Pamene Mmodzi Ndi Wosamva Ndipo Wina Sali
Ngakhale anthu ogontha ambiri akwatirana ndi anthu ena ogontha, ambiri amakhala ndi ubale ndi kumva anthu. Ubale umenewo, womwe ukhoza kuyambira pamaso pa wogontha wogonana usanamvetsere, nthawi zambiri umakhala wotanganidwa ndi nkhani monga chinenero cha manja (SL). Mamembala a mamembala amalangizana wina ndi mzake pa maubwenzi akumva osamva (zotsatila zotsatila):
- "Ndakwatiwa ndi munthu womvetsera yemwe sangaphunzire chizindikiro kuti alankhule ndi ine amandipangitsa kuti ndimuwerenge pakatha zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi ndatopa kuwerenga."
- LAFUN69
"mwamuna ... potsirizira pake akuyandikira kuchita zolemba zazing'ono nthawizina ... ndi chizindikiro chaching'ono apa ndi apo." Iye samakhala bwino ndi izo ndipo sadzakhala konse ... "
- FUZZYPEN
"... Mwamuna ndi wovuta kwambiri kuwerenga-kuwerenga ... atalonjezedwa tisanalowe m'banja kuti tiphunzire zizindikiro koma titakwatirana, ndiwo mapeto a zizindikiro zake chifukwa zimakhala zosavuta kuti alankhule ...
... adzakwatirana naye kachiwiri ... osamukwatira kufikira atadziŵa ... luso langa linapangitsa kuti likhale losavuta kamodzi titakwatirana. Imeneyi ndi vuto lalikulu mu "maukwati osakanikirana." ... khalani pansi ndikumuuza kuti ayenera kuphunzira chifukwa inu simukulankhulana. Ndi kosavuta kuti aphunzire zizindikiro ndizosatheka kuti muphunzire kumva ... "
- BLUIZJUDY
"... iye sankakhoza kuphunzira SL ... sizinali zovuta kwa ine koma ... nthawizina sindinkamumvetsa.Zomwe ndinachita kuti ndim'phunzire SL anali .. Yambani kulankhula naye mu SL ndikuchita ngati simumamvetsa Mwinanso ngati akuyesera kulankhula nawe popanda kulemba kapena kumuuza nthawi zonse ndipo potsiriza adzatopa ndikudzibwereza yekha ndikupempha kuti athandizidwe kuphunzira SL.
Ngati atakwiya kapena atapanga zifukwa ndiye sakuyenera kuti ... "
- DEE72072
"Ndinakwatiwa ndi mayi wina akumvetsera ... sindinayambe kumvetsetsa mpaka nditakwanitsa zaka 15, choncho sindinafunikire kulemba panthawi yomwe ndikukula. .
... Amakwiya ndi ine pamene sindikumvetsa kanthu nthawi yomweyo.
Ngati akuyenera kubwereza chinthu chimodzi chokha, zingakhale zochititsa manyazi, makamaka ngati tili pamodzi, chifukwa amayamba kukwiyitsa ndipo ndimayamba kumva kuti ndikusowa mtendere, zomwe zimachititsa kuti ndivutike kwambiri kuti ndimvetsetse zomwe ndikuchita. anati ..
zowawa kwambiri ... kuti ndikhale ndi mkazi wanga yemwe akufuula mokwiya kwa ine sikungandipangitse kukhala wotetezeka mwa ine ndekha ... "
- ROWLANDT1
"wokwatiwa ndi munthu womvetsera, amagwiritsa ntchito njira yokhayo yolankhulana ndi ine ku SL koma nthawi ina ndimagwiritsa ntchito mau anga ... ndi kofunikira kuuza mwamuna wako momwe mumamverera ... mwinamwake mupatseni njira zingapo monga kuyesera kuwerenga / kuwerenga, ngati adanena mawu awa popanda mawu. Onani ngati mwamuna wako akuganiza kuti wati ndimakukondani, Nsalu ya Njovu, Msuzi wa Azitona, Chiwonongeko cha chilumba, Ndikhala ndi zizindikiro ziwiri ndizobwenzi lanu, ngati banja lanu likufunsani zomwe mukulankhula ndi bwenzi lanu, musawauze ntchito yawo iliyonse. Adzazindikira mmene mumamvera ... Tsopano sindikumva ngati ndasiyidwa ndikadya chakudya ndi banja langa ... "
- CILJ
"Mkazi yemwe akumva ndipo amatha kusayina bwino, anatenga masewera ena a SL pofuna kundilankhulitsa bwino. Amandikonda kwambiri kuti kuyankhulana kwathu ndikofunikira kwambiri pa ubale wathu ...
