Kodi mwana wanu autistic adzakula kuti azikhala ndi moyo wamba?
Funso limeneli limapweteka makolo, komabe lingakhalenso mantra kwa agogo, abwenzi, ndi achibale ambiri. "Kodi iye adzasiya liti kuchita zimenezi?" "Kodi adzatha kukhala yekhayekha?"
Choipa kwambiri, mafunsowa ndi osalephereka chifukwa amadziwidwa kuti azisintha , kusintha kwa kusintha, zopempha ku boma ndi mabungwe a federal, ndi zokambirana ndi alangizi othandizira ndi ndondomeko zachuma.
Chokhumudwitsa, mafunso okhudzana ndi ubwino wa mwana wa autistic mwanayo amayamba nthawi yayitali asanayambe kukonzekera kwenikweni. Ndipo, ndithudi, iwo sagwiritsidwa ntchito kawirikawiri kuti akule bwino ana . Ana ochiritsira, chifukwa chomwe sagwirizana kwambiri ndi zenizeni, amanenedwa kuti akupita kumbali yodziimira, yodalirika, komanso wamkulu.
Ndani akufunsa kholo la mwana wazaka 10 "kodi adzakwatirana kapena adzagwira ntchito?" Ndani akufunsa kholo la mwana yemwe ali ndi zaka 14 kuti apereke mwana wawo kupyolera muzochita zowonjezereka za "moyo wodalirika" kuti athe kudziwa kuti achinyamata awo angathe kuchita zovala, kuphika chakudya, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama? Kodi sukulu zapamwamba ndi makolo awo zikuyembekeza kuti apange ndondomeko yayitali ya maphunziro, maphunziro, ntchito, ndi moyo wokhazikika? Yankho la mafunso amenewa ndiloti, kawirikawiri kapena ayi.
Kotero, atapatsidwa kuti MUDZAKHALA KUfunsa mafunso awa (ndi kuti mudzifunse nokha, ngakhale simunayankhule mokweza), mumayankha bwanji?
Nazi malingaliro atatu.
"Mukutanthauza chiyani mwachibadwa?" Chodabwitsa, lero ndi zaka, anthu ambiri akuganizabe za "wamkulu" wamkulu monga ntchito yanthawi zonse ndi penshoni, ukwati wamwamuna ndi mkazi, ana 2.5, ndi nyumba yosungirako ndalama m'midzi.
Ndi anthu angati amene amakhala motere? Osati ambiri!
Achinyamata achikulire, ngakhale ndi maphunziro apamwamba a koleji, akubwera kunyumba kwa amayi ndi abambo - ndi kumamatira kwa zaka zambiri. Akulu achikulire akulowa ndi ana awo. Ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha tsopano ndi lamulo la dzikolo. Ambiri amakhala pamodzi popanda ukwati. Ntchito sizitsimikiziridwa, ndipo pensions ili pafupi kutha. Ntchito zenizeni, ntchito zazing'ono, ntchito zogwirizanitsa ntchito, ndi ntchito za commission ndizofala kwambiri.
Kotero ... ndi mtundu wanji wa "wabwino" umene ungakhale wabwino kwa mwana wanu autistic?
"Mukutanthauza chiyani mutakula?" M'miyambo yachiyuda, mwana amaonedwa kuti ndi wamkulu ali ndi zaka 13. Ambiri amakhala ndi mwayi wopita kwa anyamata ali ndi zaka 16. Anyamata amatha kulowa usilikali ali ndi zaka 18. Kumwa ndi kovomerezeka pa 21. A IDEA amapereka chithandizo kwa achinyamata omwe ali ndi autism mpaka tsiku lawo lakubadwa 22. Ngakhale achinyamata ambiri a ku America, ngakhale omwe alibe mavuto ena, amadalira makolo awo kuti azikhala ndi ndalama, nyumba, komanso chikhalidwe chawo cha m'ma 20.
Anthu omwe ali ndi autism ali, mwakutanthawuza, kukula mochedwa . Nthaŵi zambiri, iwo "sadzagwira." Nthawi zina, nthawi imakhala yosiyana kwambiri ndi luso logwira ntchito.
Kodi munthu wamkulu ali ndi "autism" ali ndi zaka 21 kapena 22? Kapena kodi kuyembekezera kwa akuluakulu achikulire kungasokonezedwe (monga momwe zimakhalira kwa anthu ambiri achikulire) mpaka tsiku lotsatira?
"Mukutanthawuza chiyani podziimira?" Pali chikhulupiliro chofala kuti anthu akuluakulu ayenera kusamalira zonse za miyoyo yawo okha, popanda kuthandizidwa. Izi zikutanthauza kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse, kupanga ndi kusunga moyo wathanzi ndi zosangalatsa, kubwereka kapena kugula ndi kusamalira ndi kuyeretsa nyumba, kugula, kuphika, kulipira ngongole ndi misonkho, kuthana ndi mavuto azaumoyo ndi inshuwalansi ya mitundu yonse ... mndandanda ukupitirira ndi kupitirira.
Inde, anthu ochepa okha amatha kugwiritsa ntchito " luso lokhalitsa paokha " paokha. Anthu okwatira amakhala nawo mtolo. Anthu omwe ali ndi ndalama amapanga ena kuti apange gawo la ntchitoyi.
Anthu osakwatira amafunsa abwenzi ndi abambo kuti awathandize. Ambiri ambiri akulepheretsa anthu kulephera kulemba mndandandanda waukulu wa ma-dossi - ndipo, motero, amalephera kubweza ngongole, kukhala pakhomo, kapena kusasamalira zosowa zawo zaumoyo.
Kodi timayembekezera (kapena ngakhale WANT) akuluakulu ali ndi autism kukhala odziimira okha? Kapena kodi tiyenera kuganiza kuti, monga aliyense, amafunikira malangizo ndi chithandizo?