"Kodi mukudziwa chimene chinachititsa autism mwana wanu ?"
Ngati muli kholo la mwana pamasewera, mwamvapo funsoli ... mobwerezabwereza ... kuchokera kwa abwenzi, abwenzi, omudziwa, ndi alendo osadziwa. Mudamvekanso kuthamanga ngati galasi pamutu mwanu - ndipo, ndithudi, mwamvapo mu maloto anu.
Tsoka ilo, oposa 20% a autism ali ndi chifukwa chodziwika.
Ndipotu, pali zifukwa zochepa zomwe zimayambitsa autism. Izi zimaphatikizapo matenda a chibadwa monga Fragile X Syndrome, mankhwala omwe amatengedwa panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati (valproate ndi imodzi mwa mankhwala ochepa chabe omwe apezekapo), kapena khalidwe lodziwika bwino lomwe liri lobadwa (pali anthu ena omwe ali ndi autism m'banja) . Katemera , ngakhale mankhwala onse owazungulira, sizodziwika chifukwa cha autism.
Kumvetsa kuti chifukwa cha autism sichidziwikiratu, komabe sichiletsa anthu kufunsa funso. Mwina choipa kwambiri, sikuti amalepheretsa makolo kukhulupirira kuti apeza yankho - ngakhale pamene, monga momwe zilili, alibe njira yotsimikiziranso chiphunzitso kapena kuganiza.
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Mayi wa mwana yemwe ali ndi autism yemwe amakhulupirira kuti amadziwa yankho la funsolo (moyenera kapena molakwika) akhoza kukhala ndi mtima wochimwa kwambiri.
Ndingalole bwanji X kuti ichitike (kapena ayi)? Kufunsa funso - ndikutanthawuza chifukwa - kungachititse kuti kumverera kwakukulu kwambiri. Ndichifukwa chakuti, nthawi zambiri, makolo osayenerera amatha kuchita chifukwa cha mndandanda wa nkhani, nkhani ya Facebook, kapena ndemanga yagonjetsedwa ndi wachilendo.
Mwachitsanzo:
"Ndamva kuti mayi akamadya tini pamene ali ndi pakati, mwanayo akhoza kubadwa autistic."
"Kodi mungalole bwanji mwana wanu katemera?" Jenny McCarthy akuti katemera amayambitsa autism? "
"Kodi mumakhala mumzinda wa X? Kodi simukudziwa kuti pali malasha a malasha kumeneko, ndipo kutentha kwa malasha kungayambitse autism?"
Kawirikawiri, anthu omwe sakhudzidwa ndi vutoli kwenikweni akuyang'ana chifukwa cha vutoli kuti athe kudzilimbikitsanso kuti sangachite vuto lomwelo. Mwachitsanzo, anthu adzafunsa za munthu yemwe watulukira posachedwapa ndi khansa ya m'mapapo, "Kodi amasuta?" Kapena iwo angamufunse za munthu yemwe anadwala sitiroko, "Kodi anali wolemera kwambiri?" Ngati yankho liri "inde," ndipo samasuta kapena sakhala olemera kwambiri, amadzimitsimikizira kuti sangathe kukumana ndi vuto lomwelo.
Ndi autism, komabe sizigwira ntchito mwanjira imeneyi. Popeza sitidziwa chomwe chinayambitsa vutoli, sitingathe kupeĊµa kapena kupereka mlandu.
Monga nthawi zonse, anthu amene amafunsa funso sali kufunafuna yankho. M'malo mwake, akuyang'ana chitseko kuti awone maonekedwe awo, mankhwala, mankhwala, kapena chikhulupiliro. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, iwo amafunsa funso mofanana momwe wogulitsira inshuwalansi angamufunse "Kodi mwalingalira za inshuwaransi ya moyo posachedwapa?"
Chotsatira chake, kufunsa funso kungayambitse ku zotsatira zoipa; mwa iwo:
- Kutsegulanso nkhani yopitilira ndi yopweteka yomwe sitingathe kuthetsa - chifukwa palibe amene amadziwa chifukwa cha autism ya mwana;
- Kukulitsa choyesa (kamodzinso) kuti kholo (kawirikawiri mayiyo) anapanga chisankho cholakwika panthawi inayake yomwe inavulaza mwana wake;
- Kutsegula zitseko za kuyankhula kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe alibe chidziwitso chenicheni kapena chidziwitso choyambitsa ndi machiritso a matenda omwe zifukwa ndi machiritso zimakhala, mwachindunji, osadziwika;
- Kulimbikitsa kholo lina kuti mwana wake sangakhale autistic chifukwa amakhala kumadera ena, amadya zakudya zosiyanasiyana, kapena amakhala ndi moyo wosiyana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi autistic mwana;
- Kusadandaula mopanda pake ndi kholo lina kuti mwana wake akhoza kukhala autistic chifukwa iwo amagawana zosayenera zosankha za moyo monga malo, kudya, ndi zina zotero.
Mfundo yofunika, pokhapokha ngati mwaitanidwa kukayikira zomwe zimayambitsa mwana wa autism ndi makolo a mwanayo - musatero.