Ngati amakukondani kwambiri komanso odzipatulira kwa inu, ndiye kuti akufunika kuphunzira.
Sizowonongeka kuti iwe uzigwira ntchito mwamphamvu kuti umumvetse iye ... Gula SL buku ndikupereka kwa iye ndikuwona ngati iye aphunzira chirichonse. Ngati atasiya bukhuli pa tebulo, bweretsani bukhuli ... Ngati ali wamisala, muuzeni chifukwa chake ndi momwe mumamvera. Lowani izo kwa iye.
... abweretse abwenzi anu osamva panyumba panu ndi kulemba. Ngati akufuna kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika ... ndipatseni buku la SL kapena kabuku. Ndipo nkuti, "Ngati mumandikonda kwambiri ndiye kuti mudzandipeza ine theka la njira."
- WAR78MAN
"Mwamuna wachita chinthu chofuula nayenso ... asamanyalanyaze ... tembenuzirani matebulo ... mwamuna ankakonda kundilirira ngati akufuna thandizo kupeza chinachake ... anakankhira mutu wake mu nsalu yansalu ... yelled kuti ndibwere thandizo.
Iye anakhumudwa kwambiri nthawi zingapo chifukwa ndikuwoneka kuti ndimanyalanyaza iye. Pamene iye anali nayo nthawi kuti azizizira ndipo ine ndimamufuna iye pa chinachake, ine ndikanasindikiza kumbuyo kwake; kenako gwirani pamapewa ake ndi kusindikiza ndi kulimbikitsa kwambiri - kumuuza iye kuti anandinyalanyaza ine. Adzati ... sakanakhoza kumbuyo kumbuyo kwake ndipo ndinanena kuti sindingathe kulankhula naye pamene anali ndi mutu wake. Zinatenga nthawi, chipiriro, kuseka, ndi misonzi koma tinagwira ntchito ndipo takhala m'banja zaka 26 tsopano. "
- FUZZYPEN
"Ndinamuuza iye bukhu la SL kuti aphunzire kanthu kena kena kolakwika sanachite pokhapokha titangolankhula mwachidule ... Izi zimandikwiyitsa koma sindikudetsa nkhawa ndikuganiza kuti akhoza kukhala ndi nsanje kuti awone zambiri Amzanga omwe ali ogontha ndipo alibe zofuna zake, tsopano amayamba kumva mwachidwi (HOH), kutaya makutu ake. Ndikamacheza ndi ogontha akufuna kudziwa zomwe tinena ... kusasamala naye pamene sakuyankhula chizindikiro ... "
- DEAFBABE42
"Ndinakwatirana ndi munthu womvetsera kwa zaka zoposa 19. Nditamupeza, ndinamuuza kuti," Sindingawerenge milomo ya wina aliyense kwa moyo wanga wonse. "Anandidabwitsa ndikupita ku SL. ...
pepani poona ena amene adadzikakamiza kuti awerenge milomo ya okwatirana awo. Anthu ambiri ogontha amaneneratu kuti ukwati wathu umalephera chifukwa amamva ndipo ndine wogontha ... "
- JAZ16
"HOH ... amakana kuphunzira SL komanso ... zokhumudwitsa kwambiri kwa ife tonse." Iye ndi "mumbler". Ndiyenera kumamuuza nthawi zonse kuti andiyang'ane, ndikubwereza zomwe adangonena. Tonse tinayankhulapo, ndipo potsiriza anazindikira momwe zilili zovuta kwa ine, ndipo zimatikhumudwitsa kuti tizidalira pamtima kuwerenga pokhapokha.
