Malangizo Otsatira Kupyolera M'masiku Oyambirira
Zingakhale zomvetsa chisoni kuti mumve kuti mwana wanu watengedwa ndi matenda a Down syndrome . Pambuyo pa miyezi yambiri ndikudikirira mwana wathanzi, dziko lanu limasinthidwa ndi nkhani. Masiku oyambirira pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana akhoza kukhala zosokoneza, zochititsa mantha komanso zopweteka kwambiri.
Makolo atsopano nthawi zambiri amadziwa zambiri kapena amapatsidwa malangizo pang'ono.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe zilipo, pali zinthu zina zomwe mungachite kuti muthandize kuthana ndi nkhani yakuti mwana wanu ali ndi matenda a Down syndrome .
Musanyalanyaze Maganizo Anu
Kubadwa kwa mwana yemwe ali ndi matenda a Down syndrome nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa maganizo otsutsana. Inu mukumukonda mwana yemwe muli naye, koma inu mukukumanabe chisoni imfa ya mwana yemwe mumamuganizira. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti maganizo otsutsana sakuletsana. Mukhoza kumverera maulendo angapo panthawi imodzi ndikupanga zonsezo kukhala zowona. Zingatenge masiku kapena masabata kuti mugwirizanenso ndi maganizo anu - iyi ndi njira yomwe sangathe kuthamanga. Ingotenga tsiku limodzi panthawi.
Zomwe zikunenedwa, ngati patatha miyezi ingapo, mumamva chisoni, kudera nkhaŵa ndi kupsinjika maganizo, onetsetsani kuti mukuuza dokotala wanu. Mutha kukhala ndi vuto la postpartum depression. Kukhala ndi mwana yemwe ali ndi matenda a Down syndrome sikumapangitsa izi kukhala zovuta, komabe nkutheka kuti ziyenera kuyesedwa ndi kuchiritsidwa ngati kuli kofunikira.
Dzisamalire Wekha
Kubereka ndi ntchito yochititsa mantha yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhala yosavuta ndi kufika kwa mwana watsopano wokondwa. Komabe, kulandira uthenga wokhumudwitsa pambuyo pa kubadwa kungakulepheretseni kufooka kwanu ndikupangitsa nthawi yanu kuchira. Ndikofunika kudziyang'anira nokha pa nthawi ino. Yesani kudya bwino ndikugona mokwanira momwe mungathere.
Ngati wina wadzipereka kuthandiza ndi mwana kapena kuphika chakudya, asiye.
Tengani Tsiku Limodzi Pa Nthawi
Poyambirira, ndi zophweka kwambiri kuti nkhawa zanu za tsogolo la mwana wanu zikulepheretseni. Mwina mungakhale mukudandaula za komwe angapite kusukulu, ntchito yomwe adzakhala nayo, komanso komwe angakhale ali wamkulu. Ndi zachibadwa kukhala ndi nkhawa izi ndipo ndizofunikira kwambiri, koma ndibwino kukumbukira kuti mafunso awa sayenera kuyankhidwa tsopano.
Kulimbana ndi mavuto onse a mwana atangoyamba kubadwa kungakhale koopsa komanso kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wopanda mphamvu. Yesetsani kuyika nkhawa zanu za tsogolo lanu tsopano. Sangalalani ndi mwana wanu wakhanda ndipo muzipatula nthawi kumudziwa. Palibenso chinthu china chamtengo wapatali kuposa masabata angapo atangoyamba kubadwa, ndipo idzafulumira kwambiri. Yesani kumasuka ndi kusangalala ndi mphindi.
Zotsatira:
> Cunningham, C. Kumvetsa Matenda Aakulu: An Introduction for Parents (2nd ed.). Cambridge, MA: Brookline. 1999.
> Kutaya-Gunderson, Karen. Ana Amene Ali ndi Down Syndrome: Nyumba Yopangira Makolo Atsopano. 1995