Kodi Mungauze Bwanji Mwamuna Wanu Wogonana Amene Mukufuna Kuchita Zokhudza Kugonana Kwabwino?

Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kugonana m'kamwa ndiko kugonana koyenera. Ngakhale iwo akulakwitsa, lingalirolo lingakhoze kuchititsa kuti zikhale zovuta makamaka kwa anthu omwe akufuna kuchita chiwerewere chokamwa kuti athandize kukambirana mosamala . Ngati munthu sakuganiza kuti blowjobs ndizoopsa, iye sangathe kumvetsa chifukwa chake wina angafune kugonana pogonana pogwiritsa ntchito kondomu . Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kukonzekera kukambirana.

> * Ndimagwiritsa ntchito "he" ngati njira yowonjezera kuti mutchule munthu yemwe ali ndi mbolo.

Zovuta: Zosavuta

Nthawi Yofunika: Malingana ngati zimatengera ...

Nazi momwe:

1. Yambani mwawuza mnzanuyo kuti muli ndi chidwi chomupatsa ntchito yowopsya (apo ayi, bwanji mukukambirana chimodzi?). Kenaka muuzeni kuti mumayesetsa kuchita chiwerewere chotetezeka .

   Sample Script: "Ndikuganiza kuti ndiwe wachiwerewere, ndipo ndimakonda kukupatsani vutoli. Komabe, ndikufuna kuti mudziwe kuti ndikupangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi chiopsezo chogonana."

2. Ngati mnzako sakudziwa kuti kugonana ndibwino kotani, kambiranani. Mumudziwitse kuti zimayamba mwakumudzutsa ndi manja anu, kapena zovuta zina,. Kenaka mungaike kondomu pa mbolo yake musanalowetse pakamwa panu. Mungamutengenso kudzera muzitsulo zomwe mungapeze pa Mmene Mungaperekere Nkhani Yowonjezera Blowjob .

   Sample Script: "Chabwino, choyamba tikutembenuzira, ndiye tiyike kondomu ndisanatenge mbolo yanu pakamwa panga."

1. Ngati mnzanuyo samvetsa chifukwa chake mukufunira kugonana moyenera, musadandaule. Khalani wokonzeka kulankhula za kuopsa kwa kugonana kosalankhula mosatetezeka. Onetsetsani kuti kugonana kumalankhula kungapangitse onse awiri omwe ali pachiopsezo cha matenda opatsirana pogonana osiyanasiyana. Akumbutseni iwo kuti kuchita mosamala safati ndi njira yabwino yochepetsera chiopsezo chanu.

   Sample Script: "Zambiri za matenda opatsirana pogonana zingathe kufalikira ndi kugonana kwa m'kamwa, kuphatikizapo herpes ndi syphilis. Ndipotu chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe matendawa onse akukula ndikuti anthu ambiri samagonana mosamala. zosavuta kufalitsa njira imeneyo. "

1. Anthu ena safuna kuvomereza kugonana kokondweretsa. Akhoza kunena kuti kulibwino asakhale ndi kugonana kwa m'kamwa kapena kuyesa. Angayesenso kukukakamizani kuti mugwirizane kuti musagwiritse ntchito kondomu. Ngati kugonana kotetezeka n'kofunika kwa inu, pitani ndi matumbo anu. Muyenera kukhala wokonzeka kuchoka ku chigonjetso chimene simungathe kukhala nacho kapena kukambirana zina.

   Sample Script: "Sindikufuna kugonana ngati sitingathe kukhala ndi chitetezo chogonana. Ngati simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu kuti mugone kugonana, mwina tikhoza kuyesa chiwopsezo chochepa ngati chiwerewere ."

2. Kuchita zogonana mosamala, kapena kugonana kotetezeka, sikuli mmalo mwa kuwonetsetsa kwa nthawi zonse. Komabe, matenda ambiri opatsirana pogonana omwe amatha kupatsirana pogonana, monga herpes sakhala akuyesedwa ndi madokotala ambiri. Ngakhale pamene kuyesedwa kwakukulu kwatha , nkosavuta kuti muphonye STD . Mwachitsanzo, mayesero angakhale olakwika ngati kachilomboka kanakhala pafupi kwambiri ndi tsiku la yeseso ​​kapena pambuyo poyesedwa. Kumbukirani kufunsa mnzanuyo zomwe adayesedwa. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kuyesa matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi mbali yowunika pamene siili.

   Sample Script: "Ndikudziwa kuti munayesedwa kuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, koma ndiani omwe mwayesedwa?"

3. Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti chitetezo sichifukwa chokha chogwiritsira ntchito makondomu nthawi ya fallatio. Anthu ena sakonda kukoma kwa umuna. Zina zimakhala ngati makondomu amapewa bwino "kutsutsa" kapena "kumeza" kutsutsana. Pomalizira, amuna ena amapeza kuti kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu panthawi yogonana kumalankhula kungapangitse nthawi yayitali. Kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu kumagonana ogonana kungakhale chinthu chabwino, osati njira yothetsera chiopsezo cha matenda opatsirana pogonana.

Malangizo:

1. Khalani okonzeka kuyankhula za kuopsa kwa kugonana kwakamwa komanso chifukwa chake kukhala otetezeka n'kofunika kwa inu. Zingathandize kutulutsa mndandanda wa matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe angathe kupatsirana pogonana kudzera m'kamwa.
2. Ganizirani mfundo yakuti kugonana moyenera kumalankhulanabe. Ngati kugonana m'kamwa ndi chinthu chomwe mnzanuyo amakonda, kuvomereza kuchita ndi kondomu kumamupatsa zambiri.
3. Musamakambirane zogonana mukatopa, kutengeka, kapena pakati pa chiopsezo chogonana. Zimakhala zosavuta kuti mukambirane bwino zokhudzana ndi kugonana mukakhala maso ... koma musanayambe kutentha ndi katundu.
4. Kumbukirani kugula makondomu osagwiritsidwa ntchito pogonana. Simukufuna kuti lilime lanu liphwanyidwe ndi N-9

1. Zingakhale zovuta kuyankhulana kusintha pazochitika ndi wokondedwa wanu, kusiyana ndi kukambirana ndi mnzanu watsopano. Lankhulani ndi mnzanuyo chifukwa chake mukufuna kusintha. Chifukwa chimenecho chikhoza kukhala chophweka ngati kusankha kukhala wothandiza kwambiri poteteza thanzi lanu lonse.

Zimene Mukufunikira:

• Malo abwino okhala ndi kukambirana ndi mnzanuyo.
• Wokondedwa wanu, makamaka mwakumvera.

> Zotsatira:

> Barbee LA, Khosropour CM, Dombrowski JC, Manhart LE, Golden MR. Kafukufuku wa kuchuluka kwa matenda a gonococcal, chlamydial ndi omwe si a gonococcal omwe si a chlamydial urethritis omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pogonana pakamwa pakati pa amuna omwe amagonana ndi amuna: phunziro lolamulira. Zosintha Zogonana. 2016 Mar; 92 (2): 155-60. onetsani: 10.1136 / sextrans-2015-052214.