likupsompsonana mwachikondi. Wothandizana naye amachoka:

Mgwirizano A: "Tisanapite patsogolo tiyenera kulankhula za kugonana kosatetezeka ."

Wokondedwa B: "Kodi tiyenera?"

Mgwirizano A: "Sitiyenera kukhala ndi nkhani usikuuno, koma tikuyenera kukhala nayo tisanapite patsogolo kuposa kumpsompsona ... chinachake chimene ndikufuna kuti ndichite."

Wokondedwa B: "Chabwino, tiyeni tikhale nacho tsopano."

Mgwirizano A: "Nthawi yotsiriza yomwe ndinayesedwa ku matenda opatsirana pogonana inali pafupi miyezi inayi yapitayo.Panthawi imeneyo ndinali ndi vuto la chlamydia , gonorrhea , syphilis , HIV , ndi herpes . Posachedwa ndikuyesedwa ndi zinthu zonsezi. Pakalipano sindikugona ndi wina aliyense.

Wokondedwa B: "Chabwino ..."

Mgwirizano A: "Chiyeso chanu chotsiriza chinali liti?"

Wokondedwa B: "Um, sindikudziwa. Zakhala zaka zingapo. Sindikugona ndi wina aliyense panthawiyi."

Mgwirizano A: "Chabwino, tisanayambe kugonana, ndimayamikira kwambiri ngati mutatha kusintha mayesero anu.

Zikutheka kuti zimaphimbidwa ndi inshuwalansi, koma ngati simungathe, mukhoza kuyesa mtengo wotsika pa Planned Parenthood kapena kuchipatala cha STD . "

Mgwirizanowo: "Izo zikuwoneka zabwino."

Mgwirizano A: "Ndikufunanso kutsindika kuti ndikugwiritsa ntchito kondomu za kugonana, koma nthawi zonse ndimagwiritsira ntchito kondomu kapena zolepheretsa kugonana m'kamwa ."

Wokondedwa B: "Zoonadi? Chifukwa?"

Mgwirizano A: "Zambiri za matenda opatsirana pogonana zingathe kufalikira ndi kugonana kwa m'kamwa. Zikuwoneka bwino kukhala wotetezeka kusiyana ndi chisoni."

Wokondedwa B: "Sindinayambe nditachita zimenezo. Kodi zimenezi sizichotsa zosangalatsa zambiri?"

Mgwirizano A: "Osati kuti ndazindikira. Kwa ine, ndikungopanga chinthu china chomwe ndingathe kukhala nacho chokhutira chifukwa sindine nkhawa za chitetezo. Ndiroleni ndikuwonetseni."

Iwo amayamba kuyambanso kachiwiri.

Wokondedwa A: "Ndikuwonetsani mtsogolo, mutayesedwa , kenako tikhoza kuchita."

Wokondedwa B: "Ndamva kuti zimapangitsa kukhala wangwiro."

Wothandizana nawo A: "Ngakhale zitakhala, ndikubweretsa makondomu ."

Wokondedwa B: "Sindikuyembekezera."

Mgwirizano A: "Simukusowa kupita kwina paliponse, sizikutanthauza kuti tisiye kupusitsa pompano tsopano."

Wogwirizana B: "Ndinadziwa kuti ndimakukondani chifukwa."