Maselo a Mimba Yopanda Mantha

Mchitidwe Wopseza ndi Mavuto

Kuti mutenge chisankho chabwino kwambiri pa mimba yanu yosakonzekera , muyenera kulandira zambiri zolondola, zosakondera komanso zamankhwala. Azimayi ambiri omwe ali ndi pakati amapita kumadera ovuta omwe ali ndi mimba , omwe amawoneka ngati zipatala, kuyesa kupeza uphungu ndi uphungu. Koma nthawi zambiri amasiya kudzimva ataperekedwa pambuyo pozindikira nzeru zapakati pazomwe amatsutsa.

Malo ambiri okhudzidwa ndi mimba akhala akudzudzulidwa chifukwa chosalongosola komanso kuopseza amayi apakati kuti akwaniritse zolinga zapakati kapena kupewa mkazi kutenga mimba .

Malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba amayamba kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mabungwe omwe cholinga chake ndi kulimbikitsa utumiki wawo komanso malingaliro a moyo. Ambiri mwa malo okhudzidwa ndi mimbawa amagwiritsa ntchito zikwangwani ndi zofalitsa ndi malemba monga:

• "Woyembekezera Kapena Wamasiye? Siwe Wokha"
• "Woyembekezera? Kuganizira Kuchotsa Mimba? Lingalirani Zosankha Zanu"
• "Mayi Oyembekezera Amayesetsanso Kusamalira Ndi Kutsekemera"
• "Kuganizira Kuchotsa Mimba Nkhani Zokhudza Mkazi Wosankha"
• Woyembekezera? Mukusowa Thandizo? Muli ndi Zosankha "
• Osakonzekera? Kukhumudwa? Chithandizo Chobisa "

Njira zamalondazi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mwachangu pofuna kukopa akazi "ochotsa mimba". Malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba ali ndi mayina ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito malonda omwe angapereke chisonyezo chakuti salowerera ndale, osalongosoka, opereka chithandizo chamankhwala.

Mwachitsanzo, iwo angakhale ndi mayina monga Crisis Pregnancy Center, Pregnancy Aid, Pregnancy Resource Center, Pregnancy Counseling Center, kapena Pregnancy Care Center. Malo awa angagwiritsenso ntchito maina omwe amamveka ofanana ndi mayina a zipatala zenizeni m'madera oyandikana nawo (mwachitsanzo, mimba yovuta pakati pa "pregnancy") ingakhale pafupi ndi "Planned Parenthood"), ndi kusankha malo omwe ali pafupi ndi malo oyenerera azaumoyo.

Izi zimapangitsa kuti amayi azivutika mosavuta kupita kuchipatala.

Malo ena okhudzidwa ndi mimba amachititsa kuti anthu azikhala omasuka komanso owona mtima pamene amapereka thandizo lolowerera ndale komanso amadziwa zambiri, ndipo ngakhale malo ambiriwa amakhala opitikitsa, ena amakhala apamwamba kwambiri pa mafilosofi ndi mautumiki awo kuposa ena. Mavuto okhudzana ndi mimba nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito pofuna kuteteza mkazi wapakati kuti abereke mimba. Kufufuzidwa kwakukulu, kafukufuku ndi umboni waumwini wa odwala akhala akuwonetsa nthawi zonse kuti malo ambiri ovuta omwe ali ndi vuto la mimba amasiya akazi kuti aziwanyenga ndi njira zawo zoopseza, kunyengerera, ndi filosofi yachipembedzo.

Zikuluzikulu Zotsutsana ndi Mimba Zopangira Mavuto:

Malo awa okhudzidwa ndi mimba apeza kuti amalengeza zabodza kuti amapereka mimba kapena uphungu - pamene, zakhala zikupezeka kuti cholinga chachikulu cha malowa ndi kufooketsa akazi kuti asamachite chofuna kuchotsa mimba. Malo ambiri okhudzidwa ndi mimba sangathe kukambirana za mimba kapena kuchotsa mimba. Ngakhale malowa sapereka chithandizo kapena thandizo lochotsa mimba, mabungwe omwe akuwayendetsa amavomereza kuti gawo la njira yawo yogulitsira ndikufikitsa mimba yambiri-amayi omwe ali pachiopsezo.

