Kodi tikudziwa chiyani za autism ndi zauzimu? Bukhu la Bill Stillman, Autism ndi God Connection, makamaka ndi zolemba za makolo omwe amawona kuti ana awo ali ndi autism ali ndi mgwirizano wapadera ndi dziko lauzimu. Bukhuli analandira ndemanga zabwino kwambiri - komanso chidwi chachikulu cha makolo. Bill adagwirizana kuti ayankhe mafunso angapo, ena omwe amafunsa ine ndi ena omwe amamutumiza mwachindunji ndi owerenga.
Monga mmodzi wa gulu la autism mwiniwake (amapezeka ndi Asperger Syndrome), Bill amabweretsa zovuta zachilendo kukambirana.
Funso: Kodi mumaganiza bwanji ngati chochitikacho ndi chovomerezeka, chinyengo, kapena zotsatira za vuto lachipatala kapena vuto lina la thanzi?
Yankho: Pozindikira choonadi cha zomwe zikufotokozedwa, ndimagwiritsa ntchito njira zingapo. Choyamba, kodi pali chowonadi chenicheni kwa zomwe wina akunena? Mwa kuyankhula kwina, sikusamba ndi ine kuti munthu wina akunena kuti angapange chovala cha shuga ndipo amalemekeza zochitika za autistic monga "Angelo aang'ono a Mulungu" chifukwa siwo moyo weniweniwo; ndipo ndikuganiza kuti zingakhale zovuta kwambiri moyo wa munthu payekha komanso makolo ake, osamalira, komanso aphunzitsi. Izi sizikutanthawuza kuti mphatso za uzimu sizingathe kuwonetsa, koma zikachitika ziri pakati pa mayesero ndi zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku za kuphunzirana komanso kukhala ndi moyo.
Ndipo, chachiwiri, kodi zomwe wina akunena kuti ndi "zoyenera" m'zinthu zomwe zakhala zikuchitika m'ntchito yanga, kapena zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kufufuza kwa olemba ena auzimu?
Popeza ndili ndi matenda a matenda a maganizo kwa zaka pafupifupi makumi awiri, ndikudziwa mokwanira za mkati mwa matenda a maganizo kuti ndiziwona "mbendera zofiira" kapena zizindikiro zogonjera zomwe wina akundiuza; kumene kufufuza kwanga kukukhudza, izi zakhala zikuchitika kawirikawiri, nthawi zingapo.
Kawirikawiri, anthu amangodzimva kuti sakhala openga, osati okhawo, ndipo amapeza munthu yemwe akumvetsa.
Funso: Kodi pali kafukufuku amene amachirikiza lingaliro lakuti anthu opanda luso lamalankhulidwe angakhale ofanana kwambiri ndi mitundu ina yowonjezera?
Yankho: Kafukufuku wanga ndekha, koma, kwa ine, zimakhala zomveka. Mfundo yonseyi ya "kugwirizana kwa Mulungu" idakalipo, yatsopano, ndipo, monga owerenga anu akudziwira bwino, anthu omwe ali ndi zilema zachitukuko kuphatikizapo autism, akhala akulekerera, akuyendetsedwa, amanyansidwa, ndikuzunzidwa. Monga chikhalidwe chakumadzulo, ife sitiri "apo" komabe mwa kulingalira kwathu kuti anthu oterowo ali ofunika mu "kukhala" kwawo, ndipo akhoza kukhala ndi chidziwitso chozama, nzeru, ndi mphatso; ngakhale chikhalidwe cha Amwenye Achimereka chimagwirizana ndi lingaliro ili.
Kwa ine, pokhala chete, monga chiwerengero cha zochitika, siziri zosiyana kusiyana ndi munthu wokhala ndi chipembedzo cholimba amene amalonjeza mwakachetechete-chifukwa chiani? Choncho pali anthu awiri omwe amaganizira, kupemphera, kuchita ma yoga, kufunafuna malo omwewo a uzimu omwe amatha kupeza mwachibadwa mwa kukhala chete, akuyang'ana kutsogolo kapena kubwereza mawu (mantra) , ndi kuzindikira zinthu zonse zowoneka ndi zosawoneka.
Ndipo pali kufufuza kwasayansi kuti zithandizire izi, monga ine ndikulemba mu Autism ndi Mulungu Connection.