Takhala tikuganiza kuti mwana wathu atangokwana kale tidzamuphunzitsa SL, adasankha kuphunzira. "
- KRS10
"Iye sanayesetsepo kuphunzira kuphunzira ... Mwamwayi, ndimatha kuyankhula bwino koma ndikukhala pagulu, zinali zovuta kwambiri kwa ine ... anali akunyoza ine mwa kusaphunzira chinenero changa kapena kusamala za malingaliro anga kapena zopempha. Ine ndinamugula iye bukhu la SL koma lomwe silinagwire ntchito ... linaphwanya ... "
- MISSYB26
"Iye akufuna ine ndiphunzire kulankhula ... ndi zizindikiro zomwe sindikuzichita. Timagwiritsa ntchito cholembera ndi pepala ndikumvetsera pang'ono kuti tiyankhulane. Kukhumudwitsa"
- HO1234
"... ndikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kulemba chirichonse ndikukhala bwino pamilomo ndikumuwerengera koma pakadali nthawi yomwe ndimangofuna kunena kuti ndikuiwala ndikuchoka koma sindingathe kuchita izi chifukwa ndimamukonda ... monga kufunsa kuti mumve pamene akudziwa kuti sangakwatirane ndikumudziwa osamva komanso kuti simungathe kuyankhula. "
- LAFUN69
"Iye amasaina pang'ono ...
ife tinali ndi mavuto a kulankhulana ... zomvetsa chisoni, ife tasudzulidwa tsopano kuti tikhale naye limodzi ndi kumuphunzitsa iye ... "
- SOFTSUMMER37
"Chifukwa chiyani anthu osamva akwatiwa akumva anthu? ... amakhulupirira kuti chikondi chidzasamalira chirichonse ... panthawi yomwe sizinali zofunikira ... chikondi chinali .... Tsopano nthawi yatha kwa kanthawi. Kodi chikondi chimatha? Kodi chinenero ndi chofunika kwambiri kuposa chikondi chimene munali nacho pamene mukuyamba?
Ambiri achikulire adzati ... sayenera kuyembekezera kuti wina asinthe pambuyo pa banja .... koma kenanso ena anganene ngati akukukondani, adzakuchitirani chilichonse .... "
- DDDD86
"... ngati akukukondani iwo adzafuna kuchita zomwe zingakhale bwino pa ubale wanu ndikuphunzira momwe mungalankhulire komanso momwe mungathere. Mwamuna wanga anali ndi mantha kwambiri pamene tinali pachibwenzi kuti ndimusiya nditangozindikira Ndikumva kuti ndikumva bwino ndipo ndikuganiza kuti sindinamve kanthu ... Ndinalembedwera kuti ndiphunzire SL ... ngakhale kuti akuona kuti sikunali kofunikira, waphunzira kuwerenga misozi Ndibwino ... kumva kwake kukukulirakulira ndipo ndikufuna kukhala okonzekera kumuthandiza. "
- DEIDRAHICKS
"... kudabwa ndi kuchuluka kwa mkwiyo ndi kukwiya kwa omvera ... ... zaka zoposa 27 ... zinkakhumudwitsa, inde, zokhudzana ndi kuti sindinathe kumva nthawi zina, koma osakhala ndi mwayi wokhoza kulankhulana!"
- LOLUV8
"Sitikunena za kukhala wogontha, kapena kumva - ndi zomwe mumagawana nazo ... anali ndi ubale ndi atsikana akumva ...
... Kodi kumva kapena kumva ndi kofunika bwanji? Kwa anthu ogontha, ndizofunikira kwambiri kukhala awo ... Ukwati wabwino ndi umodzi pomwe munthu angathe kulankhula momasuka, ndi momveka bwino; kotero kuti wina akhoza kugawana moyo wina ndi mzake ... Kodi inu awiri mungakumane pakati pa wina ndi mzake, ndi kulowerera? "
- WESBROWN18
"Ndinamverera kuti ndikudzidetsa ndekha ndi iye pamene ndinkandivuta kulankhula.
