Umu ndi m'mene ndalongosolera kwa anthu momwe zimamvera kuti ndikhale ndi MS.
Ndangopemphedwa posachedwapa kuti ndipereke nkhani kwa "akapitawo a magulu" a MS15, ulendo wamakilomita 150 wa njinga pakati pa mizinda yonse ku United States yomwe imapereka ndalama kwa National Multiple Sclerosis Society. Sindikuganiza kuti aliyense mwa omvera anali ndi multiple sclerosis (MS) , ndipo owerengeka okha anali ndi okonda ndi MS. Anthu awa amapanga kuchuluka kwamagulu okonzekera maudindo a gulu lawo komanso akudziwa zambiri za maulendo apansi, koma osati MS.
Ndinkafuna kuwauza kuti ntchito yawo imayamikiridwa. Ndinkafunanso kuwauza kuti "ife" tiri paliponse. Ndinkafuna kuwadziwitsa kuti chifukwa chakuti ndimayenda (m'malo mokweza) kupita ku podium, kuti ine, ndi anthu ngati ine, timapwetekedwa m'njira zomwe zinali zovuta kuziwona kapena kumvetsa.
Kuyesera Kwanga Kwambiri
Apa pali zomwe ine ndinawauza iwo:
Ndikufuna kufotokoza pang'ono zomwe MS amamva. Mawu onga "otopa" kapena "osokonezeka" sangathe kwenikweni, kotero ndinaganiza kuti ndiyesa kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi inu, ngati simungakonde kundisangalatsa.
Choyamba, chonde kwezani dzanja lanu ngati munayendapo padziko lonse. [Ambiri a iwo anachita.] Chabwino, zabwino, izo ndi zothandiza.
Chonde mutseka maso anu. Ndikufuna kuti muyesetse kubwera nane paulendowu.
Mwapemphedwa kuti mupite ku bizinesi kupita kudziko lomwe simunakhalepo-tiyeni tizinena kwinakwake ku Asia [kuti tipange kwenikweni]. Inali pempho lakumapeto kwa bwana wanu, kotero simukumva kuti ndinu wokonzeka.
Zinthu zinathamanga ndipo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, kotero simukudziwa ngati mutanyamula zinthu zabwino (mumatha kunyamula thumba lolemera kwambiri ndi lolemera), ndipo mwamsanga mwamsanga mukufika ku bwalo la ndege, kotero munadandaula nthawi yonse kuti munayima pamtunda wautetezo womwe mungaphonye kuthawa kwanu.
Mumathamangira ku chipata chanu muli nsapato zosavuta ndi chovala cholemera ndi matumba anu ndipo ndinu munthu womaliza kukwera.
Iwe umakhala pampando wapakati, ndipo palibe malo a thumba lako, kotero iwe umakhala pansi pa mpando patsogolo pako, kutanthauza kuti ulibe malo oti uike mapazi ako kupatula pamwamba pa thumba lako. Mukuwotcha kuthamanga. (Mwa njira, aliyense amene wakhala payekha mu bizinesi, ayimilire ndi kusamukira kumbuyo kwa ndege paulendowu.)
Woyendetsa sitima akubwera ndikulandira okwerawo, akuwauza kuti nthawi youluka ndi maora 14.
Yambirani chamtsogolo kutha kwa kuthawa. Wokondedwa wanu ankakukankhira iwe ndi chigoba chake, kenako anagona tulo, choncho simungathe kugona. Simungadye kwenikweni, monga mawondo anu atalepheretsa tebulo lanu lamasitepe kukhala laling'ono. Munthu yemwe anali patsogolo panu anali atakhala pansi pang'onopang'ono, choncho ankangogwada nthawi zonse.
Pali vuto laling'ono, koma ndege ikutha. Munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi iwe akuponya matumba awo pamutu pako akuyesera kuti awathetse pa bulu lamtsogolo. Anthu akungotenga nthawi yawo kulowa mumsewu, ndikukusiyani mukamadikirira. Mumapanga mapazi anu otupa m'matapu anu ndikutenga thumba lanu, lomwe likuwoneka kuti lalemera kwambiri.
Inu potsiriza mumachoka pa ndege. Palibe chomwe chiri Chingerezi (kapena chinenero china chomwe mungachimvetse).
Ndi 2 koloko masana ndipo aliyense amawoneka akudziwa kumene akupita kupatula iwe. Simunagone maola 36. Dzuwa likulowa mkati, ndipo chirichonse chiri chowala kwambiri ndi mokweza kwambiri.
Kotero tiyeni tiwone momwe mumamverera panthawi ino:
- Wathera kwambiri moti umamva ngati wamanyazi komanso wamisala.
- Mukusokonezeka-simudziwa kumene muli kapena kumene mukuyenera kupita. Mukudziwa kuti mudzatha kuziwona, koma pakalipano, nyali ndizowala kwambiri ndipo mawuwo ndi okwera kwambiri.
- Miyendo yanu ndi yowuma, ndipo mapazi anu onse akugwedezeka chifukwa chogona ndi kupweteka ku nsapato zanu kukhala zolimba kwambiri.
- Muyenera kukodza molakwika koma simukudziwa kumene malo osambira ali.
- Mwatenthedwa kwambiri ndi chovala chimene mwavala, chifukwa simukufunanso kunyamula.
- Thumba lanu ndi lolemera komanso losavuta ndipo mumamva kuti ndinu ofooka kwambiri kuti musanyamule. Ndiye tsamba likuphwa ndipo iwe umafuna kulira.
Chabwino, tsegulani maso anu. Nthawi imeneyo ndiyo. Ameneyo ndi MS .
Maganizo Otsiriza
Ndili ndi teary pang'ono kumapeto kwa kuwonetsera uku. Komabe, ndinadabwa kwambiri ndi omvera anga ambiri. Ndikuganiza kuti aliyense angamvetsere momwe mukuvutikira kumapeto kwa ndege yapadziko lonse pamene mukufunikira kuyenda kudera lomwe simukudziwa. Sindinawafunse kuti aganizire kuti ali ndi njinga ya olumala kapena azidzipatsanso jekeseni tsiku ndi tsiku. Ine sindinali pamwamba apo kuti ndiwauze iwo momwe MS yandiyamikirira tsiku lirilonse kapena kukamba za momwe ndingathere. Ndinangofuna kuti ndikuwonetseni momwe ndimamvera tsiku ndi tsiku.
Mawu ochokera
Zochitika, zizindikiro ndi malingaliro okhudza kukhala ndi MS ndi osiyana kwa aliyense. Ngati muli ndi MS, mungathe kuwonjezerapo zinthu zosasangalatsa mu "kuyang'ana" kwanga kapena kudzipanga nokha zomwe ziri zoyenera pazochitika zanu. Ngati mulibe MS, koma wokondedwa amachita, afunseni momwe akumvera-kwenikweni akumverera-nthawi zambiri. Yankho lawo lingadabwe nawe.
Kachiwiri, mfundo ya ntchitoyi sikuti ikhale ndi chifundo kuchokera kwa omvera anga (kapena aliyense akuwerenga izi tsopano). Ndinali kulankhulana za chinthu chomwe chili chapakati pa moyo wanga. Zinali kuti agwirizanitse ndi anthu ena ozungulira chinthu ichi chotchedwa "MS," ngakhale atangokhala kanthawi.
> Kusinthidwa ndi Dr. Colleen Doherty, pa August 2, 2016.