Mungathe Kuchita
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Kodi mukudziwa zomwe mungachite mukamalankhula ndi munthu wogontha kapena wosamva ? Anthu ambiri akumva samamva bwino kapena akukhumudwa polankhula ndi anthu osamva / maka, makamaka pamene palibe womasulira. Pali zowonjezereka zomwe mungachite kuti muchepetse kukhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa.
- Kusintha kwa thupi
- Kusintha kwa chilengedwe
- Kusintha kwa mau
- Kusintha kwa anthu
Kudziwa choti muchite mukakumana ndi munthu wogontha kungakhale kofunikira makamaka pazidzidzidzi ngati Mkuntho Katrina. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wogontha ananena ku Houston Chronicle (September 11, 2005) kuti pamene osamva ogontha anali ku register ya Houston Astrodome, mizere inali yaitali ndipo osamva analibe njira yolankhulirana opanda omasulira.
Pangani Zochita Zathupi
Kusintha kosavuta pa maonekedwe anu ndi zochita zanu kungakuthandizeni kulankhulana. Mwachitsanzo, kudula masharubu ndi ndevu kuti asatsekere pakamwa, kuti aphunzitsi kapena oyang'anira aziwombera mosavuta. Kuonetsetsa kuti nkhope yanu ikuwoneka komanso kuti mulibe kalikonse m'kamwa mwako, imathandizanso.
Malingaliro anga, munthu womvetsera sayenera kugwada kuti alankhule chifukwa zingakwiyitse munthu wogontha. Kuwerama pansi sikungowonjezereka kuyankhulana ndipo, makamaka, kungachititse kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri.
(Munthu akumvetsera anandiuza kuti khalidweli ndilofanana ndi munthu wakuyankhula Chingerezi akufuula foni kwa munthu wina wakunja.) Tengani pedi ndi pensulo yaing'ono kapena njira zina zoyankhulira zolembedwa monga chipangizo chogwiritsira ntchito chomwe chili ndi mawu pulogalamu ngati Notepad. Mafoni ambiri monga T-Mobile Sidekick amabwera ndi kulembera kulemba.
Pangani Zomanga Zapangidwe
Kulamulira chilengedwe kungathandizenso kulankhulana. Onetsetsani kuti malo anu ndi abwino kumalo osungira. Kuunikira bwino ndi koyenera bwino kumathandiza ndi kuona mawu ndi zizindikiro. Onetsetsani phokoso la phokoso ngati phokoso likhoza kusokoneza kumvetsetsa. (Za Zopusa / HOH ali ndi nkhani pa Classroom Acoustics ).
Muzochitika za gulu, onetsetsani kuti munthu mmodzi yekha amalankhula panthawi imodzi. Ngati muli ndi bolodi, lembani zolembazo. Konzani ndi kugawa mapepala a misonkhano kusadakhale. Zomwe ndikukumana nazo, njira yabwino ngakhale yopanda ungwiro ndiyo kukhala ndi munthu womvetsera ndi laputopu wakhala pafupi ndi munthu wogontha ndikulemba zolemba monga momwe mungaphunzitsire ku koleji.
Pangani Zochita Zowonjezera
Lingaliro langa ndilo kuti kulankhula pang'ono pothandizira. Anthu ogontha ena amakonda kulankhula mwachizoloŵezi. Muyenera kubwereza kapena kufotokoza. Kwa munthu wovuta kumva, kulankhula mofuula koma osati kufuula, kungathandize. Osakoketsa mawu anu. Pa chifukwa china, "Kodi mungathe kuwerenga milomo?" akuwoneka ngati akunyoza kwa ine. Ndimakonda kuti anthu akumva anditumizire ngati ndingathe kuwerenga. Ndikhoza, koma pokhapokha. Gwiritsani ntchito chinenero cha manja ngati mukudziwa chizindikiro chilichonse ngakhale kuti ndi chinenero chamanja chokha.
Pangani Zosintha Zokha
Kulankhulana kosagwirizana ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa anthu osamva / omwe, omwe amapeza zambiri zambiri amatsutsa njira iyi. Gwiritsani ntchito nkhope, ndi manja. Muyenera kugwira munthu wogontha pamapewa, mkono, kapena mwendo kuti awone ngati ali pafupi kwambiri. Apo ayi, mungafunikire kupondaponda phazi lanu pansi kapena kuyatsa kuwala.
Pomalizira, munthu womvetsera yemwe sanayambe wakumanapo ndi wogontha mmbuyomo sakusowa kuti azikhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa. Pali njira zambiri zoti mugwiritse ntchito. Kumva anthu kumatha kuyankhulana ndi anthu osamva / ovuta kumva ngakhale sakudziwa chinenero chamanja.
Werengani Zowonjezera Zambiri
- Kuyankhulana ndi Anthu Osamva: A Primer - Tsambali ili ndi zowonjezera zowonjezera komanso zowonjezera kuphatikizapo kuti 40 peresenti ya kulankhula ikuwonekera.
- Kumvetsera Anthu Okha - Bukuli ndilo buku lothandizira anthu ambiri akumva kuti amvetsetse kumva. Mutuwo umadzifotokozera.