Kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri yokhala ndi kholo kungapangitse kusiyana kwakukulu.
Kodi Matenda a Autism Amagwirizana Bwanji?
Kodi mwana wanu ayenera kulandira mankhwala ? Sewani mankhwala ? Thandizo labwino? Thandizo la Kulankhula? Thandizo la ntchito? Thandizo lachiyanjano? Thandizo la thupi? Bwanji za mankhwala oimba? Kodi mankhwalawa ndi otani? RDI? Kuwuka? Nthaŵi ya pansi? MASOMBA? Zonsezi zingakhale zothandiza, ngakhale kuti palibe njira yodziwira zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwambiri kwa mwana wanu.
Koma palinso chinthu chimodzi chomwe chithandizo chonsechi (ndi zina zambiri) zimagwirizana. Chophimba chobisa chomwe chingapangitse kuti chikhale chosiyana kwambiri ndi chitukuko cha mwana wanu, chidziwitso cha anthu, chiyanjano, ndi kumvetsetsa.
Chothandizira ichi ndi chaulere, chikhoza kuperekedwa nthawi iliyonse, ndipo mukhoza kuzipereka nokha, kapena popanda katswiri.
Kodi mankhwalawa a autism ndi otani?
Pano pali chinsinsi: nthawi yokwanira yogwiritsidwa ntchito, imodzi-imodzi, ndi wamkulu wachikondi .
Inde, ndi zoona. Izi "chithandizo chozizwitsa" kwenikweni zingapangitse kusiyana kwa mwana wanu autistic - ndipo, monga mbali yopindulitsa, ingathandizenso luso lanu la kulera, kukulitsa ubale wanu ndi mwana wanu, ndipo zingayambitse thanzi lanu la mtima (poona kuti mulidi Uka ndi kuchita chinachake ndi mwana wako).
Nchifukwa chiyani kulimbikitsa, kugwirizana, nthawi imodzi ndi mwana wa autistic n'kofunika kwambiri?
Ana omwe ali ndi autism ali ndi zizindikiro zochepa chabe zomwe zimagwirizana; Izi zikuphatikizapo mavuto ndi mauthenga aulemu (omasuka ndi osalankhula) komanso zosiyana siyana.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndi zovuta kuti iwo azifufuza maubwenzi a anthu, kumanga luso la kusewera, kapena kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro awo. Pochita zinthu zabwino, nthawi imodzi pamodzi ndi mwana wa autistic - kaya mukusewera, kusamba, kuimba, kapena kupereka mtundu wina wa mankhwala - mukuthandiza mwanayo kuti azigwira ntchito ndi kuwongolera maluso ofunika kwambiri.
Zoonadi, sizingakhale zosavuta nthawi zonse kugwirizana ndi kapena kukhalabe wogwirizana ndi mwana wa autistic. Mosiyana ndi ambiri omwe akulera ana, ana omwe ali ndi autism sangapemphe chidwi. Iwo sangakhoze ngakhale kulandira izo. Zingakhale zovuta kuti mwana wa autistic azisewera masewera ena, kuimba nyimbo inayake, bwerani m'mimba mwanu, kapena ngakhale kukambirana. Ana ambiri okhala ndi autism akuwoneka kuti akukhala m'dziko lawo, ndipo ndi ochepa omwe amafunafuna kuvomereza akulu kapena kukambirana.
Mmene Mungaperekere Mwana Wanu Wovomerezeka Chenjezo Limene Limathandiza Kudandaula Mtima
Ndiye mumapanga bwanji kulumikizana kofunika kwambiri? Pano pali malangizo othandizira kuti muyambe:
- Gwiritsani ntchito chithandizo cha mwana wanu, ndipo penyani zomwe akuchita. Akapeza chidwi chotere pogwiritsa ntchito chidole, ntchito, kapena nyimbo, lembani. Patapita kanthawi, mudzakhala ndi mndandanda wabwino wa zipangizo zogwirira ntchito ndikugwira chidwi cha mwana wanu.
- Yang'anani mwana wanu. Sizingatheke kuti mwana wanu sangachite chilichonse, tsiku lonse. Kodi akuchita chiyani? Ngati akuyang'ana TV, kodi amasonyeza chiyani? Ngati akusewera ndi sitima, amachita bwanji? Kodi amasankha injini ziti? Mwana yemwe amakonda Sesame Street angayankhe munthu wamkulu yemwe akusewera ndi chidole Elmo.
- Yesani. Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi autism amakonda kuthamanga masewera, kusekemera, ndi zinthu zina zosangalatsa koma zosalankhula. Ena amakonda kukhala ndi kuyang'ana zithunzi, kusambira pamasuntha, kapena kupopera sopo. Poyesera ntchito zosiyana inu mumanga mndandanda kuti mutengere kukambirana.
- Gwiritsani ntchito njira zothandizira. Mapulogalamu omwe amawakonza monga Floortime ndi RDI, amagwiritsanso ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti amange luso la ana omwe ali ndi autism. Wokonzedwa kwa makolo ndi opaleshoni, njirazi zimakupatsani malangizo ndi zipangizo zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti musakhale nokha nokha.
Mlingo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wa chisamaliro choyenera, umasamalira mwana aliyense.
Kwa mwana ali ndi autism, ikhoza kukhala chinsinsi cha chitukuko ndi kukula. Kodi ndi "chozizwitsa"? Ndizo kuti muthe kusankha!