Ndinali ndi chidziwitso chowonjezereka cha kuti samatha kuwerenga kapena kulemba bwino ... poyamba poyankhulidwa ndi kusakaniza, kufotokozera, ndi kumvetsa kusamvetsetsa kwambiri, tinakwanitsa. Ndinapeza kuti tinapanga zizindikiro zathu koma ndinatenga BSL ndikupeza kuti ndingathe kufotokoza zinthu mozama kwa iye. Posakhalitsa anayenera kukhala ndi kafukufuku kuntchito ... panalibe makonzedwe mkati mwa kampani kwa wolemba. Ndinapempha kuti ndilowemo ndikutanthauzira iye ... Zinadzawoneka kuti sanali kulandira maphunziro omwe anali woyenera chifukwa sanathe kuyankhulana ndi iye kapena kumvetsa njira yabwino yopitilira nazo ... pitani koma khalani okonzekera kuti muyambe maphunziro muzisonyezo momwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino komanso kuti mukhale omasuka. "
- JULIEKAVANAG
"Ndimakhala munthu wabwino kwambiri womvetsera ... Tikakhala tokha, zinthu zimakhala zabwino, ndipo timakhala pamodzi pamodzi.
Koma tikafika m'magulu (kumvetsera anthu) -IZI nthawi zonse ndimachoka pamakambirano. Amalankhula mofulumira, ndipo sindingathe kupeza zomwe akunena ... Nthawi zambiri chibwenzi sichikundipatsa zomwe akunena, kapena kundifotokozera, pokhapokha nditapanga zambiri za izo.
Lamlungu lapitalo, timapita kukawona anzake, ndipo ndinkangotsala pang'ono kukambirana kwa maola awiri. Ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri, ndikungoyendetsa kunyumba ndikulira.
Chibwenzi changa chimangobwereza, ngakhale kuti chimachita bwino. Ndimagwiritsira ntchito ASL monga chinenero changa chachikulu, ndipo ndimatha kulankhula pang'ono ... kamnyamata kamodzi kawirikawiri amandilembera mowirikiza, kapena pafupi ndi abwenzi ake. Kodi ali ndi manyazi? "
- COCOCUTIEDEA
"Ndikanakhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wosamva sindingamulepheretse ...
Kodi mwamuuza momwe zimakuchititsani kumva kuti simukukhala nawo pazomwe mukukhala?
... Ngati sangasinthe ndikukupatsa ulemu, ndiye ... nthawi yopezera chibwenzi chatsopano.
Panopa akuphunzira ASL kudzera m'mabuku ndi mavidiyo. Ndimakonda kwambiri chilankhulo ndipo ndikupitirizabe kuyenda nawo ... "
- AQUABLUE1966 " Ubale wamamva -kumva ukhoza kupambana ... posakhalitsa ndikuphatikizidwa ndi mtsikana wosamva / kumva kumva ... kutayika kumva sikunali kovuta kuti tipewe ...
... Ngakhale kuti tinalankhula momveka bwino nthawi, adandithandiza ndikuphunzira ku Sign ndipo ndimatha kucheza ndi anzake osamva ...
Nthawi zina sanandimvetse pamene tinalankhula pamlomo ... Choncho kuleza mtima kwa omvera ndi osamva n'kofunika (makamaka pamene Kumva kwa Bloke's Signing sikumveka bwino)
... Ngati munthu wosamva akuwonekera, ndiye kuti munthu akumva ayenera kuyankhula kapena kuphunzira kuyankhulanso mu Chizindikiro. Sikuti ndi nkhani yokha kumvetsetsa, koma zikutanthauza kuti Kumva munthu akugawana chinthu cha mnzanu-chinenero chawo ... "
- BLOKE9
"Ukwati ukhoza kukhala wopanikizika mukumvetsera chifukwa munthu amayamba kuiwala kuti hoh ndi kumva sizinthu zosiyana siyana. Ndinafunika kudziphunzitsa ndekha ndikuyankhula ndikuyamba ndikukula komanso ndikulephera. Izi ziyenera kukhala zofanana ndizokwatirana. Inde, maukwati osamva amakhala pamodzi nthawi yaitali chifukwa kumvetsetsa kulipo. Kuyankhulana ndikofunika kwambiri mu ubale uliwonse. "
- BOZOGIRL
"ndinataya kumva kwanga mwadzidzidzi ndipo ndili ndi zaka pafupifupi 8 ... zinali zovuta kwa ine.
