Njira Zolankhulirana Zokuthandizira
Kuyankhulana ndi munthu amene akudwala matenda a Alzheimer's or dementia , nthawi zina kumakhala kovuta. Ndicho chifukwa chimodzi mwa zizindikilo za matenda a dementia , kuphatikizapo kukumbukira kukumbukira , ndizovuta kufotokoza malingaliro (monga mavuto opeza mawu ) kapena kuwamvetsa (nthawi zambiri amatchedwa kulankhulana mwachidwi). Nazi njira zingapo zopambana mukalankhulana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a maganizo:
Musamupatse munthuyo.
Zimatanthauza chiyani? Osalankhulana ndi munthuyo kapena kumuchitira ngati khanda. Izi nthawi zina zimatchedwa " akulupeak " ndipo ziyenera kupita. Kodi munayamba mwawonapo momwe anthu amalankhulira ndi makanda? Angagwiritse ntchito mawu omveka bwino ndikuyandikira nkhope ya mwanayo. Ngakhale izi ndi zoyenera kwa makanda, sizili zoyenera kuyankhulana ndi akuluakulu. Mosasamala kanthu za munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a maganizo aumtima kapena amatha kumvetsa, mum'chitireni ulemu ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olemekeza.Gwiritsani ntchito maina awo ndi kusankha maudindo.
Dziwani chimene dzina la munthuyo limakonda ndikuligwiritsa ntchito. Samalani ndi kugwiritsa ntchito "uchi," "wokondedwa" kapena mawu ofanana. Mungathe kutanthauza chikondi chenichenicho, komabe chingathe kukumana ndi chilakolako chokhalitsa.Taganizirani kugwiritsa ntchito kukhudza kwaulemu kuti awafunse.
Ngakhale kuti anthu ena angadziteteze ngati mutasweka malo awo omwe ali pambali pawo, ambiri amayamikira kugwira bwino. Mukhoza kupatsa pang'ono pa mapewa kapena kugwira dzanja lake pamene mukulankhula naye. Kukhudza kwanu ndikofunikira ndipo akhoza kulankhulana kuti mumasamala.
MUSAMAGWIRITSE KUKHALA NDIPONSO KUTI MUMAGANIZIRE KUTI MUNTHU NDI WOPHALA NDIPONSO KUKHALA NDI MTIMA WA KUMVA.
Kulimbitsa mawu onse mu chiganizo chimenecho kumamva mofanana ngati ndikukufuula, chabwino? Ikhoza kumverera chimodzimodzi kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi chifuwa chachikulu pamene timagwiritsa ntchito mawu akulu. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu omveka, omveka bwino kuti ayambe kukambirana ndi wina. Ngati munthuyo sakuyankha kapena mutadziwa kuti ali ndi vuto lakumva, mukhoza kuwonjezera voliyumu yanu. Kulankhula mu bukhu laling'ono kungathandizenso ngati wina ali ndi vuto.
Musagwiritse ntchito slang kapena mafanizo.
Pamene dementia ikupita , zingakhale zovuta kuti wina amvetse zomwe mukuyesera kuwauza. Mwachitsanzo, kuwuza wokondedwa ndi matenda a Alzheimer kuti "osagwiritsa ntchito kulira pa mkaka wotayika" kungamupangitse kuyang'ana kuona kumene mkaka watha, m'malo momutonthoza kapena kumulimbikitsa kuti asamangoganizira za vuto linalake. Ndipotu, kutanthauzira kwa Chipepala , chomwe chimapempha kuti wogwiritsa ntchito mayesero amvetsetse zinthu zomwe zili ngati mkaka wotchulidwa pamwambapa, ndizofunika kusonyeza zizindikiro za matenda a maganizo.Musanyalanyaze munthuyo.
Ngati muli ndi funso, funsani munthu poyamba kuti amupatse mpata woti ayankhe asanayambe kubwerera ku banja lake kuti ayankhe. Komanso, musalankhule za munthuyo ngati kuti palibe. Angathe kumvetsa zambiri kuposa momwe mumamulembera ngongole, choncho muzimulemekeza pomutchula mwachindunji.Sungani ndi kuyang'ana maso.
Kuvutika maganizo, kumwetulira kwenikweni kungachepetse mwayi wa makhalidwe ovuta kuyambira pamene munthuyo angakhale wotsimikizika ndi kulankhulana kwanu kosalankhulidwa. Kumamwetulira kwanu ndi kuyang'anitsitsa maso kumasonyeza kuti mumasangalala kukakhala naye ndipo ndi zinthu ziwiri zofunika kwambiri pakuyankhulana ndi wina aliyense.
Mawu ochokera
Kusokoneza chiyanjano chanu ndi ulemu ndi chikondi chenicheni chidzakulitsa zovuta za kupambana, kaya munthu amene mumayankhula naye ali ndi matenda a maganizo aumtima kapena ayi.
Kuti mudziwe zambiri, pewani mapepala 10 a peterawa pocheza ndi munthu amene ali ndi Alzheimer's.
Alzheimer's Association. Kulankhulana. http://www.alz.org/living_with_alzheimers_communication.asp