Kuyanjana pa Intaneti, Kugonana kosatetezeka & Matenda opatsirana pogonana
Amerika amagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi mapulogalamu kuposa gulu lina lililonse la anthu. Pali matani a malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi mapulogalamu kunja uko, kuphatikizapo Match.com, eHarmony, Tinder, ndi Adam4Adam. Malo onse ochezera a chibwenzi amakhala ndi zilakolako zosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, eHarmony imadziwika pa kukhazikitsidwa kwa nthawi yaitali pakati pa ogwiritsa ntchito; pamene, Tinder ndi wotchuka chifukwa chololedwa.
Komanso, Adam4Adam ndi webusaiti yogonana pachibwenzi.
Anthu ambiri amakondwera kukumana ndi ena pa intaneti, ndipo chibwenzi cha pa Intaneti chimabweretsa pamodzi anthu omwe mwina sanakumanepo. Pali nkhani zambirimbiri za anthu omwe amakumana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo wamtsogolo kapena zina zambiri pa intaneti.
Ngakhale zili choncho, pali mbali yamdima yogonana ndi intaneti: Akatswiri ambiri amadandaula za kuwonjezeka kwa chiopsezo chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana (STIs) ogwirizana ndi kukambirana pa Intaneti. Izi zimakambidwa makamaka pakati pa amuna omwe ali ndi kugonana kosalephereka ndi amuna ena omwe sali othandizana nawo-khalidwe lodziwika kuti "barebacking." Ndipotu, akatswiri amangiriza kuti posachedwapa kuphulika kwa khondom, chlamydia ndi syphilis kukukhazikitsidwa kwa kubwerera kwawo. A
Kodi Kucheza Nawo pa Intaneti Kumagwira Ntchito Bwanji?
Ogwiritsira ntchito poyamba amayamba mbiri yanu pa intaneti pa intaneti. Mbiri pa intaneti ikhoza kukhala ndi zotsatirazi:
- sociodemographic info
- zokonda zanu
- zokonda zaumwini
- zofuna
- mitundu ya okondedwa omwe mukufuna
- mitundu ya maubwenzi okhumba
- kugonana
- zofuna zogonana ndi zosakondweretsa
Pambuyo powerenga mbiri, ogwiritsa ntchito amatha kukondana wina ndi mnzake-mwachitsanzo, wosuta akhoza "kusinthitsa" pa Tinder kapena "wink" pa Match.com. Ngati chidwicho chikugwirizanitsa, ogwiritsa ntchito amatha kulankhulana kudzera pa webusaiti ya chibwenzi pa Intaneti ndikupitirizabe kukhala pa Intaneti kapena kukumana ndi dziko lenileni.
Zochita za Mtumiki
Akatswiri ogwira ntchito zaumoyo komanso ogwira ntchito zachipatala amalingalira kwambiri za kugonana kosatetezeka komanso kupatsirana pogonana kwa anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito Intaneti pa Intaneti ndi mapulogalamu okhaokha. Chonde mvetserani kuti akatswiriwa sakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zamakono pofuna kukhazikitsa ubale wamodzi wa nthawi yaitali.
Intaneti ingakhale njira yofulumira komanso yowonjezera yokhazikika. Kufufuza koyambirira kumatipatsa chithunzithunzi chokwanira cha anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti azigonana. Ogwiritsira ntchitowa amatha kukhala amuna achiwerewere omwe amakonda kugonana ndi ana komanso amphongo. Amakhalanso ndi anthu ochuluka omwe amagonana nawo nthawi zambiri kuposa anthu omwe sagwiritsa ntchito intaneti pofunafuna kugonana. Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, anthu ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito Intaneti pogonana amagwiritsa ntchito makondomu; Komabe, chiwerengero chachikulu sichoncho, ndipamene pali vuto.
Zindikirani, amayi omwe amagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a intaneti pofuna kukhazikitsa zibwenzi zogonana amakhala oyera komanso okalamba. Iwo amatha kugwiritsa ntchito makondomu ndikuyesa matenda opatsirana pogonana nthawi zonse.
Zotsatira zafukufuku
Zotsatira za maphunziro omwe akugwirizanitsa malo ochezera a intaneti ndi magulu opatsirana pogonana ndi osakaniza. Komanso, ngakhale kuti nkhaniyi ndi yovuta kwambiri pakati pa anthu ambiri, palibenso zofufuza zambiri pa mutuwo.
Funso limodzi lofunika kwambiri pankhani ya chiyanjano ndiloti anthu omwe amakonda kugonana popanda chitetezo-makamaka, kugonana kosatetezedwa kapena kubwerera m'mbuyo-amagwiritsira ntchito intaneti kuti akwaniritse chikhumbochi kapena ngati malo ochezera a intaneti akuthandizira kuchita izi.
