Kwa anthu ambiri, chinthu chowopsya kwambiri pa maphunziro omwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana (STD) ndicho lingaliro la chibwenzi ndi icho. Iwo akhoza kudabwa chomwe anthu angaganize. Akhoza kukayikira momwe angalankhulire ndi matenda awo ndi watsopano kapena alipo. Ngati ali okwiya, angafune kuimbidwa mlandu wina ... kapena kudandaula wina akhoza kuwaimba mlandu. Ngati ali achisoni, akhoza kukayikira ngati akadali ofunika.
Mafunso awa ndi kukayikira ndi zachilendo. Komabe, mamiliyoni ambiri amatha kukhala pachibwenzi mosangalala ndi STDs. Nthawi zina, ndi chifukwa chakuti sakudziwa kuti ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Nthawi zina, ndi chifukwa chakuti kukhala omasuka ndi oona mtima pankhani ya kugonana ndi njira yabwino yothetsera ubwenzi ndi kutentha.
Kulankhulana ndi Wothandizana Naye Pokhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana
Kuchita zibwenzi ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana sikungakhale kovuta ngati anthu adayamba chizoloŵezi choyankhula za kugonana asanakhale nawo. Mwamwayi, m'mabwalo ambiri a anthu omwe ndi osiyana nawo osati malamulo.
Ndibwino kuti aliyense apitirire kukayezetsa matenda opatsirana pogonana . Iwo angakambirane zotsatirazi asanagonana ndi watsopano. Amapanga zisankho zokhudzana ndi kugonana (mosagwira ntchito). Zingatenge zolemetsa za anthu omwe akudziwa kuti ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Mmalo mwake, aliyense adzabwera patebulo ndi chinachake choti anene.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti, anthu ambiri ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndipo sazidziwa. Ndi chifukwa chake kuyesedwa ndi kovuta kwambiri.
Poyankhula za kukhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi wokondedwa kapena wokondedwa, onse awiri ayenera kudziwa kumene akuima. Kusadziwa kumawonjezera chiopsezo cha chiweruzo ndi cholakwa. Zimapangitsanso kuti munthu wina azinena zakukhosi kwake .
Ndi liti pamene mumauza wina kuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana? Ndicho chinthu chokha chimene mungathe kusankha.
Anthu ena amakonda kukamba nkhaniyi musanayambe kucheza nawo-kaya m'maganizo kapena m'thupi. Ena amasunga zokambirana zisanayambe kukondana, koma atatsimikiza kuti wokondedwa wawo ndi munthu amene akumva kuti ndi otetezeka kulankhula naye. Ena amaika pa tebulo ngakhale asanapite tsiku loyamba. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofanana pakati pa kuteteza mnzanu komanso kudziletsa.
Icho chinati, sizoganiza zedi kulankhula za matenda pamene zinthu zayamba kutentha ndi zolemetsa. Ino si nthawi imene anthu angathe kupanga zosankha zabwino. Ndi bwino kuti ukhale ndi nkhaniyo zovala zisanafike, m'malo momaliza.
Kulimbana ndi Nkhanza za Kugonana ndi STD
Gawo lovuta kwambiri la chibwenzi cha STD likulimbana ndi tsankho . Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kukhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wodetsedwa kapena wosakondedwa. Komabe, chikhulupiliro chimenecho sichinthu chachilendo.
Pamene anthu ambiri amadziwa momwe matenda opatsirana pogonana amachitira, zimakhala zovuta kuweruza wina chifukwa chokhala nawo. Komabe, ngati mwalowa internalized stigma, zingakhale zovuta kuti muthe. Ndibwino kuti muzigwira ntchito, ngakhale. Zimakhala zovuta kupeza munthu woti akukondeni pamene muli ndi vuto lodzikonda nokha.
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe chingathandize ndikugwirizanitsa ndi anthu ena omwe athandizidwa ndi matenda a STD ndikubwera kumbali ina.
Magulu othandizira ena omwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, monga herpes ndi HIV, amapezeka onse payekha komanso pa intaneti.
Pakhala pali chiwerengero chowonjezeka cha malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ngakhale kuti ali ndi zolinga zabwino, iwo angapangitse kuti azikhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Iwo samalimbikitsa kukambirana za chiopsezo cha kugonana monga momwe amachitira.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti, ngati muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, palibe chifukwa chochepetsera chibwenzi chanu kwa anthu ena omwe ali ndi STD yomweyo. Izi ndi zoona makamaka chifukwa chochita zimenezi siziteteza kugonana kosayenera. Kuonjezera apo, chibwenzi sichikukhudza ngati muli ndi kachilombo ka HIV kapena matenda a tizilombo.