Ndinatumizidwa ku sukulu ya ogontha kumene SL sizinali zoyenera ndipo, kwa ine, kuwerenga ndi kuyankhula kwa milomo kwakhala njira yopitilira zaka zonsezi. Sindinayambe ndadandaula kuti sindinaphunzire SL, ngakhale kuti kuŵerenga pamtima nthawi zina kumakhala kovuta kwambiri ...
Ndinali wokwatiwa kwa zaka zambiri kwa mwamuna amene anali kumva bwino.
Ngakhale kuti tinali ndi mavuto ambiri, kulankhulana sikunali chimodzi mwa iwo kupatula kuti ... mphamvu yake ya Chifalansa inapangitsa kuti zinthu zikhale zovuta ... "
- Msendo
"Ndikumana ndi chibwenzi changa chachilendo kwa zaka ziwiri tsopano. Ife tili ndi ubale wabwino ndipo ndakhala pafupifupi SL ... Werengani mndandanda wazithunzithunzi za maanja ogontha ndi omva akukhumudwa ndikumverera kuti achoke pamene akupita ndi magulu a mabwenzi Gf ndi ine takhala ndi zifukwa zokhuza izi. Ndimasulira zonse zomwe ndingathe kumupeza, koma zomwe amalephera kuzindikira (ndipo ndikuganiza kuti siye yekha) ndikuti ndine munthu 1/1 maganizo ndi Pali manja awiri okha. Palibe njira yomwe ndingathe kuyimirira ndikutanthauzira zonse zomwe zanenedwa pakati pa 3 kapena 4 kapena anthu ambiri, kumveketsa zomwe akunena, ndikulankhulana ndi anzanga, ndikutsatira pazochitika zachilendo kuyenda ndikudziphatikiza ndekha ndi mphindi iliyonse. Ndimachita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndimuphatikize ndikudziwitsa zomwe zikuchitika, koma siziyenera kukhala kwa wokondedwa kapena bf kapena gf kuphatikizapo ogontha kapena hoh munthu. Ntchitoyi ndi gulu la aliyense amene akukhudzidwa kumene mukupita ... pamene tipita kunja ds Ndikuwauza kuti gf yanga imatha kuwerenga komanso kulankhula naye nthawi iliyonse yomwe akufuna.
Ndiwadziwitse kuti nthawi zina amafunika kuchepetsa chifukwa akusowa zomwe zikuchitika. Mwa njira imeneyi, aliyense amamva bwino komanso amamvetsetsa pang'ono ... Ngati anthu amamvetsa zambiri, ndiye kuti adzayesetsa kuyesa kulankhula, osati momwe amachitira komanso mantha kapena kuopa kulankhula. "
- Msendo
"Chiyanjano ndi womasulira SL, choncho ndizothandiza koma nthawi zonse pali mavuto oyankhulana pakati pa anthu awiri.
- Msendo
"HOH ... anakwatira munthu womva (34yrs) ... Ndimawerenga milomo yambiri ndikudziwa SL ... Mmodzi mwa mmodzi ndi wabwino!
Koma, mu gulu, ine ndatayika. Anthu ambiri omwe sakudziwa ine ndikuganiza kuti ndine wamwano, kapena kuti ndikunyalanyaza. Koma, sindikumva zomwe akunena kuti ndisatembenuke kapena ndikudziwa kuti akuyankhula nane ... Nthawi zambiri timamva anthu akuyankhula koma sakudziwa zomwe akunena ... anthu samakhulupirira kuti ndine HOH chifukwa ndadziwa luso lowerenga ndikumvetsa. Ndiko, mpaka atembenuka ndipo sindingawaone. "
- Msendo
"wokwatiwa ndi HOH Man ... anakana kuphunzira SL, ndimva ndikudziwa SL, ndaphunzira kwa zaka 15 ndipo ndizofunika kwambiri ku koleji.Iyi imayambitsa mavuto mu ubale wathu, ndikuyembekeza kuti angathe kuphunzira asanamalize kumva ... akuyesa, kunyalanyaza, ngakhale osalankhulana naye, ndipo sangaphunzire kulemba ... mwinamwake tsiku lina adzafuna kuphunzira kuyankhulana ndi ana ake.