M'nkhani yowonjezera ya 2008 yomwe ili ndi mutu wakuti "Amuna Amuna Ogonana ndi Amuna ndi Otenga Bareback Sex Partners pa intaneti: Zotsatira za Kugonana kwa Edzi ndi Kupewa Kachilombo ndi Maphunziro a Anthu," wolemba mabuku Christopher W. Blackwell akuti amuna omwe amagonana ndi amuna nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito intaneti kuti mupeze mosavuta anthu ogwirizana nawo. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti ambiri mwa amunawa amalimbikitsa kuchita zachiwerewere pamabuku awo.
Mlembi akupitiriza kunena kuti njira imodzi yokhumudwitsa zochitika zoterezi ndi kuphatikizapo chithandizo chodziteteza kuchipatala pa intaneti. Njira zoterezi zingatenge mawonekedwe apadera, kufalitsa, kufalitsa malonda ndi kulenga malo othandizira maphunziro.
Zotsatira za kafukufuku wamkulu wa Dutch zomwe zinafalitsidwa mu 2016 zikusonyeza kuti pakati pa amuna omwe agonana ndi amuna, palibe mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa intaneti pa Intaneti ndi ana osatetezedwera. Zindikirani, ophunzira mu phunziroli adatumizidwa ku chipatala cha Amtendere.
Phunziro la Dutch limeneli, ofufuza adapeza kuti kusagwirizana kumeneku kunali koonekera pakati pa amuna omwe alibe HIV. Mwa amuna omwe ali ndi kachilombo koyambitsa matenda a Edzi, panalibe mgwirizano pakati pa chibwenzi ndi intaneti. Pomalizira, pakati pa amuna omwe sankadziwa kuti ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV-gawo laling'ono la ophunzira - kugonana kosagonjetsedwa kunali kofala kwambiri ndi ena omwe adagwiritsa ntchito pa intaneti kusiyana ndi machitidwe osiyana.
Ofufuzawo anapeza kuti mgwirizano wa kachilombo ka HIV unayambitsa kugonana kosatetezedwa. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ophunzira anali osamala kuti angokhala ndi kugonana kosatetezedwa ndi anthu omwe anali ndi vuto lomweli la HIV. Kusiyanitsa uku ndikofunikira chifukwa mitsempha yosagonjetsa mankhwala ingathe kufalikira pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi HIV. Mwachidule, munthu yemwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV yemwe angathe kuchiritsidwa ndi mankhwala opatsirana pogonana angayambe kutenga kachilombo ka mtundu wina kamene sagonjetsedwa ndi chithandizo choterechi. Mwachiwonekere, amuna mu phunziro lino amayang'anirana wina ndi mzake kuti amanyamula zovuta zotani (zomwe zimatchedwa serosorting ) musanabwerere.
Zisonkhezero
Pambuyo pa mliri wa Edzi m'zaka za m'ma 1980, amuna ambiri adasiya kubwerera kwawo ndipo anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito makondomu. Posachedwapa, chizoloŵezichi chimabwereranso ndipo chalembedwa ndi kuchuluka kwafupipafupi pakati pa amuna oyera, akuda ndi a Latino akukhala mumzinda wa New York City, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami ndi mizinda ina yayikulu ya ku United States. Komanso, amuna a misinkhu yonse tsopano ali ndi kugonana kosalephereka, kuphatikizapo amuna akuluakulu omwe amakhala ndi mliri wa Edzi ndipo amagwiritsira ntchito makondomu kwa nthawi yaitali mliriwu utatha.
Mwinamwake palibe chifukwa chimodzi chimene amuna amasankha kukhala ndi kugonana kosatetezedwa. Mmalo mwake, khalidwe ili ndi lovuta ndipo limapangidwa ndi zinthu zosiyana.
- Amuna amene amabwera bareback amapeza kuti chizoloŵezichi chimakhala cholimbikitsa, chosangalatsa komanso chachikondi.
- Intaneti yakhala yosavuta kupeza ogonana osadziwika omwe angakhale ndi kugonana kosatetezedwa. Pali malo omwe akufunira kupeza mabwenzi osabereka, ndipo ogwiritsa ntchito angathe kusankha ena pogwiritsa ntchito kachirombo ka HIV.
- Kubwereranso kungakhale chizindikiro cha ufulu wa kugonana, kupanduka, ndi mphamvu.
- Amuna omwe amagonana ndi amuna sakuonanso kachilombo ka HIV ngati matenda oopsa. M'malo mwake, amawona ngati akuchiritsidwa. Poopa kufa sichikukwera, amunawa sangakhale okhudzidwa ndi chiopsezo chotenga kachilombo ka HIV, ndipo aganize kuti atalandira kachilombo ka HIV amatha kupeza chithandizo. Maganizowa ndi olakwika chifukwa (1) sikuti mitundu yonse ya HIV imachiritsidwa ndipo (2) mankhwala ochepetsa kachilombo ka HIV nthawi zonse sakhala ndi mavuto, kuphatikizapo kunyoza, kusanza, kupweteka kwa khungu, kutsekula m'mimba komanso kupweteka kwa m'mimba.
- Kugwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bwalo-monga kusangalala, GHB, ketamine, ndi crystal meth-zakhala zikugwirizanitsidwa.
