Mkhalidwe wa moyo ukhoza kukhala ndi mphamvu yaikulu
Ngati muli ndi ululu wosatha, kodi izi zimakhudza ngati mwana wanu ali ndi ululu wosatha? Ili ndi funso lovuta, ndipo kufufuza ngati kugwirizana koteroku kulipo kosakanikirana.
Kuti mufufuze kulumikizana kumeneku kotheka, akatswiri anayamba kukumba mozama mu ubale wa mwana ndi mwana.
Chinthu chimodzi chimene iwo anachivumbula pochita kuwonetsa kugwirizana pakati pa ululu wopweteka wa kholo ndi ululu wa mwana wawo ndilo dongosolo la banja (mwachitsanzo, moyo wawo).
Izi zinapezedwa ndi ofufuza pa phunziro lalikulu la Norway ku Jama Pediatrics .
Kufotokozera Mavuto Osautsa
Olemba maphunzirowa ku Jama Pediatrics amatanthauzira "kupweteka kosaneneka kosaneneka" pakati pa ana omwe ali achichepere ngati ululu umachitika kamodzi pa sabata kwa miyezi itatu.
"Kupweteka kosawerengeka kwapadziko lonse" kunatanthawuzidwa kuti ndikumva ululu kosaneneka womwe unachitika m'malo osachepera atatu m'thupi (mwachitsanzo, mimba, mmbuyo, ndi mutu).
Kwa akuluakulu, kupweteka kosatha kumatanthauzidwa ngati ululu umene unachitika kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi (iyi ndikutanthauzira kwabwino).
Zotsatira za Chisoni cha Makolo pa Ana Awo Achichepere
Phunziroli, achinyamata oposa 7000 ndi achinyamata (zaka 13 mpaka 18) adadzaza mafunso okhudza ululu. Mafunsowa anafunsa ngati adakumanapo ndi ululu mkati mwa miyezi itatu yapitayi komanso kangati (mwachitsanzo, "kawirikawiri," "kamodzi pamlungu," kapena "pafupifupi tsiku lililonse").
Ndiye, anthu oposa zikwi makumi anai adamaliza funso la mafunso awa:
- "Kodi muli ndi zowawa zakuthupi tsopano zomwe zakhala zoposa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi?"
- "Kodi ululu wanu wamthupi wakhala wotani mkati mwa masabata 4 apitawo?" (mayankho mwina sanali opweteka, ofatsa, ofatsa, ochepa, amphamvu, kapena amphamvu kwambiri)
Popeza phunziroli linkachitika ku Norway, mayankho a mafunso ochokera kwa achinyamata ndi achinyamata angaphatikizidwe ndi mafunso a makolo awo kudzera mu manambala aumwini (aliyense ku Norway ali ndi).
Pambuyo polumikizana ndi makolo awo ndi ana awo, ofufuzawo anatsalira ndi achinyamata oposa 5300 kapena achinyamata omwe anali ndi kholo limodzi omwe adachitanso nawo mafunsowa.
Pofufuza mafunso omwe makolo ndi ana awo adakali aang'ono amakhala nawo, anapeza kuti kupweteka kwamuyaya kwa amayi kapena abambo kunagwirizanitsidwa ndi ululu wosachiritsika wosagwirizana ndi ana ambiri. Zovuta za ululu uwu m'mabanja zinali zoposa pamene amayi ndi abambo adanena zowawa.
Mabungwewa adakhalabe ofanana ngakhale openda ofufuza omwe akuyang'anira zosiyana monga chiwerewere, zaka, ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu.
Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani?
Zotsatirazi zikutanthauza kuti kugwirizana kwakukulu kulipo pakati pa ululu wopweteka wa makolo ndi ululu wosatha wa ana awo achinyamata.
Chifukwa chiyani? Mwinamwake, kholo limene limapweteka kwambiri limapatsa ana kuwonetsa khalidwe lopweteka, kuwapangitsa kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi / kapena kuika maganizo pa zowawa za thupi zowawa. Lingaliro lina ndilo kuti kholo lopweteka kwambiri lingapereke mwana chidwi kwambiri pa zizindikiro zokhudzana ndi zopweteka kapena kukhala wodzitetezera kwambiri, zomwe zingakhudze, ngakhale mwinamwake kulimbitsa, zowawa za mwana.
