Mukadabwa kuona kuti mwana wanu wamwamuna ali ndi Down syndrome , monga kholo la ana ena, pali chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chokhazikitsa kunyumba: Mmene mungalongosole kwa ana anu achikulire kuti mbale wawo kapena mlongo wawo watsopano ali ndi Down syndrome.
Malingana ndi msinkhu wa ana anu ndi umunthu wawo, iwo adzakonza mfundozo m'njira zosiyanasiyana.
Abale ena achikulire angadziwe zambiri zokhudza matenda a Down, ndipo mwina adayanjana ndi anzanu okhala ndi Down syndrome kusukulu kapena malo ena.
Ana a zaka zoposa 10 nthawi zambiri amabweretsa malingaliro awo, kotero khalani okonzeka:
- Mvetserani mosamala popanda chiweruzo.
- Yembekezerani zotsatira zosayembekezereka: kudabwa, chisoni, kapena kusowa chidwi. Ndipo nthawi zina, ana anu amapereka maphunziro opambana kwambiri ovomerezeka ndi kudzoza.
- Khalani oleza mtima ndipo musawadzudzule ana anu chifukwa cholankhula moona mtima za nkhawa zawo. Angagwiritse ntchito mawu osayenera. Ili ndilo dziko latsopano kwa iwo, monga momwe ziriri kwa inu.
- Tengani gawo limodzi panthawi. Musamayembekezere ana anu kuti adziwe zambiri zomwe akusowa pazokambirana imodzi. Yesetsani kulankhula momasuka komanso moona mtima, ndipo pitirizani kuwapatsa nthawi yapadera kukambirana zakukhosi kwawo ndikuyankha mafunso awo.
- Akumbutseni ana anu kuti ziribe kanthu kuti mchimwene wawo ali ndi chikhalidwe, monga wa m'banja, iye ali mwana poyamba ndipo adzakhala ndi ufulu ndi maudindo malinga ndi luso lake ndi chitukuko chake. "Sitiyembekezera kuyerekezera chifukwa ali ndi matenda a Down, koma kuti amulolere kuti asonyeze zomwe angathe ndi chikondi chathu ndi chithandizo chathu."
- Okalamba anawo ali, mwinamwake iwo adzasokonezeka ndi kusakaniza maganizo omwe angakhale nawo. Nthawi zambiri safuna kuumiriza makolo awo ndipo izi zingawathandize kuti abise maganizo awo. Kupeza chilimbikitso kudzera mu sukulu, tchalitchi kapena ndi mamembala ena nthawi zonse ndibwino.
- Ngati muli ndichinyamata, anzake amathandiza kwambiri pamoyo wake. Mufunseni ngati alipo wina wapadera amene angafune kugaŵana nawo nkhaniyo, kumudzi kwawo wa anzanu akusukulu kapena anzake. Thandizo lothandizira mu njirayi. Angathenso kulangizidwa kuti akambirane nawo izi.
- Fotokozerani kwa ana anu kuti chiyambi chingakhale chovuta kwa aliyense, komatu aliyense adzizoloweretsa chizoloŵezi chatsopano. Palibe amene akuyembekeza kukhala wangwiro kupyolera mu ndondomekoyi, koma kukhala oleza mtima ndi kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake.
Monga makolo, ndibwino kuti musakhale ndi mayankho onse. Ngati nthawi iliyonse simukudziwa zomwe munganene, afotokozereni ana anu kuti tonse tikuphunzira palimodzi ndipo ndikofunika kuti tipeze zovuta, komanso kuti tidziwe kuti mayankho ambiri adzafika potsiriza.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti monga makolo ndi banja, ndi zachilendo kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika, nthano kapena tsankho pa matenda a Down syndrome.
Musatenge ndemanga kapena zochita ngati zowawa zanu. Aliyense m'banja amafunika kutsogoleredwa ndi maphunziro kuti amvetse chifukwa chake wachibale wawo ali ndi matenda a Down syndrome, ndi momwe chitukuko chake chidzakhalira.
Mwana aliyense wakhanda amafunikira chidwi ndi kudzipereka kwambiri pa miyezi yoyamba ya moyo wake, ndipo makamaka ngati atapezeka kuti ali ndi matenda a Down syndrome kapena ali ndi mavuto a zamankhwala. Lankhulani ndi ana anu za njirayi ndipo musamayembekezere kuti azikhala ozindikira kapena okhwima nthawi zonse. Zoyamba sizingakhale zophweka, choncho yesetsani kukonza nthawi yapadera kwa ana anu okalamba. Musati muwaike iwo kachiwiri, kapena alole iwo aganize kuti zosowa zawo si zofunika. Mwana aliyense ali ndi zosowa zapadera za mtundu wina, ndipo onse amafunikira kumvetsera kwathunthu ndi mawu omwe nthawi zonse amalimbikitsa komanso kuyamikira.