Amakwaniritsa izi mwa kulengeza kuti ali ma kachipatala azaumoyo a amayi, ndipo nthawi zambiri amalembedwa pa "Mimba za mautumiki" mu Yellow Pages. Kuonjezerapo, iwo akuyesera kuwonjezera ma intaneti awo popeza malo opangira malo opangira injini. Choncho, pamene mayi akufunafuna zowononga mimba, malonda okhudzidwa ndi mimba ndi malo amabwera.

Family Research Council (gulu lomwe lazaka khumi zapitazi lachita zofukufuku zosiyanasiyana ndi ndondomeko zapadera zomwe zathandiza kukhazikitsa, kulimbikitsa ndi kuteteza ntchito za malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba). njira zopezeka m'madera amenewa sizinali kufika kwa amayi ambiri "ochotsa mimba" monga momwe adafunira.

FRC inachititsa kafukufuku wapadziko lonse wa amayi a zaka zapakati pa 18-34. Pofufuza zotsatira, iwo adafufuza kuti ndiwotani mawu omwe abambo omwe amawakonda omwe akukumana nao ndi mimba yosakonzekera omwe amawagwiritsa ntchito pofufuza masamba a Yellow for help pregnancy. Kenaka mu lipoti, FRC inalimbikitsa kuti malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba azionetsetsa kuti alembe makanema awo m'magulu awa.

Kafukufukuyu adawonanso kuti mawu akuti "mavuto" amachititsa kuti anthu asamvetse bwino (makamaka pakati pa amayi apamwamba a chikhalidwe cha azimayi). FRC inalangiza kuti dzina la "Women's Resource Centre" (lomwe limapereka chitsimikizo kuti malowa amapereka chithandizo chamtundu wambiri) ndizofunika kwambiri kuti apeze amayi olemera komanso omwe ali pangozi yochotsa mimba. Lipoti lawo linaperekanso malangizo pazinthu zabwino zomwe malo ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito, malonda a malonda ndi chinenero, ndi malingaliro a malo. Malinga ndi FRC, lipotili linagawidwa kwambiri ku malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba ndipo amawafotokozera pamsonkhano wapachaka. Kuyambira apo, "malo mazana ambiri kudera lonse adasintha malonda awo ndikugulitsa ntchito chifukwa cha phunziro la FRC."

Chifukwa chachinyengo chimenechi, zingakhale zovuta kupanga chisankho choyendera mimba. Ngakhale kuti malo ena othandizira amathandiza kupeza zolondola komanso zosalowerera ndale, ena akhoza kuumirizidwa ndi kupempha amayi apakati kudzera mwachinyengo kapena maina osokoneza. Bungwe loyambitsa matenda, Planned Parenthood, New York Metropolitan Religious Coalition kuchotsa mimba, bungwe la National Women for Women, Texas Attorney General, American Civil Liberties Union, Khoti Lalikulu la North Dakota kuphatikizapo ndale ndi akatswiri osiyanasiyana akhala akulemba zonse malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba amakhala "achinyengo."

Machitidwe Oopsya Omwe Amagwiritsidwa Ntchito ndi Zochitika Zakale za Mimba:

Mkazi akakhala atasocheretsedwa kupita ku malo ovuta, amatha kukhala ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zoopseza, zamaganizo, zowonongeka, ndi zowopsya zomwe zapangitsidwa kuti zimuthandize kuti asatenge mimba. Zakhala zikudziwika kuti malo awa akhoza kuwopseza akazi polira, kugawana nkhani zawo, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zojambula zolakwika za fetal kapena mavidiyo kuti asonyeze chitukuko cha mwana. Mavuto okhudzana ndi mimba amayesayesa kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro a mkazi ndi malingaliro mwa kutchula mwana wakhanda ngati "mwana" ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito mawu monga, "kuyamikira, ndinu mayi." Azimayi amene apita ku malowa nthawi zambiri amawagawana nawo atakhala ndi sonogram, wogwira ntchitoyo amawapatsa zithunzi za ultrasound ndi mauthenga omwe amawalemba ngati, "Amayi," "Sindikuyembekezera Kukumana Nawe," ndi "Ndimakukondani . " Ogwira ntchito pa malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba adzatanthauzanso kuchotsa mimba monga kupha kapena kupha.

