Kuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito malamulo omwewo m'madera osiyanasiyana kungakhale kovuta.
Kodi "Generalizing" Akuwoneka Motani?
Tangoganizani kuti ndinu mwana wamng'ono paukwati wa msuweni wake. Mukuyenda mzere wolandira, ndipo bambo anu akungokuuzani kuti "mugwirane chanza ndi Bambo Jones," bambo wa mkwati. Kotero ^ inu mumagwirana chanza ndi Bambo Jones.
Kodi mungatani pamene Akazi a Jones amabwera patebulo lanu kuti akalankhule? Mwayi ndi, inu simungaganize "Ine ndinagwedeza manja ndi Bambo Jones, ndipo apa pakubwera Akazi a Jones ...
Ndikudabwa kuti ndiyenera kuchita chiyani tsopano? "M'malo mwake, mudzakumbukira" O, nkulondola, tigwirana chanza ndi akulu omwe sitidziwa bwino, "ndipo mutulutsa manja anu mwaulemu.
Ngati mungathe kuganiza kuti "X inali yoyenerera pazinthu izi, ndiye kuti ndizoyenera kuzinthu zina, zomwezo" ndiye kuti mumatha kupanga. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mumatha kuzindikira zofanana kwambiri ndi zochitika ziwiri zosiyana.
Pa ukwati umene watchulidwa pamwambapa, panali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa misonkhano ndi Bambo ndi Akazi a Jones: iye ndi mwamuna, ndipo ndi mkazi. Inu munakomana naye iye mu mzere wolandirira, ndipo inu munakomana naye iye pa tebulo lanu - ndipo inu munawapeza iwo ola limodzi. Kodi mumadziwa bwanji zinthu zomwe zinali zofunika (akuluakulu, osadziwika bwino, zochitika) komanso omwe sanali (abambo / akazi, komwe mudakumana nawo, nthawi yamasiku)? Inu basi, mwinamwake, mukuziganizira izo kuchokera ku kuphatikiza kwa chikhalidwe, zooneka, ndi zina.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Kulimbana Kwambiri kwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Autism?
Anthu omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mwana ali ndi autism, sangakhale ndi vuto ngakhale atakwera kupita kuchipatala, koma alibe chodziwitso kuti kalasiyo idzaphatikizanso mofanana ndi ulendo wopita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Pakalipano, kwa ana omwe akuwoneka, zikuwoneka "zomveka" kuti ngati mutayima pa chinthu chimodzi, ndithudi mudzayendera wina. Nthawi zambiri.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zovuta izi, osati zonse zomwe ziri zoonekeratu. Chinthu china chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti anthu omwe ali ndi autism samakonda kuyang'ana ndi kutsanzira ena . Choncho, ngakhale mwana wamba angayembekezere ndikuyang'ana kuti aone zomwe anzawo akuchita, mwana yemwe ali ndi autism sangachite zimenezo. Ichi sichikutsatiranso chimapangitsa kuti anthu autistic asamvetse bwino chikhalidwe chawo. Kodi uyenera kuyima patali bwanji kuchokera kwa munthu wina? Kodi muyenera kulankhula mokweza motani? Palibe malamulo amtheradi okhudza zinthu izi: Ambiri a ife "timadziwa" chifukwa tikufufuza nthawi zonse ndikukambirana nawo.
Mavuto omwe ali ndi mphamvu zowonjezereka akhoza kuchitika makamaka makamaka pamene mwana ali ndi autism amaphunzitsidwa bwino, ndikukhalanso kugwiritsa ntchito luso limeneli. Mwachitsanzo, pa chithandizo cha mankhwala, mwana akhoza kukhala akutha kuponya mpira mobwerezabwereza - koma sangamvetse kuti akuphunzira luso limeneli kuti aziligwiritsa ntchito bwino pa malo ochitira masewero. Kapena sangakhale ndi zovuta ndi zogawana zogawanika ndi wothandizira - koma sangathe kugwiritsa ntchito lamulo la "gawo" kwa anzanu akusukulu.
Kwa ana ambiri a autistic, ndiye kuti nkhaniyi si "akhoza kuphunzira kuphunzira X," koma " kodi angaphunzire kuchita X nthawi zonse , moyenera, panthawi yoyenera, ndi anthu abwino. "
Pofuna kuthandiza anthu omwe ali ndi autism kuti akwaniritse, odwala ambiri angayambe ntchito zawo pokhapokha kuti aphunzitse luso - koma mwamsanga amasamukira ku "zachilengedwe" kuti azichita luso. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, wodwalayo angaphunzitse luso loponya mpira mu ofesi, koma nthawi zambiri amapita ku malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mu pulogalamu yokonzedwa bwino, wodwalayo adzayang'anira ndi aphunzitsi ndi aphunzitsi kuti azitha kupanga masewera kuti mwana wa autistic azitha kuponyera mpira ndi anzake mu malo omwe alipo.
Chiyembekezo, ndithudi, ndi chakuti mwanayo ayamba kumvetsetsa kuti mpira ukugwedezeka ndizochita zogonana kuti azigawidwa ndi anzako pabwalo la masewera. Ngakhale ndikumvetsetsa kwatsopano, zingakhale zofunikira kufotokozera mpira kuponyera ndi anzanu m'kalasi SALANDIKE, pamene mpira ukugwedeza kumbuyo ndi amayi ndi lingaliro lalikulu. Zonsezi ndi zosiyana ndi zofanana ndi malo owonetsera masewera - ndipo zingakhale zovuta kwa mwanayo ndi autism kudziwa zomwe zili zofunika kuti asinthe malamulo.