Anthu ambiri okhala ndi autism ali ndi makhalidwe ndi zizindikiro zomwe, ngati sizili zofananamo, zimakhala zofanana ndi ballpark. Anthu ambiri okhala ndi autism ali ndi zofuna zapadera ndipo amakonda kupirira pa zofuna zawo. Ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito kayendedwe kake kamene kamakhala pakati ndikukhala chete. Ambiri amakhala ndi nkhawa yambiri komanso / kapena mavuto, ndipo ambiri amakhala ndi mavuto ena omwe amalankhula momasuka kapena osalankhula .
Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu okhala ndi autism akhoza kukhala mabwenzi abwino kwambiri? Ndipo, ngati yankho la funso loyambalo ndi "inde," kodi anthu okhala ndi autism ayenera kulimbikitsidwa kuti azikhala limodzi?
Ngakhale kuti pali mfundo zina zomwe zimayambitsa funsoli, zimakhala ngati "Anthu omwe ali ndi migraine amakonda malo amdima, amtendere, amatenga mankhwala enieni, ndikudandaula chifukwa cha ululu m'mutu mwawo. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi migraine ayenera kukhala pamodzi?"
Zimadalira Munthuyo
Mofanana ndi migraineurs (ndi magulu ena onse omwe ali ndi vuto lalikulu), anthu omwe ali ndi autism amakhala ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimagwirizanitsa. Nthawi zina. Pa nkhani zina. Koma monga anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lina lililonse, anthu okhala ndi autism ndi osiyana kwambiri. Nthawi zina, kuthera nthawi pamodzi kungakhale koopsa; nthawi zina, zingakhale zoopsa kwambiri.
Mwachitsanzo: taganizirani munthu amene ali ndi autism yemwe ali ndi chidwi chapadera ndi Minecraft.
Inde, palinso anthu ena omwe ali ndi autism omwe amakondwera kwambiri ndi Minecraft, ndipo mosakaika iwo angapeze zambiri zoti agwirizane nazo. Koma mubweretse munthu ameneyu ndi munthu wina yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi mafilimu a Disney, ndipo mumadziwonetsa nokha. Sikuti anthuwa ali ndi zofuna zosiyana, koma, chifukwa ali autistic, zimawavuta kuti adziŵe zomwe munthu wina akumuganizira, kupeza zofanana, ndikuyankhula mwachidule.
Pa zabwino, anthu awiriwo amanyalanyazana; pazovuta kwambiri kuti aziyendetsa misala.
Kapena lingaliro la "autism classroom" lomwe limaphatikizapo ana omwe ali achankhulidwe ndi mawu okhawo; wapatsidwa mphatso ndi nzeru; wofatsa komanso wamwano. Inde, onse ali ndi vuto la autism spectrum, onse amalankhula, onse amatha kuyankha kuyankhula. Iwo onse akhoza kuwerenga ndi kuchita masamu, osachepera pa msinkhu. Kodi onse angakhale mabwenzi pokhapokha atapezeka kuti ali ndi vutolo? Mwayi ndizochepa mpaka palibe. Monga magulu ena onse a ana, iwo adzalumikizana ndi anzanu akusukulu ndikupeza ena akusokonezeka.
Komabe, achinyamata ena omwe amadzidziwa bwino komanso achikulire omwe ali ndi autism amawona kuti n'kothandiza kusonkhana pamodzi ndi ena pamasewero, kaya ndiwothandizira maganizo kapena kupeza zofunikira. Kuonjezera apo, anthu ochepa pamaguluwa amagwira ntchito pamodzi kuti athetsepo pazokambirana kuchokera ku zandale zowonjezera kulenga ntchito mpaka kukhazikitsa ndondomeko. Mabungwe monga Autistic Self Advocacy Network amapangidwa ndi anthu onse pazitsulo.
Pansi
Makolo ayenera kuwona mwana wawo monga munthu, osati monga nthumwi ya gulu "autism".
Kodi pali ena omwe angakhale nawo ana awo pakati pa anzawo? Ngati ndi choncho, choyamba ndi kumufunsa mwana wanu "kodi mungakonde kuti muzigwirizana ndi zina zotero?" Ngati yankho ndilo ayi, musaganize kuti ndiwondoka. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zomveka zonena kuti ayi-kapena inde-ku ubale uliwonse.
Mwachiwonekere, akuluakulu pamasewero ndi akuluakulu, ndipo motero, amadzipangira okha zisankho zokhudzana ndi mabwenzi ndi mabwenzi.