Okwatirana samawakakamiza iwo kuti asiye iwo. Zimapangitsa iwo kumva zowawa mukamalankhula ndi kuchita zonsezi. Adzaphunzira pamene akhumudwa popanda kulankhula. "
- Msendo
"Ndinakwatiwa kwa zaka khumi ndi mwamuna yemwe ndi wogontha. Ndinaphunzira SL patsogolo ndipo tinapitirizabe titakwatirana chifukwa ndi gawo la ntchito yanga. SL inachititsanso kuti ndizilankhulana bwino ndi mwamuna wanga. Mutenge mwamuna wanu nthawi ina mukapite kukayezetsa.
Pangani msonkhano mwamsanga ndipo awapangitseni kuti ayankhe kuyesa kusankhana pamtunda pamene mwamuna wanu ali m'chipinda. Adzadabwa kwambiri ndi masewera osauka omwe mumalandira mukalankhulana pazochitika zoyenera. Mwina chidziwitso chimenechi chidzamulimbikitsanso kuti ayese zovuta kuti moyo wanu wa tsiku ndi tsiku ukhale wosavuta. "
- Msendo
"atsikana ... akumva atsikana koma samagwira ntchito chifukwa cha makolo ake komanso makolo ake omwe sangathe kulemba langauge nane.
Kupatula ngati ine ndiri wapadera kwambiri kwa iwo, iwo angakhoze kuphunzira izo ASL? Nthawi ina ine ndi mayi wanga omwe tinamva ndikumakangana kwambiri chifukwa amalingalira kuti amadziwa zonse za anthu osamva ... kotero NDINAPEZA mayi wanga! ... Sindidzakwatirana ndi mayi wamvetsanso. "
- Msendo
"Kumva kuti mkazi wanga ali wogontha ... Iye amalembetsa ASL ... Choncho nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti timvetsetse wina ndi mzake chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa mphamvu zazisonyezo Nthawi zina, manja anga amadzaza ndipo sindingathe kumulemba Kuwerenga pamtima - Kapena njira ina yozungulira - sangathe kusindikiza kuti ndiyesetse kumvetsetsa zolankhula zake (zomwe sizingakhale zosavuta kuti ndiwonjeze) Koma timapanga ndikuyesera kuthetsa zolekanitsa zokhudzana ndi wina ndi mzake mwa chiyanjano. "
- Msendo
"Amagwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro zazing'ono ndipo amangozimbiranso pang'ono. Mawu ake ndi oipa ... Ndimalankhula bwino ndikuwerenga bwino, osati 100% .. Mwamuna wanga ndi ine sitimamvetsana pafupifupi tsiku ndi tsiku. .
Pamene ndimatopa ndikuwerenga m'magulu amve, ndikungoyenda kapena kukhala pansi ndikuwerenga mabuku ndi zina zotero. Ndimazindikiritsa anthu ogontha, sindimatopa zizindikiro ... ndimakhalabe m'magulu osamva. Ndikufuna kuti mwamuna wanga agwiritse ntchito zizindikiro nthawi zambiri .. Nthawi zina sachita ndichita ... Ndikhoza kumva ena kumvetsera kwanga ... Musamve mawu.
Mkokomo chabe ... "
- Msendo
"HOH." Ndimamva zovuta kumva mau ena a nyimbo komanso magulu a gulu, ndi wina aliyense pambuyo panga.
... zovuta pamene phwando lina likumva bwino kwambiri (langa lopepuka) ndipo wina samatero. Ndikufunikanso kukumbukira zokondweretsa kuti sangathe kunena zinthu kumbuyo kwanga, kuchoka kwa ine, kuitana kuchokera kuchipinda china kapena kukhala ndi tv kapena nyimbo mokweza. Ndimadzibwereza pokhapokha ngati kuli kotheka. Ndapatsanso banja lake kudziwa za zosowa zanga. Iwonso amachirikiza. Ndapeza kuti malinga ngati muli patsogolo kutsogolo kwa zosowa zomwe muli nazo, anthu ambiri amalola kuthandiza ... "
- Msendo
"Mzimayi yemwe akumva ... akucheza ndi munthu wosamva, ine ndikudziwa bwino chifukwa mlongo wanga anabadwa wosamva, ndipo ndinakula ndikulemba chikalata ngakhale kuti chibwenzi changa chimalankhula momveka bwino ndipo sindingamufunse. Kudalira pa izi ndi njira yokha yolankhulirana. Chifukwa chiyani kulemberana kwa chiyanjano kungakhale pa munthu mmodzi pa chibwenzi? Ngati ali womasuka komanso amatha kufotokoza yekha kudzera mu SL, ndiye kuti ayenera kuchita. kusayina kwanga sikungwiro, ine ndikufunitsitsa kwambiri kusintha maluso anga kuti ndikhale ndi chiyanjano chimene anthu awiri akufuna kuti akhale ndi ubale wabwino. "
- Msendo
"wokwatiwa ndi munthu womvetsera kwa zaka ziwiri.
