Kuwerenga Bukhu: Khansara Yomwe Sitikanatha

Nkhani kwa Ana About Canast Metastatic

Funso lina lovuta kwambiri limene ndapatsidwa kuchokera kwa amayi omwe angophunzira kumene ndikupitirizabe, "Ndiwawuza bwanji ana anga aang'ono kuti ndili ndi khansara ya m'mawere?" Funso lovuta kwambiri lidzakhala lakuti, "Ndiwauza bwanji ana anga kuti ndili ndi kansa ya m'mawere, khansa yomwe siidzachoka konse? Kodi ndimapangitsa bwanji kuti amvetsetse, popanda kuwaopseza kwambiri, kuti mankhwala anga satha? "

Ine sindiri wothandizira, kapena wogwira ntchito zapamwamba; Ine ndine mphunzitsi mwa maphunziro ndi chidziwitso. Kotero lingaliro langa loyamba pamene mkazi andifunsa za momwe angayankhulire ndi mwana wake za momwe amachitira ndi matenda ake, ndikulangiza kuti ayambe kukamba ndi wothandizira kapena wothandizira, makamaka omwe akulimbikitsidwa ndi membala wa gulu lake la chisamaliro cha oncology. Malingaliro anga achiwiri kawirikawiri amalimbikitsa kuwerenga buku kapena ziwiri zokhudza kulankhula ndi mwana wanu za khansa ya m'mawere. Ngakhale kuti mabuku sali m'malo mwa kufunafuna uphungu wamaluso, amapereka ndemanga pa zomwe zimathandiza ana kuthana ndi khansa ya kholo.

Pali mabuku owerengeka, olembedwa ndi opulumuka, omwe amalankhula ndi zomwe ana angayang'ane pamene amayi amapita kuchipatala cha khansa yoyambirira, osati khansa ya metastatic. Mabuku awa akukhudza kusintha kwa maonekedwe a amayi, kutaya mphamvu, ndi zinthu zina zomwe zidzakhudze miyoyo ya ana panthawi yake yopanda malire, yogwira ntchito.

Pali mabuku omwe amakumana ndi mapeto a moyo. Mpaka posachedwa, sindinapeze mabuku aliwonse omwe amakumana ndi ana ang'onoang'ono omwe akulimbana ndi khansa ya makolo omwe tsopano akuchiritsidwa ngati matenda aakulu.

M'buku lake lakuti The Cancer That Will Not Go, Hadassa Field anakwanitsa kuphatikizapo nkhani yokhudza matenda osokoneza bongo, komanso gawo la "momwe angathere" kuti agwiritse ntchito nkhaniyi kuti ana aang'ono aziyankhula za mantha awo, mkwiyo wawo, ndi kumvetsa chisoni pamene kholo lili ndi khansa yambiri.

Nkhaniyi ndi yonyenga. Ndi masamba ambirimbiri, ndipo akuphatikizapo zithunzi zovuta, ndi Christina G. Smith. Zithunzi za kunyumba ndi banja ndizozidziwika kwa ana ambiri. Amathandizira nkhaniyi.

Potsatira nkhaniyi, gawo, lolembedwa ndi Rinat R.Green, Psy. D., Mwana, Wachichepere ndi Wachibale Wopwetekedwa ndi Banja amapereka malingaliro a momwe angagwiritsire ntchito nkhaniyi monga kholo, wothandizira, kapena mphunzitsi.

Nkhaniyi ndi ya mnyamata wina dzina lake Max, bambo ake, ndi amayi ake omwe ali ndi khansa kachiwiri, komanso momwe akulimbana ndi khansa ya metastatic monga banja. Nkhaniyi sichidziwika mtundu wa khansa ya khansa yomwe imakhala nayo, yomwe imapangitsa kuti owerenga ambiri aziwerenga.

Cholinga cha nkhaniyi ndi zomwe Max akumverera kuphatikizapo chisokonezo, mantha, mkwiyo ndi chisoni. Pamapeto pa nkhaniyi akuphunzira kulimbana ndi kusatsimikizika kokhala ndi matenda a mayi ake.

Khansara Yomwe Sitikanatha Ndi ntchito ya chikondi, ndi Hadassa Field ndi Sara Mosak Saiger pokumbukira mlongo wawo, Ahuva Rachel Prager, amene anapezeka ndi khansa ya metastatic ali ndi zaka 27. Ahuva ankafuna kufotokozera zochitika zake kwa ana ake aang'ono, koma sanapeze mabuku aliwonse omwe ankalankhula za khansa ya mthupi mwachidziwitso.

Kansa Yomwe Sitikanatha Kukafika poyesa kuthandiza ana aang'ono awiri a Ahuva kumvetsa zomwe zikuchitika kwa amayi awo. Ahuva anafa khansa ya m'mawere ali ndi zaka 32.

Nkhaniyi ndi yovuta komanso yeniyeni yofotokozera zomwe mwana wamng'ono angakumane nazo ngati mayi ake ali ndi khansa yambiri. Nkhaniyi imatsimikizira mmene mwana amamvera mumtima mwake. KusadziƔa momwe kholo lidzakhalire kuyambira tsiku lina kupita kwina ndizosautsika kwa mwana. Nkhaniyi ikugogomezera kukhala ndi moyo lero, kusangalala ndi masiku abwino ndi mayi, ndikudziwa kuti padzakhala masiku omwe sakumva bwino.

Gawo la "momwe mungathere" limapereka mauthenga othandiza kwa makolo momwe angayankhulire ndi mwana wamng'onoyo pogwiritsa ntchito nkhaniyi kuti atsogolere kukambirana za khansa ya m'mawere. Izi zikusonyeza kuti opaleshoni amagwiritsa ntchito nkhaniyi ngati chida chogwira ntchito osati mwana aliyense m'banja, payekha, komanso pamisonkhano ya banja. Aphunzitsi, alangizi othandizira komanso akatswiri a zamaganizo a sukulu angapezenso nkhani yothandiza pamene mukugwira ntchito ndi mwana yemwe ali ndi khansara ya mthupi.

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