Kuonjezera apo, tikudziwa kuti zidziwitso zokhudzana ndi magetsi zimatha kukhala zovuta komanso zopweteka kwambiri; koma izi zingathenso kugwiritsira ntchito luso lalikulu la kuzindikira momwe munthu wakhungu alili ndi mphamvu zowonongeka, zowononga. Mphatso za uzimu zimagwirizana ndi momwe timapezera chidziwitso pa msinkhu wochulukirapo, wothamanga wofanana ndi malingaliro athu; Sizinthu zonse zomwe zatchulidwa ndizolemba ndi zomveka. Kulumikizana kophiphiritsira kawirikawiri kumafuna kutanthauzira zina, monga munthu wa autistic yemwe ankasewera ndi galimoto yamatchi yakuda; ena amaganiza kuti anali chifukwa cha ziwonetsero-kuti anali autistic, ochedwa, ndi osalankhula.
Koma polemba malemba olemba mauthengawo, ndikuganiza kuti munthuyo ndi wanzeru, ndinapeza kuti anali pafupi kwambiri ndi bambo ake omwe anamwalira ndipo anakhala nthawi yosangalala ndi bambo ake m'galimoto-galimoto yofanana ndi chidolecho. Pamene mwamunayo analibe zikumbutso zina zooneka za bambo ake (monga zithunzi kapena mementoes), chodziwika kuti galimoto ya toyimayi inali chothandizira kuwonetsa mafilimu owonetsa za masiku osangalatsa.
Funso: Kodi mukuganiza kuti pali "malingaliro" othandiza, kaya a mankhwala kapena kumvetsetsa bwino, zomwe zingabwere kuchokera kufukufuku wanu?Yankho: Mwamtheradi, ndipo choyamba ndilo lingaliro lakuti: "kulingalira nzeru." Ndakhala ndi bwenzi la anthu ambiri autistic kwa zaka zambiri omwe, kunja, amalephera kwambiri chifukwa sakulankhula, ali ndi miyendo yosakhulupirika, ndipo amalembedwa "Komabe, kachiwiri, pali zinthu ziwiri zomwe zimakhala zofanana ndi zomwe zimachitika ndi anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a ubongo, ALS kapena matenda a Lou Gehrig, Parkinson, Tourette's, Hodgkin, ndi kotero choncho.
Anzanga ena amagwiritsa ntchito njira zowankhulirana kuti azilankhulana, ndipo amasonyeza kuti ali ndi nzeru zedi ndi masomphenya kuposa momwe angaganizire kuti ndizochitika chifukwa cha kuvutika (kukhalapo komwe ena ayanjanitsa). Vuto lathu monga makolo, chisamaliro, ndi aphunzitsi ndikutanthauzira mabodza ndi zolakwika kuti athetse malingaliro kumvetsetsa. Tili ndi zambiri zoti tiphunzire kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake.
Gawo lachiwiri, limene limamangirira kuchokera ku maziko apamwamba "kulingalira nzeru", ndizitsulo zitatu (kapena "zozizwitsa monga ine ndikuwatchulira ku Autism ndi Mulungu Connection) kuti zithetse zomwe zingayambitse kusintha kwa kusintha. Masitepe atatuwa amachititsa mawu kuti azilemekezeka ndi kulemekeza, ndipo atikakamiza ife kukhala mawonekedwe a kusinthika mmagwirizano athu ndi autistic wina komanso ena omwe ali pafupi naye.
Funso: Kodi mukuganiza kuti zina mwa chidwi mu bukhu lanu ndi malingaliro anu zingachoke kufunikira kwa makolo kupeza maluso apadera kwa mwana yemwe akuwoneka kuti ali ndi maluso apadera apadera?
Yankho: Tiyeni tizindikire kuti makolo a anthu omwe ali ndi autism akhoza kukhala ndi moyo wovuta kwambiri. Palibe amene wandiuza ine wapempha china chirichonse kupatula mwayi woti amve, kotero palibe phindu laumwini. Ndipo sindikufufuza chilichonse chimene sichidziwika bwino kwa mabanja osawerengeka; Ine ndikungowunikira izo, ndikubweretsa mbali ya autism yomwe poyamba inali "yotsekedwa." Kotero ine sindinayambe "kutengera" zonsezi "autism ndi kugwirizana kwa Mulungu", anali kale kale, akuwonekera mosalankhula koma ndithudi.
Ana onse ndi amtengo wapatali ndipo, monga anthu, tonsefe timadalitsidwa ndi mphatso ndi matalente mosasamala kuti ndife ndani.
Funso: Kodi pali chilichonse mufukufuku womwe mwachita chomwe chikusonyeza kuti anthu autistic amakhala ndi zochitika zauzimu kapena zapakati kuposa anthu ena?Yankho: Ndimakhulupirira kuti tonsefe tili ndi mphamvu zogwira mphatso zathu za uzimu zomwe anthu onse adalitsika; ndipo chinthu chokongola chokhala munthu ndi chomwe chidzawoneka mosiyana mwa munthu aliyense, chifukwa ndife tonse apadera.