Ndasudzulana mosangalala tsopano. Pali mikangano yambiri.
Ndinali wosungulumwa, ndinkakhala ndekha ndipo ndinkakhala kunja ndi mwamuna wamwamuna wamwamuna woyamba kumva. Ndinachita mantha kwambiri ndikundiuza kuti adzatenga gulu la ASL 1 ... adandiwuza kuti akupita ku sukulu ya ASL 1 ku koleji ya kumudzi, kotero ndinakondwera kwambiri mpaka nditadabwa ndikudabwa iye mu kalasi yoyamba ya ASL. Iye sanali m'kalasi ... adawuza aphunzitsi kuti ndikuyang'ana mwamuna wanga ... mphunzitsi anandiuza kuti amachotsa kalasi pasanafike tsiku loyamba la ASL 1. Ndinkakhumudwa kwambiri ndikukhumudwa kuti ananama ine.
Kotero ine sindinauze mwamuna wanga wakale kuti ine ndapeza kuti akuchotsa kalasi ya ASL 1 ... Ine ndimangosewera kumamufunsa iye nthawi iliyonse pamene abwera kunyumba kuchokera ku sukulu "kodi ASL 1 yayamba bwanji?" Anandiuza kuti "zinali zovuta koma ndikupitirizabe kuyesetsa." Sindinanene kanthu kanthawi mpaka anandipempha kuti ndimulipire pa njira yotsatira.
Ndinamuuza kuti ndilipira ndalamazo ndikupita kwa katswiri. Ndinamuuza kuti alembetse dzina lake kuti "ASL 2 Class" koma anali pepala losudzulana ... Makolo anga anakhumudwa kwambiri kuti ndili ndi mwamuna wosamva tsopano! "
- BD
"Ubale ndi munthu wogontha ... anayamba kuphunzira kusindikiza chaka tisanayambe kukumana ... Tidawonekera momveka bwino pachiyambi kuti ubale wathu ukhoza kukhala wovuta nthawi zina chifukwa cha kulankhulana, koma kuti tikwanitse kutero komanso kuleza mtima komanso kumvetsetsa Ndimatha kulankhula bwino pogwiritsa ntchito SL yekha koma sizingakhale zophweka ... kulankhula kwa chibwenzi kumawerenga bwino kwambiri, ndipo abwenzi athu ambiri akumva ndi achibale samasaina .... sitingaganizire ubale wathu popanda SL ...
Tikadakhalapo ndisanati ndizindikire chizindikiro, ndiye kuti ndinakana kuphunzira, izi zikanandichitira ulemu kwambiri ndipo sizikanakhala zabwino kwa iye. Kuyankhulana kuli kovuta mu ubale uliwonse, ndipo ubale uliwonse ukufuna khama kuchokera kwa anthu onse. Muyankhulane, "kuyanjana", kuyankhulana ndi vuto lalikulu kwambiri, ndipo ngati munthu womvetsera akukana kuyesetsa kuti aphunzire kusayina, ndiye akukakamiza wogontha naye kuti achite ntchito yonse ...