Zotsatirazi zikuphatikizapo zitsanzo za zochitika za anthu osiyanasiyana pamene ali pa chithandizo cha mimba. Chonde onani kuti zitsanzo izi ndizo zomwe munthu angayembekezere ndipo ali, kutali, osati :

• Malinga ndi lipoti la 2002 la Center for Reproductive Rights, mayi wina yemwe ali ndi matenda okhudzidwa ndi mimba anauzidwa kuti "adali ndi mdierekezi mkati mwake." Panthawiyi "anali ndi zithunzi zowonongeka za makanda osasamalidwa ndi fetus."
• Amy Sutnick, a Planned Parenthood ogwira ntchito anachezera malo ena a Manhattan Pregnancy Services omwe adalengeza kuti amapereka "chidziwitso choyenera cha mimba." Akazi a Sutnick adanena kuti pa malo atatu omwe ali ndi mimba, amayi amafunika kuyang'anitsitsa zithunzi, Kusamalira pamene akudikirira zotsatira za kuyesedwa kwa mimba. Chithunzi chojambula zithunzicho chinali ndi ziwerengero zambiri zabodza zokhudzana ndi kuchotsa mimba, zomwe zonse zatsutsidwa ndi Centers for Disease Control.
• Liz Nazario, wodzipereka pa malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba, adavomereza kuti pofuna kuyesa kugwedezeka kwa amayi omwe akufuna kuchotsa mimba, amayamba kusonyeza zithunzi zakuda ndi zoyera za zala zachangu zomwe zimangoyamba kumene; ndiye, atenga chithunzi chachikulu cha mtundu wa mwana wosabadwa ndi maso otseka ndi kumwetulira. Pomalizira pake, akuwonetsanso chithunzithunzi cha mtundu wazithunthu wa fetus wamagazi. Amapitiriza kunena kuti nthawi zina amakatenga mkazi wapakati kupita kukachisi wamng'ono kuti apemphere patsogolo pa guwa la miyala ya marble. Amauza Alan Cooperman, wa Washington Post , kuti nthawi zonse amauza amayiwa kuti ayang'ane kanema pa TV yowonekera kwambiri. "Ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito njira zobweretsera mimba, imafotokozera mimba yachiwiri ndi itatu ya mimba," akulongosola (kunena za njira zosavuta ndi zochotsa mimba). "Atsikana ena amafunika Kufuula Mwamthunzi . Silent Scream ndi yofewa ndipo ndimakonda kupita pang'onopang'ono." Nazario nayenso amagawana, "Nthawi zambiri pamene mtsikana abwera ndipo amati akufuna kuchotsa mimba, amangodzikonda yekha ... Sali kuganizira za mwanayo."
• Ku Arizona, bambo wina adabweretsa mwana wake wamwamuna wa zaka 16 kupita naye kumudzi komwe adakakamizidwa kugwiriridwa. Mnyamatayo adawonetsedwa "mafilimu achiwawa" kuphatikizapo zithunzi za fetus. Bamboyo akunena kuti, "Pakati pa amayi omwe ali ndi mimba, ali ndi nkhwangwa kuti agwe, ndipo amamuopseza."
