Kodi munayamba mwawonapo kapena mukukumana ndi vutoli?
Bill anangokhala madzulo akumuyendera wokondedwa wake m'chipinda chotetezeka chakumtima kwake makilomita atatu kuchokera kunyumba kwake. Iye akuyamba kutopa ndipo watenga nthawi yoti apite kunyumba kukagona, koma amawopa zomwe zimachitika akamachoka Sarah. Amamupatsa modzichepetsa ndikumuuza kuti amamukonda ndipo amamukumbutsa kuti abwereranso chakudya chamadzulo kuti akawonenso naye asanagone.
Sarah, komabe, amakwiya ndi kukwiya , pomuuza kuti samamukonda ndi kumupempha kuti amutengere naye. Amamamatirira iye ndipo amamukumbatira kachiwiri kenako amathawa kumudziwa ndikumutsatira ndikulira . Amachoka kupyola zitseko zotetezeka ndi kumbuyo kwake amamva zitseko pafupi ndikumva Sarah akumenya pakhomo ndikumuitana kuti abwerere. Amapukuta misozi m'maso mwake ndipo amapuma ndi mpweya wakuya, podziwa kuti chithunzichi chidzabwezeretsanso nthawi yomwe adzachoke.
Sarah ali ndi matenda a Alzheimers , ndipo ngakhale kuti Bill amamukonda kwambiri, sangathe kumusamalira kunyumba. Anatha kwa nthawi yaitali koma adangowonjezera kwambiri ndipo thanzi lake linasokonekera. Dokotala wake pomaliza anamuuza kuti ayenera kuchita zosiyana kuti akwaniritse zosowa zake komanso zake.
Kodi Bill ndi antchito angachite chiyani kuti asiyane ndi Sarah atamuyendera movutikira, kwa iye ndi kwa iye?
Zimatengera zifukwa zingapo, kuphatikizapo malo omwe Alzheimer ali nawo komanso umunthu wake. Yesani njira zisanu izi:
1. Sungani Mphamvu yachisokonezo
Bill angafunike kupempha antchito kuti amuthandize posokoneza Sarah nthawi yoti achoke. Cholinga chake sichikumunyengerera, koma kukhala ndi chidwi ndi Sarah mu chinthu china kuti njira yolekanitsa isamupweteke kwambiri.
Angasangalale ndi nthawi ya masana, poimba piyano kapena m'kalasi yophunzitsa.
2. Konzani ndondomeko Sarah kapena Bill
Mwinamwake Sarah amafunika kumangoyamba kugona ndipo Bill amatha kuthamanga pamene akugona. Kapena, mwinamwake Sarah angachite bwino ndi ulendo wa m'mawa ndipo Bill akhoza kupita kunyumba nthawi yake yamasana.
3. Gwiritsani ntchito Technology
Bwanji ngati Sarah akukwiyitsa kwambiri atangozindikira kuti Bill wasiya pamene wagona? Mukhoza kuyesa Bill mwachidule kapena kujambula kanema kuti akuyenera kuthamanga ndipo amamukonda ndipo adzabwerera posachedwa. Iye (kapena antchito) akhoza kusewera uthenga umenewo kuti amutsimikizire kuti akubweranso.
4. Othandiza Anthu
Mwinamwake pali munthu wina wogwira ntchito yemwe Sarah amamukonda komanso yemwe amatha kumuletsa ndi kumutsimikizira. Konzani patsogolo ndi munthu ameneyo kuti mudziwe nthawi yanji komanso masiku ati omwe mumayenda bwino. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mapindu ambiri omwe amagwira ntchito posamalira maganizo aumtima .
5. Dziwani Munthu Aliyense
Iyi ndi njira yofunikira kwambiri kwa antchito omwe akugwira ntchito ndi Sarah. Ndi mwayi wawo ndi udindo wawo kuphunzira kudziwa umunthu wake, zofuna zake, zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa kusokonezeka, ndi zomwe zimamutonthoza ndi kumulimbikitsa.
Angathe kugwira ntchito limodzi ndi Bill ndikumufunsa za mbiri yake, ntchito yake, banja lake, maluso ake ndi chimwemwe chake-ndipo agwiritsire ntchito chidziwitso ichi kuti apange njira yake payekha. Ndipo, akapeza chinthu chomwe chimagwira ntchito bwino, antchito ayenera kugawana nawo bwino ndikuonetsetsa kuti njira yomwe ili yothandiza ikudziwitsidwa kwa ena.
Chitsime:
Lippincott Nursing Center.com. Zina Zabwino Zopindulitsa Zabwino. Zosangalatsa Zogwirizana ndi Dementia. AJN, American Journal of Nursing, July 2005 http://www.nursingcenter.com/lnc/CEArticle?an=00000446-200507000-00028&Journal_ID=54030&Issue_ID=591242