kumva ... zovuta kuphunzira kulankhulana, koma ndikuzindikiranso kuti zimakhumudwitsa komanso zimatopetsa munthu wogontha kuti afunsidwe kulankhula m'mawa ndi usiku. Ndizoyenera kuti inu nonse muyesere kukomana pakati ... Mwa lingaliro langa, ngati wokondedwa akumva kukana kuphunzira chizindikiro kwa ogontha naye, ndiye ali ndi vuto lomwe liri lalikulu kuposa zinenero zosiyanasiyana. "
- Msendo
"... kumva ... Ndapanga ndemanga zokhuza momwe zimakhalira kumvetsera pogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osakaniza ... anapita kukatenga pulojekiti yapamwamba ya CI yachitsanzo yomwe sanayambe kugwiritsanso ntchito ndipo adatulutsa zomwe zinkawoneka monga makutu amodzi omwe anandipatsa kwa ine ... ndinabwereranso ndi zomwe ndinamva kuchokera kumapulogalamu osiyanasiyana. Sindinamvetsepo chifukwa chake adadana nazo pamene ndimandiimbira mluzu mpaka nditakhala ndi mafoni a m'manja ndipo anandiuza kuti ndiimbire mluzu ndipo ndinaganiza kuti makutu anga adzaphulika ...
Sindikudziwa za anthu ogontha omwe amakhumudwa ndi chibwenzi, ndipo sindikudandaula nazo.
Ngati mumakonda kusonkhana, kapena kukonda munthu wina, ndiye kuti zonsezi siziyenera ...
Ndikumva, chikondi cha moyo wanga ndi wogontha, koma mitima yathu sitinganene kuti tikuchita zabwino kwambiri! "
- AVisitor
"..munthu wogontha ... ambiri angapangidwe momwe timachitira bwino ... Zinali zovuta poyamba. Ndinkakonda kulankhula ndi anyamata anga onse pa foni, panopo ndimakhala pa intaneti nthawi zambiri. .
Mwinamwake tikugwira ntchito bwino chifukwa ndikutha kulemba bwino. Ndinaphunzira kale kwambiri kuyambira azakhali anga ndi amalume ali osamva. Ndipo ndinaphunzira ku koleji yapafupi. Ndikamaliza sukulu ndikukonzekera kukhala wotanthauzira. Choncho, sikuti onse ogontha / akumva akumva akuwonongedwa ... "
- Msendo
"kudzikonda kwa munthu amene akumva, yemwe ali pachibwenzi kapena wokwatiwa ndi wogontha, kukana kuphunzira SL ... Kulumikizana ndi gawo la zonse zomwe timachita ...
... ubale ndi munthu womva ... ngakhale kuti ndilibe komanso sindikufuna kuti ASL iyankhule ... (Ndimaphunzira ASL ku koleji, osati chabe, osati chifukwa chachikulu) Ndimawerenga mobwerezabwereza komanso nthawi zambiri mawuwa akusokonezeka kapena sindikumva chinachake molondola. Nthawi zambiri amamva makutu anga owonjezera pazinthu zina ndi zina, mofanana ndi abwenzi anga komanso abwenzi anga akumvetsera akhala ali. Zimakhala zovuta nthawi zina komanso zoseketsa nthawi zina. "
- Msendo
"Ndikumva ndipo ndimakhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wogontha, kumapeto kwa ubale wathu ndikuzindikira kuti sadakhulupirire kuti ndimangomvetsera ... kulankhulana ndichinsinsi ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimaganiza kuti ndine yekhayo amene ndikuyesa muyanjano kulankhulana kwenikweni.
- Msendo
"kumva wina ... alibe 'kumvetsa chifukwa chake iwe ukakhala mu chiyanjano iwe sumafuna kuyanjana.
Sindingakhale ndi chibwenzi ndi wina yemwe adalankhula zinenero zina osati chilankhulo kapena SL chifukwa sindingathe kuyanjanitsa. Ine sindiri bwino bwino ASL mwa njira iliyonse koma nthawi yambiri ndimatha kugwirizanitsa popanda kulemberana chirichonse ... Sindingasinthe chibwenzi changa ndipo ine sindikufuna kumusintha. Poyamba tinayamba kuyambana pamene tinayamba chibwenzi chifukwa sindinamvetsetse chikhalidwe cha anthu ogontha ndipo anali ndi vuto ndi chikhalidwe cha kumva. Koma tagwira ntchito pazinthu ndipo nthawi zonse tiyenera kufotokozera zinthu wina ndi mzake. Koma tapanga dang ndithu kuti tichite zonsezi tisanalowe m'banja ... "
- Msendo