Momwe mungapindulitsire kwambiri pa zokambirana zovuta
Kuuza abwana anu kuti muli ndi kansa ya m'mawere kumabweretsa chisokonezo.
Simungadziwe momwe bwana wanu angayankhire kapena momwe angathandizire. Mwina simunawauzepo bwana wanu chilichonse chokha komanso chachinsinsi ndipo mukuwopa kuti zidzasintha momwe mumagwirira ntchito.
Tengani nthawi kuti mudziwe ubwino wouza abwana anu za matenda anu komanso mafunso ena othandiza omwe mungafunse.
Kukhala wokonzekera kukambirana uku kungakulimbikitseni ndikukhazika mtima pansi.
Ubwino Wouza Wogwira Ntchito Wanu Zokhudza Khansa Yanu
Nazi zifukwa zabwino zoperekera bwana wanu za matenda a kansa ya m'mawere:
- Mudzatetezedwa ku ntchito yosankhidwa ndi malamulo a ADA ngati bwana wanu adziwa za matenda anu.
- Muyenera kudwala kanthawi kochepa kuti mupeze chithandizo cha khansa ndi kuchira. Bwana wanu akhoza kukugwirizanitsani ndi ofesi ya Human Resources kuti mutha kulandira maola ena odwala odwala komanso madalitso a FMLA.
- Zotsatira za mankhwala anu zingasokoneze ntchito yanu, koma funsani abwana anu kuti akuthandizeni kapena malo ogona.
Dzikonzekere Wekha Musanalankhule Kwa Bwana Wanu
Musanauzane abwana anu nkhaniyi, ganizirani mfundo zomwe adzafunikire kudziwa ndikudziŵe zambiri zomwe mukufuna kugawira.
Mwinanso mumadziwa kuti mukudwala matenda otani , khalani ndi ndondomeko ya mankhwala ndikukonzekera momwe zimakhudzira nthawi yanu kuntchito.
Lembani izi ndipo ngati mungafunike kupempha malo abwino, onaninso omwewo.
Ngati mulibe zambiri zambiri, kambiranani zomwe mumadziwa ndikukonzekera kuti mukhale owona mtima.
Kukhala ndi Kukambirana Za Khansa
Ikani mawu abwino pa zokambiranazo ndipo bwana wanu adzalandira zomwe akuchita.
- Ngati mukuchita mantha, werengani malemba anu okonzekera pamene mukuwuza bwana wanu za momwe mukudziwira.
- Kumbukirani, ngati bwana wanu akufunsani funso lokhudza matenda anu kapena kuti mulibe yankho lokonzekera, ndibwino kunena kuti, "Sindikudziwa, koma ndikupeza ndikudziwitsani."
- Funsani kuti zokambirana zanu zapadera ndi abwana anu zisunge zobisika.
- Khalani owona mtima za momwe mumamvera. Simukuyenera kubisa maganizo anu, koma yesetsani kusunga misozi yanu kuti musayambe kukambirana.
- Sungani zolemba za zomwe mudakambirana, ndi ndani, ndi liti. Lembani izi pansi pa "Zolemba za Ntchito" mu bukhu lanu la zathanzi.
Pezani Nkhani Yolunjika pa Chodwalitsa Chodwala
Mukawauza abwana anu kuti muli ndi kansa ya m'mawere, ndi nthawi yoti mufunse mafunso ndi kulemba zolemba.
- Bwana wanu ayenera kudziwa yemwe ali wabwino kwambiri kuti ayankhule naye ku ofesi ya Human Resources.
- Mukhoza kupempha Pulogalamu Yopuma Yotsata ndi malangizo a momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito Phukusi la Odwala Pomwe Wogwira ntchitoyo ali nawo.
- Onetsetsani kuti mufunse momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito maola a FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) ngati mukufuna.
- Wobwana wanu angafunike chizindikiritso cha matenda anu - funsani mtundu wa chizindikiritso umene udzafunike.
- Ngati ndalama zingakhale zovuta, funsani ngati pali Employee Assistance Programs .
- Pezani ngati pali gulu lothandizira khansa mu kampani yanu ndi momwe mungagwirizanitsire nalo.
- Ngati mwasankha kuti musagwiritse ntchito mankhwala opatsirana ndi khansa, funsani ngati mungathe kubweza inshuwalansi yanu kudzera pulogalamu ya COBRA .
Mfundo Zowunika Ponena za Wogwira Ntchito Wanu
Ngakhale zingakhale zovuta, ndizofuna kuuza bwana wanu za matenda a khansa yanu. Mudzapeza chitetezo cha ntchito, nthawi yowonjezera yodwala, ndi malo ogona oti muthandize kugwira ntchito pa chithandizo cha khansa ya m'mawere.
- Konzekerani nokha, khalani chete, ndipo khalani ndi chikhulupiliro.
- Sungani mapepala onse okhudza kalata yanu yodwala, zovomerezeka zachipatala, ndondomeko za kampani, ndipo onetsetsani kusunga makope aliwonse kapena malemba omwe munatenga.
- Ngati simukukayikira ndipo mukufuna malangizo othandizira momwe mungalankhulire ndi bwana wanu, lankhulani ndi wogwira ntchito zachipatala, wothandizira, kapena wodwalayo wotsutsa za ntchito.
- Pitirizani kulankhulana momasuka pakati pa inu ndi abwana anu. Iwo akhoza kukhala mmodzi wa othandizira anu aakulu.
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Munthu Amene Mumagwira Naye Ntchito Ali ndi khansa. Otsogolera Omwe Angakhoze Kuchita. American Cancer Society. Zosinthidwa Kotsiriza: 05/10/2010.