Ngati Webusaiti Yanu Yakuphatikiza Ma Libido Yake, Musadzidzudzule
Ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi multiple sclerosis (MS), mwinamwake munasintha zinthu zambiri pamoyo wanu, monga kuchepetsa ntchito nyengo yotentha, kuthandiza panthawi yobwereza , kapena kusintha kwa zolemala zina. Komabe, chizindikiro chimodzi chimene chimafuna kwambiri "kugwirana" ndikumagwira ntchito ndi kugonana kosayenera , komwe kumachitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Ichi ndichizindikiro chomwe anthu ambiri akukayikira kuti akambirane poyera.
Chifukwa Chiyani Mwamuna Wanga Sakonda Kufuna Kugonana?
Kugonana ndi njira yovuta yomwe imadalira dongosolo lalikulu la mitsempha kuti likhale ndi chidwi chokweza komanso kugonana. Mu MS, kuwonongeka kwa mitsempha ya mitsempha yowonongeka kungakhudze kugonana kwa munthu payekha ndikuyankha. Kutopa, kupweteka, ndi kupweteka kungayambitsenso mavuto a kugonana kwa amuna omwe ali ndi multiple sclerosis. Kafukufuku wina amasonyeza kuti anthu 91 pa 100 alionse omwe ali ndi MS adzapeza zovuta zogonana (amayi omwe ali ndi MS amavutika nawo - mpaka 72 peresenti adzakhala ndi vuto la kugonana).
Pankhani ya moyo wanu wa kugonana, mukhoza kuyesa "zomwe mwachita molakwitsa" kapena "zomwe mungachite bwino." Koma ino si nthawi yoti: a) aganizire kuti mwamuna wanu ali ndi chibwenzi; b) kuganiza kuti mwamuna wako akutaya chidwi, kapena c) ayambe kudandaula ndi abwenzi anu kapena banja lanu za vutoli. Muyenera kuphunzira pang'onopang'ono za vuto ndi njira zothetsera vuto, ndipo -ndilo gawo lovuta kwambiri komanso lofunika kwambiri-kuyankhulana ndi mnzanuyo za momwe mungagwirire ntchito ndi gululi.
Zizindikiro Zambiri Zokhayokha Zomwe Zingasokoneze Moyo Wanu Wogonana
Amuna omwe akukhala ndi multiple sclerosis akhoza kukhala ndi chimodzi (kapena zingapo) za zizindikiro zomwe zingakhudze libido yawo ndi moyo wanu wa kugonana:
- Kutaya kwa libido (chidwi pa kugonana)
- Kuchepetsa mphamvu mu mbolo
- Kuvuta kupeza / kusunga erection
- Zovuta kukhala ndi ziphuphu
- Zovuta ndi kutsegula (dry orgasm)
- Kutopa
- Zovuta ndi kayendetsedwe / maudindo omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa kugonana chifukwa cha kupweteka kapena kupweteka kwa minofu
Kodi Mungatani?
Pali njira zambiri zamankhwala ndi mankhwala kuti athandize amuna omwe ali ndi vuto la kugonana. Zina mwa zinthuzi zimaphatikizapo zinthu zosavuta zomwe mungachite kunyumba pomwe ena akuphatikizapo kuwona dokotala kapena kumwa mankhwala.
Zothetsera Pakhomo: Vibrators Angagwiritsidwe ntchito kwa mkaziyo ngati mwamuna wake akuvutika kukhala ndi erection. Ena angamve ngati alibe chitetezo cha njirayi, koma ngati mupempha kuti agwiritse ntchito pa inu, akhoza kukupeza kuti imamukweza. Amuna angagwiritsenso ntchito vibrators kuti alowe mkati ngati ali ndi chidwi. Njira zina zogonana zowonjezera zingapereke njira zothandizira wina aliyense.
Mankhwala am'malamulo: Viagra ndi mankhwala ena amathandiza amuna kupeza ndi kusunga zakudya, ndipo amathandiza pafupifupi 50 peresenti ya amuna omwe ali ndi MS. Kuti agwire ntchito, mwamunayo ayenera kumvekanso, zomwe zingakhale zofunikira zowonjezera zolemba ndi zina.
Mankhwala Ojambulidwa: Mankhwalawa amalowetsedwa m'munsi mwa mbolo. Mosiyana ndi mankhwala apakamwa, jekeseni imatulutsa mpweya mkati mwa mphindi zingapo, ngakhale ngati palibe chokakamiza chinachitikabe.
Mankhwala a Penile: Zipangizo zosiyanasiyana zingathe kulowetsedwa mu mbolo ndi dokotala kuti athandizidwe ndi mankhwala.
Mankhwala Osakanizika ndi Kupweteka Kwakumwa: Mankhwalawa angagwiritsidwe ntchito kuthandizira masewera ndi ululu zomwe zingasokoneze kugonana.
Chifungulo Chokondweretsa Pagonana ndi MS: Kulankhulana Kwachidwi
Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pa njira yothetsera kugonana, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Amuna omwe ali ndi MS mwina ali kale kale ndi mkwiyo, manyazi, kutopa, ndi chisoni chifukwa cha kusintha kwa matupi awo, kotero kuti pangakhale malo ovuta kuyamba kuyamba kukambirana za kugonana kosayenera.
Ndi ntchito yanu kuti mutsimikizire mwamuna wanu kuti mumamupeza kukhala wofunika komanso kuti izi sizongokhala vuto lake, koma chinachake chimene mungagwiritse ntchito palimodzi. Apanso, ngakhale izi zingakhale zovuta kwa inu nonse, mungathe kupeza kuti ubale wanu umakhala wamphamvu (ndi steamier) pambuyo pa zokambiranazi.
Zotsatira:
National Multiple Sclerosis Society. Kugonana. Kuchokera ku MS Information Sourcebook. Tanya Radford, MS ndi Intimacy. National Multiple Sclerosis Society