Mukuyendera bwenzi kapena wachibale kapena akukuchezerani. Ali ndi mwana wokongola kapena wophunzira.
Mukuwona kuti mwana wawo akuwoneka kuti ali ndi makhalidwe enaake osakhala achilendo - mwinamwake sakanalankhule pomwe ayenera kukhala, kapena akuwombera kapena kuwomba . Kapena mwinamwake iwo akuyankhula, koma amangopitiriza kunena zinthu zomwezo mobwerezabwereza.
Kapena akulankhula ndi iwo okha komanso osagwirizana ndi anthu ena. Mmalo mosewera ndi toyese, iwo amawagwedeza iwo kapena kuwagogoda iwo pansi popanda cholinga chodziwika.
Makolo a mwanayo sawoneka kuti sakudziwa kuti mwana wawo ndi wosiyana. Angathenso kunena kuti makhalidwe ake ndi "okongola," kapena "okongola kwambiri." Amayi anganene chinachake monga "Kodi sizosangalatsa kuti Billy amangofuna kuika magalimoto ake onse pamzere ?"
Komabe, inu mukudabwa kuti "kodi mwana uyu autistic? Kodi makolo ake ali ndi chitsimikizo, kodi ndiyenera kunena chinachake?"
Zimene Tiyenera Kuchita Ngati Wina Wina Akuwona Autistic
Musananene mawu kwa makolo a mwanayo, pano pali mafunso oti mudzifunse nokha.
- Kodi mumamvetsetsa bwanji chitukuko cha ana? Ana aang'ono amakula pamitengo yosiyana kwambiri. Munthu wamba wazaka zitatu amatha kukhala mau, ophunzitsidwa bwino , amatha kudziwa ziwerengero ndi makalata pomwe wina amakhalabe ndi maulendo ndi kulankhula m'mawu awiri. Musanayambe kuona kuti mukuwona mwana yemwe ali ndi mavuto aakulu, yang'anirani zomwe mumadziwa zokhudza zochitika zamakono.
- Mukudziwa bwanji mwanayo? Ngati mukuwona mwana kamodzi kapena kawiri pachaka, mwina mukuwona gawo lochepa chabe la zochitika za mwanayo. Angakhale wamanyazi kapena wamanyazi pakati pa osadziwika, koma akuchita nawo ndikulankhula ndi achibale ndi abwenzi. Musananene chilichonse chokhudza autism, mukuganiza kuti mukupeza zambiri zokhudza "Bobby ali ndi zambiri zoti anene pamene alendo onsewa sali pafupi!"
- Kodi mumamvetsa bwino autism? Pali nthano zambiri ndi zolakwika zokhudzana ndi autism, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mwina mukulakwitsa zosiyana kapena zokhudzidwa ndi matenda aakulu. Ena amawoneka kuti amanyazi mwachibadwa m'magulu akulu, ndipo ana ambiri amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta ndi anthu atsopano, zakudya zatsopano, phokoso lofuula, ndi kusokonezeka kuzinthu.
- Kodi ubale wanu ndi makolo a mwana ndi uti? Ngati ndinu agogo , mlongo, kapena bwenzi lapamtima, mukhoza kukhala ndi vuto lovuta. Ndiye kachiwiri, malingana ndi chiyanjano chanu, mungapange malingaliro oipa ndi zotsatira zabwino.
- Kodi makolowa angachite chiyani? Ngati mumadziwa bwino makolo a mwanayo, mungathe kufotokoza yankho lawo ku lingaliro kuti chinachake chikhoza kukhala cholakwika. Kodi adzamvetsera? Kapena kodi iwo adzaponyera khoma ndikuyamba kukuwonani ngati vuto pamoyo wawo?
- Kodi mungapereke chiyani kwa makolo ngati malingaliro anu ali olondola? Ndi chinthu chimodzi chotsegula bokosi la Pandora la nkhawa ndi nkhawa. Ndi chinthu china chothandiza makolo kuthana ndi zotsatira zake ndi zinthu, kumvetsera, ndi zothandizira zina. Ngati mukungonena kuti "pangakhale chinachake cholakwika ndi mwana wanu" ndikupita kutali, kungakhale kwanzeru kuti musanene chilichonse.
Sikophweka kukhala chete pamene mukumva kuti pali chinthu china chofunika kuti chiyankhulidwe. Koma ngati iwe ndi munthu wolakwika yemwe akuyankhula pa nthawi yolakwika kapena ngati mfundo zanu siziri zolondola mukhoza kuvulaza kuposa zabwino.