Vuto ndi anthu ambiri omwe amadziletsa kwambiri "atsekedwa" pozindikira mbali iyi ya iwo eni chifukwa amadzizidwa m'masautso a moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku; kapena, moipa, iwo amadzikonda okha, adyera, amphamvu-njala, komanso okhutira ndi zokondweretsa zawo zokha. Anthu omwe amathera nthawi yokhala akukhalanso akusunga ndi kubwezeretsa chilengedwe; kusonyeza kuyamikira; kupemphera kapena kusinkhasinkha; ndikuchita zinthu zosadzikonda, zopanda kudzikonda ndipo tsiku ndi tsiku ziri, mwa kulingalira kwanga, zogwirizana kwambiri ndi kuzindikira kwawo zauzimu-ndipo lingaliro limeneli limathandizidwa ndi olemba ena auzimu ndi azamulungu.
Ndikukhulupiliranso kuti anthu omwe amabadwira ku moyo wovuta kwambiri, monga omwe ali ndi autism, akukonzedweratu kuchita zimenezi, ndipo samangoyendetsedwa m'dziko lino kuti adzisunge okha popanda chitetezo kapena malipiro. Ndili ndi makolo ambirimbiri omwe amandiuza kuti ndiwonetsere kuti ndi anthu abwino kuposa momwe analili kale-kuti ali ndi uzimu kumene sanali kale-chifukwa cholera mwana ndi autism.
Makolo ena ambiri adanena kuti ana awo anawauza kuti asankhidwa asanabadwe.
Mnzanga Michael akuwerengera bwino kwambiri Autism ndi Mulungu Connection pamene akukamba kukhala "moyo wonse mu thupi losweka" zomwe akutsutsana ndizosiyana ndi zomwe ziri; malipiro omwe amapeza ndi kulunjika kwa Mulungu ndi mayankho ake pomwepo pa mafunso ake osakayika kuti amvetsetse dziko lachisokonezo ndi malo ake.
Michael akunena kuti, kawirikawiri, kwa iwo "miyoyo yowumitsidwa m'thupi lonse" mayankhidwe oterewa amadziwika kwa ena kokha kamodzi kamene amatha.
Funso: Kodi mwabwera bwanji kuti mufotokoze "autism ndi Mulungu?"
Yankho: Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi chidwi ndi zochitika ndi zochitika zomwe zinkasokoneza malingaliro kapena nzeru za sayansi-Nthawi zonse ndinkadabwa ndi lingaliro lakuti anthu alibe mayankho onse. Ndipo ndinkakhala ndi mwayi wokhwima m'banja lomwe zinthu zinkakambidwa momasuka ndikudabwa, osatayika ngati zosatheka.
Ndinayamba kuzindikira "kugwirizana kwa Mulungu" mu ntchito yanga monga wothandizira autism zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi kapena zisanu ndi ziwiri zapitazo. Pa nthawiyi, ndimagwira ntchito m'mabwalo angapo m'mapiri a ku Pennsylvania akulangizira magulu angapo osiyanasiyana omwe sakudziwika. Komabe, ndinayamba kusamala-ndikuphunzira za-njira yolimba ya uzimu yokhala ndi anthu omwe ali ndi autism omwe ndinkakambirana nawo. Mitu yambiri inayamba kutuluka monga kudziwitsidwa (kudziwa zomwe zikanati zidzachitike zisanachitike), telepathy (kusinthana, kapena kulowetsa, malingaliro ndi mafano ndi wina), kulankhulana kwa zinyama (kumvetsera mwachidwi ndi kutanthauzira "animalpeak" kuchokera kumudzi kapena zinyama), mgwirizano ndi wokondedwa mu Mzimu, kawirikawiri agogo aakazi (kutsindika kwambiri pa chithunzi cha wakufayo ndi wachikondi, chidziwitso chomwe sichidziwika ponena za miyoyo yawo), maonekedwe a mizimu yopulupudza ("mizimu"), ndi mgonero ndi oopsa , mabungwe a ethereal, otchulidwa ngati angelo ndi ena.
Ndinazindikira kuti, chifukwa chazochitika, zochitika izi zinali zachilendo, osati zachilendo.
