Mumalembetsa autistic yanu pulogalamu ya masewera a masewerawa ndipo penyani pamene mwana wanu akuchoka pamene ana ena akusangalala mpirawo ndikuthamangira ku cholinga.
Mumamveka bwino mwana wanu kuti Halloween ikhale ngati amawakonda kwambiri pa TV, pokhapokha mutapeza kuti sangathe kukhala ovala zovalazo kwa mphindi ziwiri popanda kusokonezeka maganizo .
Mukuitanira mnzanu wapamtima naye pa tsiku la masewera. Mwana wanu amachoka pakhomo lamasewero ndikukwera pamwamba payekha - maora awiri tsiku loti masewero asanathe.
Zonsezi ndizochitikira kwa makolo a autism. Ndipotu, makolo ambiri a autism amakumana ndi mavuto aakulu kwambiri omwe amakumana nawo m'mabanja awo: mwana wawo amachokera kunja, amamenyana ndi mwana wina, kapena amakhumudwa pamene akufunsidwa kutenga nawo mbali.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimachitika kuti zovuta zamasewera zikhale zovuta kwa ana pafupipafupi - makamaka pamene anawo ali aang'ono kwambiri, amakhala ndi mavuto aakulu, ndi / kapena amakhala ndi mavuto aakulu ndi chilankhulo cholandilira ndi chinenero. Mwachitsanzo:
- Phokoso ndi chisokonezo cha ntchito ya timu monga mpira ungakhale zowawa za mwana wanu autistic.
- "Kusewera pamodzi" ndi mwana wina kungafunikire kukhala ndi chiyanjano, kulankhulana, ndi chidziwitso chomwe sichikhoza kupitirira mwana wanu.
- Zochita ndi malamulo ovuta, osadziwika akhoza kukhala ovuta, osokoneza, ndi okhumudwitsa mwana wanu.
- "Pangani kukhulupirira" ndipo kudziyeretsa kungakhale kofunika kwambiri kukonzekera ndi kuchita zambiri kusiyana ndi makolo ambiri omwe angathe kapena kupereka.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti machitidwe ambiri omwe amawoneka amawoneka ophweka ndi osangalatsa kwa amayi ndi abambo, koma ndi opanda pake, osasangalatsa, kapena okhumudwitsa ana omwe ali ndi autism.
Makolo, ndithudi, amafunitsitsa kukhala ndi banja lawo ndi anzawo - ndipo amakhulupirira kuti kuwonetsa mwana wawo ndi autism ku zochitika ndi zochitika zomwe zimachitika kumadzetsa kuvomereza ndi kugwirizana. Angamveketsenso kuti akakamize ana awo autistic kuti azichita "mwachizolowezi."
Komabe, kodi ndibwino kukakamiza ana autistic kuti achite zinthu zomwe samazisangalala nazo? Pafupipafupi nthawi zonse (ndi zosiyana zochepa zomwe zimaphatikizapo zochitika zadzidzidzi ndi zochitika zosayembekezereka) yankho liri NO.
Ndicho chifukwa chake:
- Ntchito zambiri zimaphatikizapo ana, makolo, ndi alangizi / ophunzitsa. Anthuwa sadziwa zambiri za autism , ndipo amatha kukhala oleza mtima, okhumudwa, komanso ovuta pamene mwana sangathe kapena sangagwirizane kapena kutenga mbali.
- Zochita zambiri nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi chidziwitso chodziwika bwino ndi zomwe ana a autistic alibe. Mwachitsanzo, makosi a mpira wa peewee amaganiza kuti aliyense wa zaka zitatu kapena zinayi omwe ali m'gulu lawo ALREADY akungoganizira kuti adzasewera m'magulu, kuti ntchito yawo ndi kuwombera mpira, kuti "kupanga cholinga" ndi chinthu chabwino , ndi kuti aliyense ayenera kusangalala pamene mpira umalowa mu cholinga. Ana omwe ali ndi autism, chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, sangakhale ndi chidziwitso ichi - ndipo motero zochitika zonse zimawoneka, ndipo zimamva, ngati chisokonezo. Ngakhale ana omwe ali ndi autism nthawi zambiri amatha kukankha, amayenera kupanga gulu laling'ono kapena langizo 1: 1 ndikudziwitsanso kuti amvetse malingaliro awo ndi kumanga maluso omwe anzawo akuwoneka kuti akutha.
- Zochitika zosautsa ndi zochitika zomwe sizichitika nthawi zambiri sizitha kuwatsogolera ku zochitika zabwino ndi zochitika zomwe zimakhalapo. Inde, "yesani ndikuyesanso" ndi mantra yabwino - koma zoona ndizokuti ana ochepa omwe ali ndi autism akukhumba kukhala mbali ya chikhalidwe kapena kuchita nawo masewero, kotero alibe chifukwa cholimbikira. Ndipotu, ngati sakusangalala, njira yawo yabwino ndikuwonetsera chisangalalo chawo mokweza komanso momveka ngati n'kotheka, kuti atuluke mwamsanga mwamsanga!
- Ambiri a autistic ana amakhala ndi chidwi ndi zokonda zomwe iwo, amasangalala nazo. Izi sizingakhale zachikhalidwe - kapena zingakhale ndi munthu mmodzi yekha. Zikhoza kukhala zosiyana, kapena zoyenera zaka . Iwo sangapeze kutamandidwa kwa agogo aakazi kapena achibale awo. Koma ngati mwana wanu amakonda l egos, sitima zamoto , mafumu a Disney, kapena akuzungulira padziwe losambira, izi ndizofuna kwenikweni zomwe zingakhale maziko a kumanga, kumanga, kapena kumangosewera .