• Nancy Weinstock, WOPEREKA tsopano, anapita ku Options Resources Center, amene malonjezano ake amalonjeza kuti "kudziwitsa ana." Anauzidwa kuti "njira yolerera siigwira ntchito chifukwa amayi Nature safuna kuti matupi athu azilamuliridwa." Anadziwitsiranso kuti mayeso ndi mimba za mimba ndi "zofanana" komanso zogwira ntchito bwino (zowonongeka).
• Courtney Barbour, wothandizira maofesi ku yunivesite ya North Carolina ku Chapel Hill, adatengera chitsanzo cha mkodzo ndi mimba ku birthchoice. Barbour anafotokoza kuti pamene akudikirira zotsatira zake, aphunguwo adamuwonetsa fetusi za pulasitiki pazigawo zosiyanasiyana za chitukuko ndikumuuza kuti mwana wake ali ndi chibwibwi mwamsanga (chimene sichiri cholondola). Wopereka uphunguyo anafunsanso mafunso okhudza zikhulupiriro zachipembedzo za Barbour, zomwe Barbour anayankha, "Chabwino, sindipita kutchalitchi, koma agogo anga anali a Methodist." Wopereka uphunguyo anayankha, "Chabwino ndikupaka kuti agogo ako akufuna kuti iwe ukhale ndi mwana uyu." Barbour ndiye akunena kuti mkaziyo (yemwe anayezetsa mimba) adabweranso m'chipindamo ndipo adamuwonetsa ndi pepala lofewa, lopangira manja ndipo anati, "Ndiyamika! Ndiwe mayi."
• Ku Minnesota, Center ya Women's Robbinsdale, malo okhudzana ndi mimba okhudzana ndi mimba ali pafupi ndi msewu wochokera ku chipatala cha Robbinsdale, chomwe chimapereka chithandizo chamankhwala chosiyanasiyana kuphatikizapo mimba. Amayi angapo amene amapita ku chipatala m'malo mwa kachipatala adadandaula kuti malo oponderezedwa ndi kuwasocheretsa. Mayi wina adalankhula ndi woweruza wamkulu wa ku Minnesota kuti, "Pofuna kupeza chipatala cha Robbinsdale, ndinaganiza molakwika kupita kuchipatala cha amayi kudutsa mumsewu. Pamene ndinawauza dzina langa ndi nthawi yanga, anandipatsa mpando ndinali ndi mlangizi wondiuza za zotsutsana ndi mimba.Panthawi yomweyi, ndinaphunzira kuti sindinakhale nawo pomwepo ndipo iwo adanena kuti sakudziwa chipatala cha Robbinsdale. "
• Mmodzi mwa azimayi omwe adafunsidwa kuti, "Kodi mwana wanga ndi mwana wanga wamkazi timaganiza kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuti tichite ndi chiyani?" kuchotsa mimba ndi ndalama zingati? " Akazi awiriwa anati, "chonde dikirani miniti" ndipo anasiya ife ... Anabwerera ndi chidole ndi mkasi nati, "izi ndi zomwe mwana wanu amawoneka tsopano ndipo tikufuna kuti muyambe kumudula chifukwa ndicho Zikanakhala ngati mutachotsa mimba - yambani kudula! "