Pamene ndinaphunzira zambiri za madera awa, ndinaganiza, "Wokondedwa wanga, ngati ndikuwona izi zikuchitika m'matauni angapo a kumidzi ya Pennsylvania, chikuchitika nchiyani ?!" Choncho ndikuonetsetsa "Omvera" mwa njira zowatumizira pa intaneti ndi mabungwe a uthenga, ndipo anasangalala kwambiri kuti zokhumba zanga zatsimikiziridwa ndi ambiri ndi makolo ambiri ndi akatswiri omwe anayamba kundiwuza za zochitika zawo. Anthu ambirimbiri omwe analipo-omwe anali asanakumanepo-onse akundiuza kusiyana kwamasewero omwewo.
Nkhaniyi inapanga maziko a kufufuza kwanga polemba Autism ndi Mulungu Connection, koma ndikutha kukuuzani kuti ndi chabe nsonga yaikulu ya ayezi.
Chifukwa cha zonse zomwe ndimaphunzira, ndinalinso ndikuyenera kusintha ndondomeko yauzimu ndekha. Chinthu changa choyambirira, kugwira ntchito kwa bukhuli chinali Autism ndi Clairvoyant Connection, koma posakhalitsa ndinazindikira kuti kunali kulemekeza kwambiri kuposa izo; kuti mabanja achikondi omwe ndinakumana nawo kawirikawiri anali ndi maganizo auzimu auzimu, ndipo ndinadziwa kuti sipadzakhalanso udindo wina koma Autism ndi Mulungu Connection.
Funso: Kodi mumalimbikitsa anthu "kuchita" ndi chidziwitso ichi mutatsimikizira izi?Yankho : Choyamba, kumvetsetsa kuti izi sizikugwira ntchito kwa anthu onse omwe ali ndi autism panopa kuposa momwe amachitira kwa anthu onse odwala matendawa. Chachiwiri, tiyeni tizindikire kuti ndi zenizeni kwa anthu ambiri, komanso kuti pali gulu la anthu omwe akugawana zomwe zikuchitikirani-simuli nokha.
Chachitatu, lolani kuti likutsimikizire cholinga chanu-kaya ndinu autistic, kholo, kapena akatswiri-monga wogwirizanitsa mu chiyanjano, kukulitsa chidziwitso cha ena kuti asonyeze ulemu, kulemekeza, ndi kulemekeza ena popanda malire monga tsankho ndi okhwima, ulamuliro wodalirika. Ndipo potsirizira pake, zithandizani munthuyo kuzindikira kuti moyo wake ulibe cholinga; kuti iye amamukonda, ndi kuti mphatso yake imachokera mu Mphamvu Yapamwamba-osati chinachake chowopa; ndi kuti tonse tiri ndi ntchito yogwiritsira ntchito mphatso ndi maluso athu kuti tikhale ndi ntchito zabwino komanso zabwino kwa ena.
Funso: Kodi mapulojekiti anu akubwera, ndipo anthu angakuuzeni bwanji za iwo?
Yankho: Ndikulimbikitsa mgwirizano wa autism wothandizira, pano ku Pennsylvania. Takhazikitsidwa kale kuyambira March 2006 pamodzi ndi oimira pamadera omwe ali m'dera; tsopano tidzakhala tikuthandizana kuti tipereke maphunziro othandizira a autism kwa ogwira ntchito zamaganizo omwe akuthandiza ana ndi achinyamata omwe ali ndi autism.
Icho chingathe kufotokozedwa mu dziko lonse. Tikukonzekanso msonkhano woyamba wa autism womwe umaperekedwa kokha ndi-kapena ophatikizidwa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi autism pofuna kuyesa ena kuchokera "mkati-kunja."
Zolemba zozikidwa pa Autism ndi Mulungu Connection zikukula komanso.
Ndinalumikizidwa miyezi ingapo bukuli lisanatulutsidwe ndi mnyamata wojambula mafilimu, Teo Zagar, yemwe anajambula filimu yabwino yotchedwa Mind Games, nkhani yokhudza chikondi ponena za dokotala yemwe anali ndi matenda othetsa nzeru komanso othetsera matenda omwe anadzifunira yekha kukhala ndi moyo kwautali kuposa iye cholinga. Izi zidzatenga zaka zingapo za kukonzekera, kukonzekera, ndi kupanga malo.
Ndipo ndikulemba buku lotsatira kwa Autism ndi Mulungu Connection yomwe imasonyeza zambiri za nsonga ya iceberg; Ndikukonzekera kubwereranso maganizowa m'buku loyambirira, koma phunzirani mozama. Mwachitsanzo, ngati zipangizo zina zingathe kuyankhulana ndi zinyama, zinyama zimanena zenizeni ndi momwe zingatikhudzire ife tonse.
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