Ngati mwasankha zovuta kusuntha wokondedwa wanu kunyumba yosungirako okalamba kapena malo ena, ndizotheka kuti mukulimbana ndi chilakolako chokhudza kusintha kumeneku. Mwinanso mukhoza kukhala ndi chisoni chochuluka chifukwa cha chisankho ichi kapena mukuyesetsa kusintha kusintha kwa moyo wanu.
Mosakayika, chisankho chanu chokhazikitsa membala m'banja lanu sichinapangidwe mopepuka.
Mwinamwake munaganizira zinthu zambiri. Nthawi zina, zosankhazi zimachotsedwa m'manja mwazochitika kapena mavuto a zaumoyo. Nthawi zina, chisankho chovomerezera wokondedwa wanu kunyumba yosungirako okalamba ndi inchi ndi inchi imodzi, ndi mamembala ambiri am'banja akulemera, madokotala kupereka uphungu ndi machenjezo, ndi oyandikana nawo akukulimbikitsani kuti mutenge sitepe yotsatira.
Pamene pali chisokonezo pamene chisankho chikupangidwa, sizimangokhala chifukwa chakuti wina alowetsedwa ku malo. Ndipotu, ikhoza kupitilira kapena kuwonjezeka pamene wothandizira akuyenera kumasula zomwe akugwiritsira ntchito kusamalira wokondedwa wake.
Kuzindikira Zizindikiro za Kulakwa, Chisoni ndi Kusintha
Ngakhale zikhoza kuoneka ngati ziyenera kukhala zoonekeratu, sizimangodzimva chisoni kapena chisoni chonse chimawoneka chimodzimodzi. Nazi njira zingapo zovuta zomwe zingatheke pambuyo poyamwitsa kunyumba kwa wokondedwa:
- Mwinamwake mumadzimvera chisoni mukakhala ndi zochitika zosangalatsa.
- Mungakhale ndi vuto lodzimvera chisoni, kenaka mutonthoze, kenaka ndikudziimba mlandu.
- Mwina mungadzipezeke osakhutira ndi chisamaliro cha ogwira ntchito.
- Mwinamwake mungamve kufunikira koti mupite nthawi zonse.
- Mwinamwake mukumverera kuti mukumva kupsinjika kapena kudandaula.
- Mwina simukufuna kulingalira kupereka mankhwala, monga DNR order .
Owathandiza Kukhala ndi Mimba Wachimwene ndi Chisoni
Zina zomwe zingakulepheretseni kuvutika mukamaliza kusungirako kunyumba kungakhale kuphwanyidwa chifukwa chosasamalira mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kunyumba monga poyamba, malingaliro (olondola kapena ayi) omwe ena akuyembekeza kuti mutha kusamalira munthuyo kunyumba, ndi kuvomereza kuti matenda a munthuyo akupita patsogolo.
Nthawi zina, munthuyo angakhale atakuuzani kuti, "Chonde musandilowe m'nyumba yonyamulira!" Komabe, zosowa zake ziyenera kuti zinapangitsa kuti pempholo likhale losatheka.
Mmene Mungadzilimbikitsire Kusintha kwa Kusintha uku
Choyamba, dziwani kuti mukukumana ndi kusintha kwakukulu. Ngakhale izi sizikusintha mkhalidwewu, zingathandize kuti mudzipatse chilolezo kuti muime ndikumvetsa zomwe mukukumana nazo.
Kafukufuku wina anapeza kuti osamalira, makamaka okwatirana a nyumba za okalamba, amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri komanso atakhala ndi nkhawa pambuyo poyamwitsa ana awo kunyumba. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti ngakhale kuti ntchitoyi ikanakhala yofunikira kuti asamalire wokondedwa wake, sichidzangokhala "wokonza" woyang'anira wamkulu ndikupanga zonse bwino.
Pezani njira pang'ono, mwinamwake zatsopano, zosonyeza chisamaliro chanu ndi chikondi chanu. Mwinamwake mukhoza kubweretsa nyuzipepala kapena maluwa tsiku lililonse kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Dziwani munthu amene mungamufotokozere nkhawa zanu, zonse kunja kwa malo komanso mkati mwake. Kuyankhulana ndikofunikira, ndipo malo ambiri amadzifunira kudziwa zomwe mukukumana nazo. Kuphunzira momwe mungalimbikitsire wokondedwa wanu ndikofunikira komanso kofunika, makamaka pamene ali ndi matenda a maganizo .
Zindikirani kuti ngakhale kuti wokondedwa wanu sakanakhala kuti akufuna kukhala mu malo, pakhoza kukhala phindu la kusamalira anthu okalamba. Ngakhale mutaganiza kuti palibe chofanana ndi momwe munaperekera wokondedwa kwanu panyumba, kumbukirani kuti chisamaliro pa malo angakhale abwino, chisamaliro chapamwamba, ndipo chiripo maola 24 pa tsiku. Anthu ena amapeza kuti wokondedwa wawo amakula bwino mu chipinda chifukwa akupeza chisamaliro chonse chomwe mamembala akufuna kuwapatsa koma sakanatha kukhala bwinobwino kunyumba.
Thandizani wokondedwa wanu kuti agwirizane ndi malowa . Gwiritsani ntchito limodzi kuti mupeze ntchito zothandiza ndi zochitika zomwe zingathandize kuti athe kusintha.
Ganizirani kupanga nkhani ya moyo yogawana anthu ofunika, zochitika ndi chidziwitso ndi ogwira ntchito za wokondedwa wanu.
Dzikumbutseni kuti muli ndi kuthekera tsopano kuti musamangoganizira za zosowa za wokondedwa wanu, koma poyendera komanso kumanga ubale wanu ndi iye.
Ambiri osamalira amawona kuti ndi mwayi kusamalira wokondedwa wawo, ndipo safuna kumasulidwa kuntchito yosamalira, ngakhale atakhala misonkho. Podziwa kukhumudwa komwe kungatheke kuphatikizapo chisoni, kutayika, kudziimba mlandu ndi kupuma, kungathandize kusintha kwabwino kwa munthu amene mumamukonda.
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