Momwe Makhalidwe Ovuta Amayi Amakhalira Amasocheretsa Akazi:

Popeza cholinga cha malo ambiri okhudzidwa ndi mimba ndi kuletsa mkazi kuchotsa mimba, zapezeka kuti kuwonjezera pa kugwiritsa ntchito njira zoopsya, malowa amayesetsanso kuwonetsa akazi mwa kupereka mfundo zabodza.

Zikuwoneka kuti pali mitundu yambiri yowonongeka yowonjezera kuti malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba nthawi zambiri amauza amayi apakati:

• Sizodabwitsa kuti izi zimapereka chitsimikizo kwa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati, ngati njira yothetsera mimba, kuyembekezera kanthawi kochepa chifukwa pali kuthekera kwakukulu koti adzaperekedwa (choncho sichidzafuna kuchotsa mimba).
• Malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba amadziwidwanso chifukwa chosakhala oona mtima ponena za kulera . Azimayi nthawi zambiri amauzidwa kuti kuchepetsa kubereka sikokwanira popewera mimba komanso kuti makondomu omwe amachititsa kuti asamakhale ndi pakati komanso makondomu amachititsa khansa. Azimayi ena amauza ena kuti makondomu onse ali ndi mabowo ndipo samapereka chitetezo chilichonse. Mafilosofi achipembedzo a malo ambiriwa amachititsa kuti azipewa kudziletsa .
• Imodzi mwa nthano zazikulu kwambiri zomwe malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba amayesa kutsimikizira amayi apakati ndi kuti kuchotsa mimba sikokwanira. Kawirikawiri, amanyengerera zowononga zowononga mimba ndipo amanena molakwika kuti kuchotsa mimba kungayambitse matenda a kutupa kwa thupi, mimba yam'mbuyo yam'tsogolo, kutuluka mwazi kwambiri, kusabereka, kubereka mtsogolo, komanso imfa. Iwo samakambirana momwe amai amachitira maulendo 14 kuti afe pa nthawi yobereka kapena atatha kubadwa kusiyana ndi kufa kwa zovuta za mimba. Malo ena okhudzidwa ndi mimba amatha kufotokozera mosiyana - kuti kuthetsa mimba kumakhala koopsa kwambiri kuposa kunyamula mwana mpaka nthawi.
• Zina zabodza zomwe malowa amagwiritsira ntchito ngati njira zoopsya zolepheretsa mimba ndi zabodza zonena kuti kuchotsa mimba kumabweretsa kapena kumayambitsa kansa ya m'mawere. Ofufuza apeza kuti malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba amatha kuuza akazi kuti ndizochitika zenizeni zowonjezera kuti kuchotsa mimba kumayambitsa khansa ya m'mawere. Wodzipereka pa imodzi mwa malo amenewa ku North Carolina kwenikweni akulongosola maphunziro osakhalapo ku Australia kumene "mayi aliyense wa zaka 18 yemwe wasankha kuchotsa mimba amapezeka ndi khansa ya m'mawere." Akazi angathenso kuuzidwa kuti ngati ali ndi mbiri ya banja la khansa ya m'mawere, amatha kutenga khansa ndi kufa ngati atachotsa mimba.
• Malo ambiri okhudzidwa ndi mimba ayesetsanso kutsimikizira amayi kuti kuchotsa mimba kumabweretsa mavuto a maganizo . Pakhala pali mauthenga ambirimbiri a amayi omwe adalosera molakwika kuti kuchotsa mimba kumabweretsa chirichonse kuchokera ku "kuchotsa mimba pambuyo pake" kapena "kuchotsa mimba pambuyo pake" mpaka kuvutika maganizo, kudzipha, kugonana ndi kugonana, kusokonezeka maganizo, kugwiritsa ntchito mowa mwauchidakwa, komanso kuwonjezera mwayi woti mkaziyo azizunza ana ake amtsogolo.
• Potsiriza, malowa amadalira manyazi ngati njira yowopsya yoopseza ndi kuvulaza amayi apakati. Ambiri odzipereka monga malo awa amagwiritsa ntchito mfundo zochokera m'Baibulo pofuna kulimbikitsa amayi kuti asagonana mpaka atakwatirana. Adzayesera kulalikira zachipembedzo kuti akakamize akazi ovutika kapena osatsimikizika kuti apitirizebe kutenga mimba ndipo asafune kuchotsa mimba.

_{Zotsatira:
(Kugwiritsidwa ntchito m'nkhani ino komanso magwero ambiri omwe amatsimikizira zoona zokhudza mimba.)}

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_{Milandu ya Malamulo. (2007). "Kudziletsa kwapakati pa fodya-kungopereka ndalama zokhazokha zokhuza mimba." Inapezeka 6/7/13.}

_{NARAL: Pro-Choice America. (2007). "Chowonadi chokhudza malo okhudzidwa ndi mimba." Inapezeka 6/7/13.}

_{NARAL: Pro-Choice North Carolina. (2013). "Choonadi chinavumbulutsidwa: Malo oleredwa ndi mimba ku North Carolina." Inapezeka 6/7/13.}