Ndizofuna kupeza wina woti agawane mbali zina pamoyo wanu. Ngati chinthu chokha chomwe mumagwirizana ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, sindiwo maziko abwino a chiyanjano .
Kuganizira za Ngozi
Aliyense amalekerera chifukwa cha matenda a STD ndi osiyana. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ena sangathe kuganiza kuti sakugwiritsa ntchito zolepheretsa kugonana. Anthu ena amakonda kukondana ndi mnzanu atakhala limodzi kwa kanthawi.
Mwanjira iliyonse, ndizofunika kulingalira za nkhawa zanu ndi zokonda zanu momveka bwino. Palibe cholakwika pakuganiza kuti asiye kugonana bwinobwino ndi mnzanuyo . Mukungofuna kutero ndi maso otseguka potsata zotsatirapo. Izi zikutanthauza kuzindikira zowopsa ndi momwe mungachepetsere. Mwachitsanzo, wina angafunse mnzanuyo zilonda zozizira ngati akufuna kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo asanayambe kugonana mosalankhula.
Ma ARV ndi Kuchita Chiwawa
Anthu omwe ali ndi chiwawa cha chibwenzi ali pachiopsezo chowonjezereka chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana. Ndipotu, ali ndi chiopsezo chachikulu chotenga kachilombo kawiri kawiri. Mwachidule, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti anthu omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zapabanja sangathe kukhala ndi mphamvu zokambirana za kugonana mosamala.
Komabe, matenda opatsirana pogonana angathenso kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi wolakwira kuti azilamulira mnzawo kapena kuwasunga paubale wosayenera. Nkhanza zomwe zimagwiridwa ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana zingachititse anthu kuganiza kuti ali ndi chiwawa kapena sakuyenera. Izo si zoona.
Ngati wina akugwiritsa ntchito matenda opatsirana pogonana kuti akulepheretseni kukhala paubwenzi woipa, funsani. Kugwiritsira ntchito matenda opatsirana pogonana kuti asokoneze mnzanuyo sikukhudza chikondi. Ndi za mphamvu.
Mawu Ochokera
Kukhala ndi chibwenzi chogonana sikungokhala pangozi. Komanso za chisangalalo. Ambiri ophunzitsa za kugonana akusunthira ku lingaliro lovomerezeka mwachangu . Chilolezo chokhutiritsa chimatanthauza kuti anthu amangogonana ndi abwenzi omwe amafunadi kukhala nawo. Ndicho cholinga chokongola kwambiri. Ndi chimodzimodzi chomwe chimayamba ndi chidziwitso chadzidzidzi.
Pa nkhani yaumoyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana, chidziwitso chodziwika bwino chili ndi zigawo zingapo zofunika kwambiri:
- Kudziwa matenda anu a STD. Izi zikuphatikizapo kudziŵa kuti kuyesa kwa STD sikunali koyenera . Ndi chinachake chimene mukufunikira kufunsa.
- Kudziwa matenda a STD. Izi zikuphatikizapo kulankhula za nthawi yomaliza yomwe ayesedwa komanso zomwe anayesedwa.
- Kudziwa njira zomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito njira za kulera, ngati njira zowathandiza kulera ndi zofunikira.
- Kudziwa ngati mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu akufunafuna zinthu zomwezo monga kugonana monga momwe muliri. Ngati mmodzi wa inu afuna kuima usiku umodzi ndi wina kukhala ndi moyo wautali, ndizovuta zopweteka.
Pambuyo pake, ndi nthawi yoganizira za changu. Kodi mukufuna kugonana ndi mnzanuyo? Kodi tsopano ndi nthawi yabwino kapena zingakhale bwino kuyembekezera? Kodi ndi zinthu zina ziti zomwe mumakonda? Kodi amagawana chisangalalo chanu kapena akuganiza ngati lingaliro lolondola?
Kumbukirani kuti simukuyenera kugonana nthawi yomweyo. Ngati nonse mukufuna kutero, ndizo zabwino. Komabe, palibe cholakwika ndi kuyembekezera nthawi ndi malo omwe amachitira inu nonse. Nthawi zina, kutenga nthawi kumangokupatsani mpata wokhala oona mtima komanso omasuka. Izi siziri chinthu choyipa pakubweretsa ubale wabwino, wogonana.
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