- Kubwereranso kungagwiritsidwe ntchito kuthana ndi nkhawa ndi nkhawa. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kuvutika maganizo kungathandizenso kuchita zimenezi.
- Kulingalira thupi, kudzidalira, ndi kudzipindulitsa kungapangitse kuti asamangidwe. Mwachindunji, amuna omwe amavomereza kuchita zimenezi angawoneke okongola kwa mnzanu wogonana.
- Amuna amene abwerera ku chizoloŵezi chobvunda pambuyo pa zaka zambiri akugwiritsa ntchito kondomu amanena kuti "kutopa kugonana mosatetezeka."
- Mbadwo wachinyamata wa amuna omwe ali ndi chiwerewere omwe sanagonepo ndi mliri wa Edzi sangathe kuzindikira kuti malondawa ndi ochepa bwanji pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu komanso kuchepetsa kuteteza kachilombo ka HIV. Mibadwo yakale, omwe amakumbukira mlili wa Edzi, ndi okondwa kulipira mtengo wawung'ono kuti ukhalebe mwaufulu.
- Kulingalira kosavomerezeka kungakhale kuti pokhala ndi kachirombo ka HIV, munthu yemwe alibe kachilombo ka HIV angachepetse nkhawa za Edzi. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, sipadzakhalanso chifukwa chilichonse chodandaulira za kutenga kachilomboka ngati muli kale.
- M'nkhani ina yotchedwa "Kugonana Osakwatirana: Amuna Achiwerewere, Kugonana ndi Kugonana, ndi Kupepuka Mavuto," wolemba mabuku Michael Shernoff analemba kuti: "Kugonana kwa anthu osagonana kungachititse kuti munthu asamangokhalira kugonana chifukwa chodziŵa kuti mwamuna wamwamuna ndi wamtengo wapatali komanso wosafunika, kuti iye ndi wogwiritsira ntchito, komanso momwemonso ndi amuna omwe amachitira naye kugonana ndi amene amamukonda ndi kumutsimikizira. "
Pazifukwa zonsezi, chisangalalo ndi ubwenzi wokhala ndi chiopsezo chogonana mwachidziwikire zimamveka zifukwa zina zonse zogwirira nawo kugonana kosatetezedwa. Komabe, kungonena kuti munthu alibe zosowa zake ndizochepetsetsa. Zosankha monga ngati kutenga nawo mbali mu chizolowezichi ndi zochuluka kwambiri.
Pansi
Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito Intaneti pa Intaneti kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano wautali ndi munthu wina, chiopsezo chokhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana sichikuposa momwe mungakwaniritsire munthu yemwe mungakhale naye naye pa intaneti.
Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a intaneti ndikufunafuna kugonana, chonde samalani kwambiri ndipo mugwiritse ntchito makondomu ndikuyezetsa matenda opatsirana pogonana nthawi zonse. Makamaka, kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti amuna ambiri okwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amagwiritsa ntchito malowa amayesetsa kupeza mwayi wosabereka, ndipo ena mwa amunawa ali ndi HIV.
Ngakhale kuti sizingatheke kuti munthu aliyense atha kufalitsa kachilombo ka HIV kwa munthu wina, anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV sakudziwa kuti ali ndi kachirombo ka HIV. Chonde musamangokakamizidwa kuti mugwiritse ntchito kondomu ndi kukhalabe maso polimbikira kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu ndi mnzanu yemwe alibe chidziwitso. Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale tili ndi chithandizo chabwino cha HIV, ndipo matendawa sali chilango cha imfa chomwe poyamba chinalipo, ndidakali matenda akuluakulu omwe amafunika kuti chithandizo cha moyo wonse chikhale chosasangalatsa ndipo nthawi zina chimachepa.
Pamapeto pake, chifukwa chakuti akatswiri azaumoyo aumidzi amadera nkhaŵa kwambiri za kuyanjana pakati pa intaneti ndi malo opatsirana pogonana m'magulu achiwerewere, chonde musaganize kuti amayi sali pangozi, naponso. Ndipotu mitengo ya kachilombo ka HIV ndi yaikulu pakati pa akazi akuda.
Azimayi omwe akufuna kugonana kwa kanthaŵi kochepa ayenera kuumirira kutetezedwa ndi kuyesedwa nthawi zonse. Choyamba, chiopsezo cha kachilombo ka HIV ndi matenda ena opatsirana pogonana amakhalabe ndi mtundu uliwonse wa kugonana kosatetezeka. Chachiwiri, kugonana ndi madzi, ndipo anthu ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti pafupipafupi amakhala akugonana. Anthu awa akhoza kuika chiopsezo kwa amai omwe amawagonana ndi amayi ena komanso amuna ena. Ndipo kachiwiri, kafufuzidwe kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti pali amuna ambiri omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV omwe amafufuza zovuta zambiri pa Intaneti, ambiri omwe sakudziwa kuti ali ndi kachirombo ka HIV.
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