Ngati mwatuluka kukacheza ndi mnzanu kapena wachibale amene ali pakatikati a Alzheimer's or dementia, ganizirani malangizo awa khumi monga wotsogolera.
Dziwani zomwe mungayembekezere.
Kuwonjezera mwayi wa ulendo wabwino poika zoyembekeza zenizeni. Maseŵera apakati a dementia angakhale ovuta. Nthawi zina anthu amakumana ndi zovuta monga zopusitsa kapena nkhawa, kapena amakhumudwa mosavuta.
Iwo sangakhoze kukudziwani inu pomwepo, kapena kubwera ndi dzina lanu. Podziwa kuti zizindikirozi ndi mbali ya matendawa osati kuti ubale wa munthuyo ndiwe ungakuthandizeni kuwayankha bwino ndikuonetsetsa kuti ulendowu ndi wabwino.
Dziwonetseni nokha.
Mwinamwake mukuganiza kuti ziyenera kukhala zoonekeratu kuti ndinu mwana wamwamuna wokondeka, koma sangathe kukupatsani, ndipo izi zingakhale zovuta kwa inu nonse. Mupulumutseni manyazi omwe angakhalepo kapena mphindi yovuta mwadzidziwitsa nokha nthawi yomweyo.
Khalani olemekezeka.
Ngakhale kukumbukira kwa wokondedwa wanu sikunali kofanana, musamalankhule naye kapena kumuchitira ngati mwana. Iye ndi wamkulu yemwe ali ndi zochitika zambiri za moyo, kotero mkati mwa chisokonezo chake, onetsetsani kuti ulemu wanu ukuperekedwa.
Pewani zosokoneza.
Ngati chipinda chimene mumawachezera chili phokoso kapena chatanganidwa, mufunseni ngati akufuna kutuluka panja kapena kutsika ku holo kuti mukhale chete.
Muli ndi mwayi wokambirana naye momasuka ngati pali zododometsa zochepa zomwe zikukuzungulirani.
Gwiritsani ntchito mawu omveka bwino ndi kupewa slang.
Kulankhulana ndi wokondedwa yemwe ali ndi matenda a maganizo okhudzana ndi maganizo aumphawi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zogwira mtima mukamagwiritsa ntchito mawu ovomerezeka kapena mafunso, osati mawu osamveka kapena osalankhula.
Mwachitsanzo, m'malo moti, "Siko kulira kulira pa mkaka wotayika", nenani, "Chabwino, Akazi Sarah. Izo zinachitika kanthawi kapitako ndipo ziri bwino tsopano. "
Bweretsani zithunzi ku ulendo wanu.
Ngati muli ndi zithunzi kuchokera zaka zapitazo, sankhani angapo a iwo, kapena bwino koma Album yakale, ndipo mubweretseni pa ulendo wanu. Kuwona zithunzi zakale kungayambitse kukumbukira komwe kusungidwa kukumbukira . Nthawi zina, anthu amatha kukumbukira mayina ndi zochitika zina powona chithunzi.
Ngakhale ngati yankho limene mumalandira likuwoneka kuti ndi lochepa, anthu ambiri amalimbikitsidwa poona zithunzi zomwe zingawadziwitse, komanso kupatula ngati album ingakupatseni chitsogozo cha zokambirana zanu.
Lowani zoona zake.
Ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi zochitika zinazake, musayese kumutsimikizira kuti zomwe akumva kapena kuziwona sizenizeni. Perekani zitsimikizo zambiri ndi zododometsa m'malo mwake.
Imbani.
Osatsimikiza choti mungachite chiyani mukapita kukacheza ndi abambo anu? Taganizirani kuimba naye, makamaka ngati nthawi zonse amakonda nyimbo. Ngati nyimbo sizomwe mukuchita, mungathe kubweretserani nyimbo zina kuti mumusewere. Nyimbo zimatha kuyambitsa kukumbukira ndikumverera, nthawi zina zimapangitsa kuti munthu aziwerenga mawu onse nyimbo ngakhale atatha kulankhula nawo.
Musatsutsane.
Kukangana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a maganizo aumphawi sikokwanira, ngati kuli konse, kopindulitsa. Ngakhale atakhala kuti sakulakwitsa kanthu, mungachite zambiri potsutsana naye.
Pamene wokondedwa wanu akutsutsa kuti ndi Lachiwiri ndipo makamaka Lolemba, kupambana kwanu ndiko kupita ndi kuthamanga pokhapokha ngati nkhaniyo ndi yofunika kwambiri. Ngati mumatsutsana naye, mumamuwonjezera kukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa koma osatha kumukakamiza.
Kumbukirani kuti kutengeka nthawi zambiri kumatenga nthawi yaitali kuposa kukumbukira.
Nthaŵi zina ndimamva anthu akulembera okondedwa awo omwe ali ndi chifuwa chachikulu poti iwo sangakumbukire ulendo wa maminiti angapo kuchokera pano, ndizosatheka kupita.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti sikumangokumbukira komwe kuli kofunika; Ndikumverera komwe kumapangidwa ndi ulendo wabwino. Chofunika kwambiri kukumbukira ndi chakuti malingaliro abwino kuchokera ku chilimbikitso ndi chilimbikitso angakhale motalika kusiyana ndi kukumbukira kwa ulendo umenewo.
Mwinamwake mwakhudza tsiku lonse la munthuyo mwa kusintha maganizo ake ndi khalidwe lake. Ngakhale kuti sangathe kukumbukira kuti mumamuyendera, malingaliro omwe mumamulenga angasinthe m'mene amachitira ndi ena komanso kusintha maganizo ake.
Nthawi yotsatira mukuganiza kuti ziribe kanthu, ganiziraninso. Ubwino wa ulendo wanu ukhoza kutha nthawi yaitali mutapita.
Zotsatira:
Alzheimer's Association. Kulankhulana ndi Alzheimer's. Inapezeka pa June 20, 2012. http://www.alz.org/care/dementia-communication-tips.asp
Gulu la Nsomba za Alzheimer's Research Foundation. Kulankhulana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi Alzheimer's. Inapezeka pa June 20, 2012. http://www.alzinfo.org/08/treatment-care/communicating-with-someone-who-has-alzheimers
Wisconsin Dipatimenti ya Zaumoyo ndi Mapemphero a Banja, Gawo la Olemala ndi Okalamba, Bungwe la Kukalamba ndi Long Care Resources Resources. Malangizo Otsogolera Kuyenda Kwawo Kwambiri, Kwambiri Kwambiri kwa Anthu Amene Ali ndi Matenda a Alzheimer's and Dementia Related. Idafika pa June 21, 2012. http://dhfs.wisconsin.gov/aging/Genage/ALZFCGSP.HTM