Ndinkafuna kufotokoza nkhani yotsutsana ndi mmodzi mwa owerenga anga za nthano zowononga. Olivia analemba kuti:
Ndikusangalala kwambiri kuwerenga za Pulogalamu yamakono. Ndikuyembekezera kulandira izi ...... Ndikuyenera kukuwuzani zamatsenga zokhudzana ndi mimba yanga ya mwana wanga mu Julayi, 2011. Ndinayesera kwambiri kutenga mimba. Zinanditengera nthawi yaitali ndikuganiza kuti sindinali ndi mphamvu. Ife tinayesa ndi kuyesera, koma palibe chimene chinali kuchitika.
Ndiye madzulo ano mu July ... usiku umene ndinakhala ndi pakati, ndinachita zinthu zosiyana kwambiri ndikugonana kuposa momwe ndinkachitira. Usiku umenewo, mmalo modzuka ndikupanga chikondi ndikupita kuchimbudzi ndikuyeretsa ndi kuyala, usiku umenewo ndinagona pabedi, ndikugudubuza ndikupita kukagona.
Patangopita mwezi umodzi, ndinapeza kuti ndili ndi pakati ndipo ndikukhulupiriradi kuti ndimatenga mimba chifukwa sindinatuluke pabedi kupita kuchimbudzi. Ine sindinayime, chotero umuna unatha kufika ku dzira moyenera. Kodi izo sizikumveka ngati nthano kwa inu ..., koma kwa ine .... Izo zinagwira !!
Ndinkafuna kuti ndikhale ndi mphindi pang'ono ndikufotokozera zomwe Olivia ananena komanso nthano zonena kuti kugonana kwanu kungakulepheretseni kutenga mimba. Malingaliro pamene akuyesera kutenga mimba ndi kuti mkazi azigona pansi kwa mphindi makumi atatu, atagonana, ndi pillow pansi pake kuti akweze mapepala.
Izi zimathandiza kuti mphamvu yokoka iwathandize "kukoka" umuna ku dzira. Olivia sanalekerere kugonana, izi zinathandiza kuti umuna ufike mosavuta ndikufika msanga. Mukaimirira pambuyo pa kugonana, mphamvu yokoka ikhoza kuthandizira umuna kuchoka ku dzira. Izi zikunenedwa, kukhala wokhazikika sikokwanira kupeĊµa kutenga mimba.
Nkhumba ndizovuta kusambira ndipo zimatha kugwira ntchito motsutsana ndi mphamvu yokoka. Iwo amakhalanso mofulumira, kotero pa nthawi imene mkazi adzauka atakhala ndi kugonana kosakwanira, mamiliyoni a umuna adzakhala atayamba kale kupita patsogolo pakufunafuna dzira.
Makhalidwe abwino kwa Olivia: Kukhala pamalo osakwanira pambuyo pa kugonana kungathandizire kuti akhale ndi pakati, komatu izi sizikutanthauza kuti kukhala pamalo oongoka kudzateteza mimba. Mayi akhoza kutenga mimba mosasamala kanthu za kugonana ndi "malo osambira" omwe amatha msanga.
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