Sikuti maubwenzi onse ndi abwino. Kudziwa matenda opatsirana pogonana si chifukwa chokhalira ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina. Komabe, momwe mnzanuyo amagwiririra kuti matendawa angakupatseni malingaliro abwino a khalidwe lake. Zingakuthandizeninso kudziwa ngati ubale wanu ndi wabwino.
Pali anthu ozunza amene angagwiritse ntchito matenda opatsirana pogonana pofuna kuyesa kapena kuvulaza anzawo.
Izi kawirikawiri zimachitika mwa kuwonetsa mwachangu wokondedwa ku matenda opatsirana pogonana kuti awoneke kuti ali osokonezeka. Zitha kukhazikitsanso pogwiritsa ntchito matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe akupezekapo kuti athetsere kudzikonda kwawo.
Kuwongolera Mwachikondi Okondedwa Awo
Anthu omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka matenda osasinthasintha nthawi zambiri amamva kuti awonongeka, akuda, kapena amanyazi . Ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri angathe kuthana ndi malingaliro awo ndi nthawi ndi uphungu, anthu ena osayenerera komanso ozunza adzapatsirana mwachangu wokondedwa wawo ndi matenda awo opatsirana pogonana. Cholinga chawo ndi kupangitsa manyazi omwewo komanso kusunga wokondedwa wawo nthawi zonse.
Zotsatira Zina:
- "Chabwino, ngati ndimupatsa herpes, ndiye kuti ayenera kukhala ndi ine."
- "Tsopano mwawonongeka, nanunso mukhoza kukhala ndi ine chifukwa palibe wina amene angakhale nanu."
- "Tsopano popeza muli ndi matendawa, palibe wina amene angakukondeni. Ngati mutasiya ine, mudzakhala nokha kwa moyo wanu wonse."
Chowonadi ndi chakuti aliyense amene akukuchititsani mwachangu ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndikukuuzani kuti muyenera kukhala naye chifukwa "mwawonongeka," "wonyansa," "wosakondedwa," kapena kufotokozedwa kwina kulibe aliyense yemwe muyenera kukhala naye mu ubale ndi. Ziribe kanthu ngati zochita zawo zimachokera ku chisokonezo kapena kudzidetsa.
Kudziwitsa mwachangu munthu amene ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, n'cholinga choti agwiritse ntchito matendawa kuti awononge moyo wa mnzako, ndi wankhanza komanso wozunza. Ndi chizindikiro chabwino kuti mukufunikira kupeza njira yabwino yopezera ubalewu mofulumira.
Izi zati, ndikofunika kuvomereza kuti n'zotheka kuti anthu awonekere anzawo omwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana mosazindikira. Mwachitsanzo, izi zimachitika ngati wina ali ndi kachilombo koyambitsa matenda omwe sakudziwa. Ndiyeneranso kutchula kuti anthu ena amadziwulula mwadzidzidzi abwenzi awo ku matenda opatsirana pogonana chifukwa cha manyazi, kusadziŵa, kapena kunyalanyazidwa osati nkhanza. Ngakhale kuti zochitika zoterezi zingakhale zopanda kukhulupilira ndi kulephera kwa kuyankhulana, sikuti nthawi zonse amachitira nkhanza.
Kukupangitsani inu kuganiza kuti palibe amene adzakukondani chifukwa muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana
Pamene chiyanjano chayamba kuipa, anthu ena amatha kugwiritsa ntchito njira iliyonse yomwe angathere kuti asachoke. Njira imodzi imatha kuuza wokondedwa wawo kuti sizidzatheka kuti apeze watsopano chifukwa adapezeka kuti ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana.
Zotsatira Zina:
- "Iwe uli ndi mwayi kuti wandipeza ine, palibe wina amene angakhale nawe momwe iwe ulili."
- "Simungandisiye. Simudzapeza munthu wina amene angakuvomerezeni."
- "Chifukwa chokha chimene ndingathe kuyang'ana kupitirira matenda anu ndi chakuti ndakudziwani kwa zaka zambiri. Palibe wina amene angatenge nthawi yodetsa nkhawa."
Musakhulupirire bodza. Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe ali otseguka komanso oona mtima pazomwe amapeza amapeza zachikondi zogonana komanso zachikondi. Ma ARV ali ofala kwambiri. Pali anthu kunja komwe omwe saganizira kuti matenda alionse a STD adzakhala "osweka."
Ndizoona kuti anthu ena omwe mungafune kukwatirana nawo sangathe kuthana ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Komabe, zimenezo sizikutanthauza kuti n'zosatheka kupeza chikondi. Nthawi zambiri anthu amasankha kutenga zoopsa zokhala ndi munthu amene amamudera nkhawa.
Zowopsazi zingaphatikizepo mwayi wokhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana. Nthawi zambiri samawoneka ngati chinthu chachikulu pamene mukusankha kukhala ndi munthu amene mumamukonda.
Mfundo Yofunika Kwambiri
Chifukwa chakuti muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, ngakhale osachiritsika, sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Pali njira zothandizira onse ndi matenda anu ndi kuchoka mu ubalewu.
Ma ARV sakupangitsani munthu woipa, munthu wonyansa kapena wina wosayenera chikondi. Ma STD si chiweruzo chochokera kwa Mulungu. Sizisonyezo kuti simukuyenera kukhala osangalala.
Matenda a STD Sali chifukwa Chokhalira ndi Ubale Woipa
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