Kuwonjezera apo, kuti zovuta kuti munthu akhale ndi ululu wosaneneka ndi wapamwamba ngati makolo onse ali ndi ululu wopitirira motsutsana ndi kholo limodzi (kapena kholo lawo) angasonyeze chizindikiro cha mavuto m'banja.
M'mawu ena, mwinamwake kunja kwapanikizi zikuchititsa kuti banja lisamagwire bwino ntchito, zomwe zikuchititsa kuti mamembala ambiri apabanja afotokoze kupweteka kosatha.
Chikhalidwe cha Banja Chikhoza Kukhala Chofunika Kwambiri Pogwirizanitsa Makolo ndi Ana Ovutika Kwambiri
Kuphatikiza pa kufufuza chiyanjano pakati pa ululu wa makolo ndi ana, ofufuzawo adafufuza kusintha komwe kungakhudze izi: banja labwino (moyo).
Kafukufukuyu anapeza kuti kuchuluka kwa ululu kwa achinyamata ndi achinyamata kunachepetsedwa pakati pa omwe amakhala ndi makolo onse awiri, mosiyana ndi kholo limodzi.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, achinyamata ndi achinyamata omwe amakhala ndi amayi awo makamaka, amakhala ndi ululu wosaneneka ngati amayi awo anali ndi ululu wosatha.
Zovuta za kupwetekedwa kwachidziwitso chochulukirapo (kutanthauza ululu mu magawo atatu kapena kuposerapo kwa thupi) kunali kwakukulu kwambiri ngati ana achichepere ankakhala makamaka ndi amayi awo ndi amzake atsopano a amayi awo, kuphatikizapo amayi okha.
Komabe, ngati ana aang'ono amakhala makamaka ndi abambo awo (kapena abambo awo ndi abwenzi awo atsopano), zovuta zawo zopweteka zinawonjezeka pamene amayi awo kapena abambo awo anali ndi ululu wosaneneka, ngakhale kuti kugwirizana kuli pakati pa zowawa m'masamba ambiri mwa mbeuyi inali yogwirizana kwambiri ndi ululu wa atate wake.
Kawirikawiri, phunziroli limalimbikitsa chilengedwe cha ululu wosatha, makamaka kwa ana. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, osati zinthu zokhazokha zamoyo zomwe zikusewera pokhudzana ndi zowawa za nthawi yaitali, koma amalingaliro aumoyo monga-omwe mwana amakhala nawo ndi kumagwirizana nawo tsiku ndi tsiku.
Mfundo Zina Zochititsa Phunziro
Phunzirolo linapezanso kuti ana ambiri achikazi ndi amayi ambiri amamva ululu kuposa ana kapena abambo. Izi zikusonyeza kuti kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi kulipo pakati pa achinyamata ndi achikulire omwe amamva ululu.
Kuwonjezera apo, ana omwe anali ndi nkhawa ndi matenda ovutika maganizo amakhala ovutika kwambiri, monga momwe makolo awo analili. Ichi ndichidziwika chodziwika, ndipo nthawi zambiri sichidziwika chomwe chinafika poyamba, kupweteka kapena nkhawa / nkhawa-nkhuku yotsutsana ndi mazira oundana. Kawirikawiri ululu ndi zizindikiro za matenda aumoyo zimathandizana wina ndi mzake kupanga zovuta zowopsya.
Potsirizira pake, lipoti lopweteka kwambiri linachepa mwa amayi ndi abambo, monga maphunziro ndi ndalama zachuma zinakula. Monga chikhalidwe cha banja, izi zimathandiza kuti zinthu zachilengedwe zikhale zosautsa.
Mawu Ochokera
Phunziroli silingotsimikizire kuti chikhalidwe cha anthu achichepere komanso achichepere amatha kupweteka kwambiri, komanso chimapereka kuti ngati akudwala ululu kwa ana, chilengedwe chiyenera kuonedwa.
Ngati muli ndi mwana yemwe ali ndi ululu wosaneneka, kumangotengera kwanu monga kholo ndiko kulingalira momwe banja lanu lingagwiritsire ntchito ngati chithandizo chothandizira mwana wanu kuthana ndi vuto ndi ululu wake. Zoonadi, musanyamule cholemetsa chanu nokha-kuyankhulana ndi timu yachipatala ya mwana wanu.
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